{"id":30122,"date":"2018-12-15T19:51:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-15T19:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30122"},"modified":"2022-02-14T23:37:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T23:37:46","slug":"as-raparigas-mais-fortes-tem-pais-de-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-raparigas-mais-fortes-tem-pais-de-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"As raparigas mais fortes t\u00eam pais de merda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um pai de merda, aprende-se a tomar conta de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/i><\/b> You don’t wait for people to help you to solve your problems but you do that on your own.<\/p>\n

And you don’t do that because you want to but because you have to. Because no matter whether you want to or not, there is nobody around to protect you and to take care of you. You need to do it all by yourself.<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um <\/i><\/b>pai de merda<\/i><\/b>, <\/i><\/b><\/a>deixas de acreditar no amor.<\/i><\/b> You don\u2019t think anyone could love you since the closest member of your family didn\u2019t love you. He didn\u2019t fight for you.<\/p>\n

He was never there for you, to tell you how proud he is for everything that you accomplished. So you don\u2019t understand how someone else, a total stranger, could embrace you and love you to infinity just the way you are.<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um pai de merda, aprende-se a estabelecer limites. <\/i><\/b>N\u00e3o tolera as merdas das pessoas que o rodeiam, mesmo que elas estejam apenas a ter um dia mau.<\/p>\n

You will cut off every problem with people as soon as they pop up and even if you will sometimes be rough with them, you won\u2019t feel bad about it.<\/p>\n

Because that is the only way you can function. That is your defense mechanism and you don\u2019t know any better. That is the real you.<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um pai de merda, vai-se sentir a falta de amor durante toda a vida.<\/i><\/b> E por mais pessoas que apare\u00e7am e te d\u00eaem tudo o que t\u00eam, continuar\u00e1 a haver um buraco no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e0 espera que algu\u00e9m especial o venha preencher.<\/p>\n

There will be a void but unfortunately it will never be completely filled. You will always miss your father\u2019s love and affection and you will carry that sorrow with you toda a sua vida<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

When you are raised by a shitty father, you will be convinced that you don\u2019t deserve love.<\/i><\/b> Because if your father couldn\u2019t love you, then something is wrong with you.<\/p>\n

And you will have low self-esteem your entire life, thinking it was all your fault. You will believe you are a failure and that because of this, even your father couldn\u2019t accept you the way you are.<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um pai de merda, tem-se uma perspetiva diferente da vida.<\/i><\/b> V\u00ea as coisas como elas s\u00e3o e n\u00e3o como quer que elas sejam.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t daydream but you stick to what you can do with your own two hands. You never ask for help from anyone and you learn to stand up for yourself.<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um pai de merda, aprende-se a ser forte e independente.<\/i><\/b> You don\u2019t ask for anyone\u2019s help and you handle your problems by yourself.<\/p>\n

You are your own best friend because you struggle to trust people. You don\u2019t want anyone you have to rely on because you do that for yourself the best. You are your own rock and you don\u2019t need anyone to save you.<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 criado por um pai de merda, aprende-se que a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil.<\/i><\/b> E, por isso, decide ser o mais forte poss\u00edvel. Consegues tudo o que queres de uma forma justa e nunca imploras a ningu\u00e9m para te ajudar.<\/p>\n

Rodeia-se de pessoas positivas porque um homem t\u00f3xico foi suficiente para toda a sua vida.<\/p>\n

Quando somos criados por um pai de merda, esfor\u00e7amo-nos por ser t\u00e3o diferentes dele quanto poss\u00edvel.<\/i><\/b> You even change the way you take a drink just so someone won\u2019t say you are like your dad. You change from the root, with all your power, so people won\u2019t see how much alike you are.<\/p>\n

Quando se tem um pai de merda, faz-se tudo o que est\u00e1 ao nosso alcance para ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. N\u00e3o porque queiras, mas porque desejas que os teus filhos nunca tenham de passar por tudo aquilo por que passaste.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be anything similar to the one who created you and abandoned you. You want to be more than that.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be someone your kids would be ashamed of but rather a person they will be proud of.<\/p>\n

Christine is the author of \u2018Encarando os olhos da ansiedade e da depress\u00e3o<\/span><\/a>\u2019, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n

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