Instead of waiting for him to do something about it, to read your mind and to magically find out about your feelings, you\u2019ve decided to ask him out on a date. But you don\u2019t know how to do it.
\nWell, you\u2019ve come to the right place because you are about to read 12 proven ways and pieces of advice on how to ask a guy you like on a date.<\/p>\n
1. Pense nas suas expectativas<\/h2>\n
Antes de convidar um rapaz de quem gosta para sair, em primeiro lugar, tem de ser clara e honesta consigo pr\u00f3pria. Pense nas suas expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a este encontro.<\/p>\n
Onde tenciona tra\u00e7ar a linha se o primeiro encontro<\/a> happens? How far are you ready to go for him to say \u2018yes\u2019 to your invitation?<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que espera deste encontro? Quer conhec\u00ea-lo melhor e ver at\u00e9 onde a noite vos leva?<\/p>\n Ou tenciona convid\u00e1-lo para sua casa se o encontro for bem sucedido? V\u00ea este rapaz como o seu futuro namorado e algu\u00e9m com quem pode desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais profunda, se ele estiver disposto a isso?<\/p>\n Espera que ele aceite sair consigo imediatamente? Ou acha que existe a possibilidade de ele rejeitar a sua proposta?<\/p>\n These are all the questions you should ask yourself before making the first move. Even though it is clear that you can\u2019t have an impact how everything will turn out, and you can\u2019t know his view on things, it is important for you to know what you want. This way, you\u2019ll prepare yourself more, and you\u2019ll have a chance to play your cards just right.<\/p>\n O pr\u00f3ximo passo deve ser tentar perceber se esse rapaz gosta de si. Ele v\u00ea-a como mais do que uma amiga ou pensa em si como um dos rapazes? \u00c9 poss\u00edvel que ele tamb\u00e9m goste de si, mas \u00e9 t\u00edmido e tem medo de ser rejeitado?<\/p>\n If this is someone you talk to on a regular basis, pay close attention to the non-verbal signs he\u2019s been sending you. Can you see any signs of flirting in this man\u2019s behavior?<\/p>\n Ele toca no seu bra\u00e7o ou perna quando est\u00e1 a falar? Tenta manter o contacto visual? Elogia-a? Faz o poss\u00edvel para a fazer rir?<\/p>\n Se a resposta a pelo menos algumas destas perguntas for positiva, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que \u00f3bvio que ele gosta de si, mas tem dificuldade em dar o primeiro passo. Lembre-se de que nem todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais e que alguns deles, incluindo este, precisam de um pouco mais de garantias de que a rapariga de quem gostam tamb\u00e9m gosta deles antes de a convidar para sair.<\/p>\n If this is the case with the object of your affection, just go for it. Propose a date activity for the two of you, and I promise you that you won\u2019t get a \u2018no\u2019 for an answer.<\/p>\n But on the other hand, there is the possibility that the man you like isn\u2019t showing you any hints that he might see you as more than a friend. Or the two of you don\u2019t have any contact whatsoever, so you can\u2019t tell. This might be some random dude you saw in the bar or a friend of a friend.<\/p>\n De qualquer modo, quando \u00e9 este o caso, \u00e9 crucial que se exponha antes de dar qualquer passo. Ele tem de come\u00e7ar a perceb\u00ea-la como a mulher atraente que \u00e9 antes de deixar cair o convite.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be scared to flirt with him when you see him in person. Like his social media posts or \u201caccidentally\u201d show up somewhere where you know you could meet him.<\/p>\n O objetivo \u00e9 enviar-lhe sinais n\u00e3o verbais e ver se obt\u00e9m algum feedback. Certifique-se apenas de que n\u00e3o exagera e de que leva as coisas com calma.<\/p>\n Talking to the man you like, let alone asking him out on a date and making the first move, can be scary, and it is everything but easy. So don\u2019t beat yourself up if you are insecure about this. It is perfectly natural to feel this way.<\/p>\n Mas, por outro lado, o medo n\u00e3o a leva a lado nenhum e s\u00f3 pode fazer com que perca a sua oportunidade com ele. Por isso, o que precisa de fazer \u00e9 encontrar formas de aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a antes de dar esse passo.<\/p>\n Em vez de pensar em todas as formas de este homem pode rejeitar-te<\/a>pense de forma positiva. Em vez de pensar demasiado em tudo o que pode correr mal, seja otimista e pense no melhor cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Esteja certa das suas capacidades e livre-se de todos os pensamentos ansiosos e negativos que possam estar a passar pela sua cabe\u00e7a. E mesmo que se sinta nervosa quando se aproximar dele, d\u00ea o seu melhor para Go shopping or change your hairstyle\u2014whatever will make you feel better about yourself. Think about everything you\u2019ve accomplished in life so far, and stop considering this date as such a big deal.<\/p>\n Antes de o convidar para sair, pense em todas as boas qualidades que tem. Concentre-se nas coisas os homens acham atraente<\/a> sobre si e sobre as suas boas capacidades sociais.<\/p>\n Coloque-se em frente ao espelho e elogie-se. Descubra o que mais gosta em si e concentre-se nisso.<\/p>\n Lembra-te que \u00e9s inteligente, engra\u00e7ado e espirituoso. Tu consegues!<\/p>\n If you are too shy to ask a guy you like on a date, just ask him to hang out with friends. That will definitely take a lot of the pressure away. This way, you\u2019ll get a chance to get to know him better and to see if he has feelings for you without putting yourself out there too much and without taking a concrete step.<\/p>\n The only problem that might occur with this approach is that he might not get the hint. This man might think that you are really asking him out as one of your buddies and that might put you in the friend zone. And let\u2019s face it\u2014this is the last thing you want.<\/p>\n Por isso, o melhor que tem a fazer \u00e9 escolher bem esta atividade de grupo. Planeie algo que tamb\u00e9m lhe d\u00ea a oportunidade de passar algum tempo a s\u00f3s com ele.<\/p>\n The best type of a group date is one with couples, and make sure he knows it, as well. Be clear and don\u2019t make things awkward by putting him in a situation where he isn\u2019t aware of your intentions.<\/p>\n Another tip for asking a man out is to ask your mutual friend to talk to him. But don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me advising you to have your best friend ask this guy out on your behalf because that is something you should never allow to happen. The only way your friend can ask him out is on a group date, where you\u2019ll be present, as well.<\/p>\n Ter outra pessoa a fazer o seu trabalho e convidar o homem de quem gosta para um encontro em seu nome s\u00f3 mostra que \u00e9 demasiado imatura e insegura. \u00c9 infantil e mostra que est\u00e1 a dar muita import\u00e2ncia a tudo isto, o que s\u00f3 pode afastar este homem de si.<\/p>\n Instead, ask a friend just to talk to this guy about you, without making anything too obvious. Ask them to mention you in front of him or to propose inviting you to the next group activity. This can help you see this guy\u2019s reaction, and it will make him think of you more.<\/p>\n The next step into this process is thinking about the way you\u2019ll ask this guy out. Will you do it through a texto doce<\/a>? Vai fazer uma chamada telef\u00f3nica? Ou vai perguntar-lhe cara a cara?<\/p>\n One of the great ways to do it is just to write a little post-it note on which you\u2019ll leave your name and number. I know this might sound cheesy at first glance, but the truth is that it is quite romantic. Besides, it works like a charm with men you don\u2019t know so well, and it will lead you to success with a guy you keep seeing in the gym or with someone who goes to class with you but you don\u2019t have a chance to approach him.<\/p>\n If you plan on asking this guy out in person, make sure that the two of you are not in an overly crowded place while you do it. It can be awkward to make this proposition in front of other people, so choose a private place and a stress-free environment to take this step. I am not saying that you have to be alone with this man to ask him out, but make sure you pick a semi-isolated place where you\u2019ll have a chance to say what you have in mind without anyone interrupting you.<\/p>\n If you can\u2019t seem to catch this guy alone, approach him while he is with other people. Just ask him if you can get a second of his time, and move away from the group.<\/p>\n Lembre-se de iniciar a sua conversa com um pouco de conversa fiada antes de fazer a pergunta. Torne o ambiente o mais relaxante poss\u00edvel e, quando o fizer, fa\u00e7a a proposta, sem pausas dram\u00e1ticas e sem que pare\u00e7a uma grande coisa.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, se tiver demasiado medo de o convidar para sair pessoalmente, fa\u00e7a-o por telefone. \u00c9 muito melhor telefonar-lhe do que enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto, porque mostra que ainda tem um certo n\u00edvel de autoestima.<\/p>\n You can just start your conversation casually and proceed with telling him about your intentions. You might also add that he doesn\u2019t have to give you an answer right away. He can get back to you when he makes a decision. Just make sure not to sound too desperate!<\/p>\n Besides thinking about the place and the way in which you\u2019ll ask your crush on a date, you should have in mind that the timing is crucial as well. There is a huge difference between sending a late night drunk text or calling at a reasonable hour. That will also have an impact on his decision and the further course of events.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, seria fant\u00e1stico se fizesse uma pequena pesquisa sobre o passado deste homem, porque precisa de ter a certeza de que ele \u00e9 solteiro e est\u00e1 emocionalmente dispon\u00edvel antes de fazer qualquer coisa.<\/p>\n I know you expect him to tell you about his relationship status as soon as you starting talking about your potential date, but sadly, things aren\u2019t always like that, so it is better to be sure. The last thing you want is to be someone\u2019s hidden affair or rebound girl.<\/p>\n If you are shy about asking your crush on a date, a great way to do it is to make up an excuse for seeing him, and therefore, not make this get together an \u2018official\u2019 date. This way, you\u2019ll avoid the potential awkwardness, but you\u2019ll still have the chance of getting to conhecer melhor este homem<\/a> e de se aproximar dele.<\/p>\n If you guys work together or are in the same class, tell him that you need his help about a project. Tell him that there is something you don\u2019t understand regarding work or school and that you would appreciate if he could give you a hand. The same goes with men you meet at some other activities, such as language courses, the gym or some other sport you train on together.<\/p>\n Assim que conseguir que ele concorde em ajud\u00e1-lo, convide-o casualmente para um caf\u00e9. Pode at\u00e9 convid\u00e1-lo para um jantar, de forma a mostrar a sua gratid\u00e3o e apre\u00e7o.<\/p>\n But what if you can\u2019t think of anything you might need from your crush? Well, there is a solution for that, as well. Have you ever heard of the extra ticket trick, where you tell your crush that you have a spare ticket for an event that you\u2019d like to visit and that you know he would enjoy seeing?<\/p>\n Tamb\u00e9m pode dizer-lhe que precisa de algu\u00e9m que o acompanhe a uma atividade de grupo em que s\u00f3 haver\u00e1 casais. Seja qual for a sua escolha, certifique-se de que a sua paix\u00e3o percebe que quer ser mais do que amiga quando o convencer a sair consigo.<\/p>\n Um dos conselhos mais importantes que pode receber quando se trata de qualquer encontro rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 ser direto. E marcar o primeiro encontro n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n2. Ver se ele gosta de si<\/h2>\n
3. Refor\u00e7ar a sua confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n
\nque ele n\u00e3o a veja. Sim, um pouco de inseguran\u00e7a \u00e9 giro, mas em demasia pode afastar o rapaz.<\/p>\n4. Convid\u00e1-lo para sair com os amigos<\/h2>\n
5. Pedir a um amigo para falar com ele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Think of the way you\u2019ll ask him out<\/h2>\n
7. O timing \u00e9 tudo<\/h2>\n
8. Inventar uma desculpa para o convidar para sair<\/h2>\n
9. Ser direto<\/h2>\n