{"id":30189,"date":"2018-12-17T08:40:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-17T08:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30189"},"modified":"2022-01-21T11:49:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T11:49:11","slug":"uma-carta-sentida-ao-homem-que-amo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-sentida-ao-homem-que-amo\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta sentida para o homem que amo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez conheceu algu\u00e9m e sentiu-se imediatamente ligado, como se houvesse fa\u00edscas a voar do seu corpo para o corpo dessa pessoa e a faz\u00ea-lo tremer?<\/p>\n<p>That little voice inside your head kept whispering silently: \u201cThis is fate. This place between his arms is where I\u2019ve always supposed to have been.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s just a part of everything I feel when I am with him. That\u2019s why <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-ao-homem-que-deus-me-prometeu\/\">esta carta \u00e9 dirigida ao homem que amo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Estava quase a adormecer quando todas estas emo\u00e7\u00f5es se apoderaram de mim e tive de come\u00e7ar a escrever. H\u00e1 tantas coisas que quero que saibam e nunca tenho a oportunidade de as dizer, por isso acho que \u00e9 altura de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p><b>Para come\u00e7ar, quero agradecer-vos por me terem ensinado o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>All I felt for some other people before you doesn\u2019t even come close to what I feel for you now. Your presence in my life, your way of loving me, overshadowed all <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-coisas-que-acontecem-conhecer-bom-rapaz-relacao-toxica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esses per\u00edodos t\u00f3xicos<\/span><\/a> of my life. Now they are just a memory that&#8217;s slowly fading away.<\/p>\n<p>You showed me that love doesn\u2019t have to be pushed, pulled and forced. It flows effortlessly when two people are on the same page. I wish I had realized that sooner. I would&#8217;ve spared myself a lot of heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quero que saibas que me tornei a melhor vers\u00e3o de mim mesma porque fui amada por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30199 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Quero que saibas que me tornei a melhor vers\u00e3o de mim mesma porque fui amada por ti.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-3.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because I was loved the right way to be more precise. You were the one who believed in me even when I wasn\u2019t able to do that myself. You turned my \u2018can\u2019ts\u2019 into \u2018cans\u2019. You are my inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>I am excelling at my job. I am earning more money, and I\u2019m planning on buying myself a car. I am learning new things. I am traveling and exploring the world close to me as well as parts which are a bit further away.<\/p>\n<p>Tenho uma vida social melhor e os meus amigos e familiares est\u00e3o a ver todas as mudan\u00e7as positivas que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o me trouxe. Eles tamb\u00e9m est\u00e3o gratos por eu estar contigo e gostam de ti porque me fazes feliz.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou distra\u00eddo dos meus objectivos por algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 a plantar inseguran\u00e7as no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a impedir-me de avan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<p>Agora tenho um homem confiante e amante de mim pr\u00f3prio ao meu lado que me quer ver prosperar e estou muito grata por isso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tears come rolling down my face sometimes, but don\u2019t worry. They are tears of joy because now I see that everything in my life was just a path to you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Acho que tudo tinha de ser assim. Tive de passar por toda aquela dor e sofrimento para poder apreciar toda esta harmonia e felicidade que tenho agora.<\/p>\n<p>I was broken and bent more times than I can remember. And I am not just the love wrecks I survived. Life was so cruel and unfair to me at times that I thought that I wouldn\u2019t make it out alive.<\/p>\n<p>Mas eu fazia-o. Levantava-me da cama de manh\u00e3, independentemente da forma como me sentia. Empurrava-me para a frente com todas as minhas for\u00e7as, pois sabia, l\u00e1 no fundo, que no fim deste caminho seria recompensada com amor.<\/p>\n<p><b>Obrigado por seres algu\u00e9m com quem posso realmente falar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Talvez vos pare\u00e7a um disparate e digam que sou louca por vos agradecer por uma coisa t\u00e3o simples, mas, para mim, significa muito.<\/p>\n<p>Adoro o facto de poder vir ter contigo para falar de tudo. Que posso falar contigo sobre os meus planos para o futuro, os meus sonhos e os meus problemas. Estou grata porque tamb\u00e9m partilhas os teus comigo.<\/p>\n<p>My day lights up when you send a text asking how my day went. It\u2019s one of those little things that bring the greatest joy.<\/p>\n<p><b>Obrigada por me acompanharem nos meus pequenos dramas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30200 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Obrigada por me acompanharem nos meus pequenos dramas.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-4.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know I have those. I know I have moments when I snap at you for no reason or because you said something I didn\u2019t want to hear at that moment.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not your fault, and you can\u2019t read my mind. I know I can be a handful at times, but you are managing more than fine. You have your ways to calm me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Obrigado por n\u00e3o nos deixarem ir para a cama zangados. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que discutimos, fazemos o nosso melhor para fazer as pazes. \u00c9 certo que podemos precisar de algumas horas para arrefecer a cabe\u00e7a e ver as coisas de uma perspetiva diferente, mas conseguimos sempre encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Comprometemo-nos. Encontramo-nos a meio caminho porque colocamos sempre o nosso amor \u00e0 frente dos nossos problemas.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s never about who wins or loses the argument. We know that if we don\u2019t find the solution, we will both end up being the losers.<\/p>\n<p>I love that you apologize when you realize that you\u2019ve done something wrong. I love that you don\u2019t place the blame on me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Adoro aqueles momentos em que estamos a acordar e ainda estamos meio a dormir, e tu agarras em mim s\u00f3 para me puxar para mais perto e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/isto-e-o-que-significa-quando-um-gajo-nos-beija-o-pescoco\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>beija-me o pesco\u00e7o<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Adoro o facto de o afeto ser t\u00e3o natural para ti. Nunca tenho de pedir um beijo ou um abra\u00e7o porque tu d\u00e1s-me muitos.<\/p>\n<p>Aprecio cada momento que passamos juntos. Tudo o que para os outros pode parecer t\u00e3o insignificante \u00e9 t\u00e3o especial para mim.<\/p>\n<p>I love when we watch movies together and how we comment on things. I love when you tickle me even though I am pretending I\u2019m upset, and I\u2019m begging you to stop. I love when you tuck me in. I love the way you are.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tudo contigo parece certo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30202 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Tudo contigo parece certo.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-5.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I guess that\u2019s what happens when you find yourself in a healthy and loving relationship. It all seems so natural and effortless.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because we both want each other. We both want this to work, and we are ready to do anything for it. It\u2019s because we both care deeply for one another. It\u2019s because we are on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>I guess that\u2019s what happens when love is true. You feel that you\u2019ve ended up where you\u2019re always supposed to have been. You find your home in one person that God sent to this planet just to find you.<\/p>\n<p><b>E levaste o teu tempo a encontrar-me. Esperei muito tempo por ti. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E sabes que mais? Tenho de admitir que valeu a pena esperar e, no final, vieste mesmo quando era suposto. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I always rolled my eyes when people would say: \u201cThe right one will come when you least expect him.\u201d I know now that they were right. But I have to be honest. I would have preferred if you had hurried up and come a bit sooner.<\/p>\n<p>Mas agora est\u00e1s aqui, e nada disso importa. Talvez o teu timing estivesse certo porque eu era mais forte quando te conheci. Nessa altura, j\u00e1 tinha aprendido a amar-me. Estava satisfeito com a minha vida, e estava a caminho de fazer algo dela.<\/p>\n<p>Tu apenas adicionaste \u00e0 minha vida. Acrescentaste \u00e0 minha felicidade. Aumentaste a minha felicidade e tornaste-a maior.<\/p>\n<p>I really am grateful for you, for us and for the chance to feel this way. Thank you for being your incredible self, and please, don\u2019t ever change. You are everything I ever wanted in life and more.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><em>To the man I love\u2026.<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>&#8230; with all my love. <\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>L.<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30195 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta sentida para o homem que amo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Learning-To-Love-Yourself-Sometimes-Means-You-Need-To-Stop-Loving-Him-2.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever met someone and felt instantly connected, like sparks were flying from your body to theirs and made it tremble? That little voice inside your head kept whispering silently: \u201cThis is fate. This place between his arms is where I\u2019ve always supposed to have been.\u201d Well, that\u2019s just a part of everything I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":30193,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/beautiful-beverage-black-coffee-1410225.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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