{"id":30273,"date":"2018-12-17T20:30:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-17T20:30:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30273"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:39:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:39:53","slug":"a-verdade-brutalmente-honesta-sobre-a-razao-pela-qual-nunca-se-fica-com-o-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-brutalmente-honesta-sobre-a-razao-pela-qual-nunca-se-fica-com-o-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade brutalmente honesta sobre a raz\u00e3o pela qual nunca se fica com o homem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perguntamo-nos sempre porque \u00e9 que acabamos sempre solteiros. Sempre que conheces um potencial novo interesse amoroso, a chama arde antes mesmo de ter a oportunidade de se acender. Nunca consegues agarrar-te a um rapaz o tempo suficiente para lhe chamares namorado e aceitas sempre qualquer desculpa esfarrapada que ele tenha para te deixar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo quando conhecemos um homem com quem temos muito em comum e as conversas s\u00e3o incrivelmente estimulantes, o nosso <\/span>qu\u00edmica textual<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 fora de s\u00e9rie e sente-se t\u00e3o sexualmente atra\u00edda por ele, que nunca parece ser suficiente para durar. Porque \u00e9 que acaba sempre assim?<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re baffled and annoyed! It\u2019s not like you\u2019re not a catch! You\u2019re good-looking, you\u2019re ambitious and you are not superficial. You have good values and you\u2019re kind to the people around you. So, what gives?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too serious.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think about it. You may still feel too young for marriage and kids but you\u2019re also too old for meaningless conversations and superficial values.<\/span><\/p>\n

At this point in your life, you\u2019re serious. Serious about your intentions with a significant other and serious about commitment. You no longer crave trivial chats through text but want a phone call from him asking how your day went.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want someone who\u2019s going to call you at 2 AM, drunk off his ass, screaming into your ear, very clearly wasted but rather a guy who\u2019s going to call at that ungodly hour to tell you he misses you and he can\u2019t wait to get home.<\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o procurais nada fraco ou vago, agora quereis o verdadeiro. Um compromisso. E os rapazes conseguem sentir isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, some men are intimidated as soon as they sense it and they\u2019re gone before you know it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pedes demasiado.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have standards. You have needs. You no longer settle for anything half-assed. You are perfectly capable of dealing with their wants and needs but they can\u2019t seem to handle yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pede-lhes tempo. Sabe que \u00e9 importante passar algum tempo juntos para poderem crescer e relacionar-se como casal. Exige interesse. Eles precisam de poder perguntar-lhe sobre o seu dia, sem que voc\u00ea precise de os lembrar.<\/span><\/p>\n

You demand trust. You want to be able to trust them when they\u2019re off doing their thing, the same way they know they can trust you. But they can\u2019t seem to return the favor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Never feel bad about needing commitment from a guy. A real relationship has to check all those boxes. If it doesn\u2019t, keep searching. <\/span>Um bom rapaz<\/span><\/a> tem de existir algures por a\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tens de ser a sua prioridade.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t ask for the moon and the stars. You don\u2019t ask for them to have eyes only for you. All you want and deserve is a guy who is never going to make you feel like you come second.<\/span><\/p>\n

He can still have his life. He can still hang out with his buddies. But you need to be high up on that priority list as well. You\u2019re not here to beg for anyone\u2019s attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some guys just can\u2019t deal with that. They feel like going off the radar for a few days without checking in is okay and then they make you the crazy one for asking why they didn\u2019t at least text that everything was all right.<\/span><\/p>\n

The right guy will always check on you. He will never make you feel crazy for needing a healthy amount of communication. So don\u2019t give up due to immature jerks. <\/span>Um homem de verdade<\/span><\/a> vai encontrar-te quando deixares de o procurar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meaningless flings don\u2019t interest you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You want a real conversation. You want to be able to confide in him and seek solace in his arms. You don\u2019t need a boy who\u2019s just going to nod at whatever you say and then go play video games.<\/span><\/p>\n

Queres uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Uma parceria. E alguns homens querem simplesmente um corpo atraente para quando se sentem sozinhos. Se continuar a encontrar esses homens, comece a procurar noutro lado.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are guys out there capable of giving you what you need out of a relationship. Just because you keep running into immature assholes doesn\u2019t mean a relationship is not meant for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos o nosso caminho a percorrer e o seu ainda est\u00e1 em curso. Seja paciente e espere por um homem que a veja por inteiro e saiba o seu valor. Nada mais vale o seu tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

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