{"id":30289,"date":"2020-08-18T07:58:35","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T07:58:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30289"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:50:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:50:12","slug":"7-tipos-diferentes-de-amor-baseados-nos-gregos-antigos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tipos-diferentes-de-amor-baseados-nos-gregos-antigos\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tipos diferentes de amor (baseados nos gregos antigos)"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are so many ways in which you can love but there is only one word for it. Isn\u2019t that sad? There are so many feelings of love, there are so many written poems and love stories but there is only one way to express it.<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s just a lack of imagination or we are just using one word powerful enough to capture the beauty of that feeling.<\/p>\n

Seja qual for o caso, os gregos antigos consideravam o amor um termo t\u00e3o amplo que o dividiram em sete tipos diferentes de amor. E quando pensamos nisso, faz todo o sentido.<\/p>\n

When we think about the love we usually have in mind, it\u2019s the romantic love, the kind of love between two lovers. That is something all of us are looking for, the eternal selfless love with another human being.<\/p>\n

Mas o que dizer do amor que sentimos pelo nosso amigo, do amor que existe entre um irm\u00e3o e uma irm\u00e3, ou entre um pai e um filho. Estes tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o tipos de amor, mas t\u00eam o mesmo nome e, no entanto, s\u00e3o totalmente diferentes.<\/p>\n

We obsess ourselves with the search for romantic love that we neglect all kinds of other love that are out there. And sometimes when we\u2019re looking for one thing, we don\u2019t realize that we don\u2019t need it. Maybe that other love would fulfill us and would heal us much faster and more efficiently than the love we\u2019re chasing.<\/p>\n

Os gregos antigos tinham sete palavras para amor e cada uma delas correspondia a um sentimento diferente de amor, a um tipo diferente de amor.<\/em><\/p>\n

7 tipos de amor, segundo os gregos antigos<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Eros (Amor apaixonado)<\/h2>\n

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Eros \u00e9 o deus grego da paix\u00e3o sexual e do desejo. Na mitologia grega, \u00e9 um dos Erotes, os deuses alados. Erotes \u00e9 um grupo de deuses alados da mitologia grega que est\u00e3o associados \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais.<\/p>\n

Diz-se que Eros era filho de Afrodite, a deusa do amor. Tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 conhecido como o deus da fertilidade. Embora hoje em dia, quando as pessoas pensam em Eros, t\u00eam sentimentos positivos porque ele foi estereotipado para representar o amor.<\/p>\n

De facto, na Gr\u00e9cia antiga, Eros tinha uma conota\u00e7\u00e3o negativa. Era considerado o deus de um amor irracional, o deus da lux\u00faria e de todos os aspectos negativos do amor. atra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual pura<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dizia-se que ele era perigoso e que podia agarrar-se \u00e0s pessoas e possu\u00ed-las.<\/p>\n

His one strike of an arrow could form a madness as it did to Paris and Helen, which eventually led to the Trojan War. His arrow made a person \u2018fall\u2019 in love but actually, it would mess with their mind and make them irrationally and dangerously possessive and lustful.<\/p>\n

Nos tempos antigos, as pessoas tinham medo de Eros e dos seus poderes, o que \u00e9 engra\u00e7ado porque hoje em dia tudo o que parecemos procurar \u00e9 uma pessoa por quem nos apaixonemos loucamente, sem qualquer raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Era exatamente isso que Eros fazia \u00e0s pessoas na mitologia grega e era considerado perigoso. Mas hoje, nos tempos modernos, parece que tudo o que queremos \u00e9 perder o controlo e deixar que a paix\u00e3o nos conduza.<\/p>\n

Philia (Amor Amig\u00e1vel)<\/h2>\n

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Philia is love that friends have for each other. Now, Philia can be interpreted in two ways. First, it can be only the friendship born out of goodwill, meaning you\u2019re doing something for a friend because you care for them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not getting anything in return. It\u2019s pure and selfless love.<\/p>\n

Mas, em segundo lugar, Philia tamb\u00e9m pode nascer de Eros. Diz-se que a maior amizade \u00e9 a que existe entre dois amantes. Quando o amor apaixonado se transforma em compreens\u00e3o m\u00fatua e numa procura m\u00fatua de algo mais elevado, torna-se Philia.<\/p>\n

Na Gr\u00e9cia antiga, o amor mais valorizado de todos era Philia. Desenvolveu-se entre soldados em batalhas que lutavam juntos.<\/p>\n

Era o amor altru\u00edsta, aquele em que n\u00e3o se tinha nada a ganhar. Era sobre sacrificar-se por um amigo, permanecer leal a ele e mostrar as suas verdadeiras emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

How many friends like this do you have in your life? Ignore Twitter, ignore Facebook, how many true, loyal friends do you have by your side according to the Greek terms of friendly love? It gets you thinking, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Storge (A Parent\u2019s Love)<\/h2>\n

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Storge is the type of love that exists between a parent and a child. It\u2019s a subtype of Philia because it\u2019s almost the same, especially during the phase when the children are younger. But unlike Philia, Storge doesn\u2019t depend on your personal qualities.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a type of love that exists because of dependency and familiarity. You can\u2019t choose your family, you are born into it and you love them no matter what.<\/p>\n

Quando estamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, procuramos Philia e Storge, mas s\u00f3 o conseguimos se tivermos sorte. A maior parte de n\u00f3s acaba por ficar apenas com Eros. Mas quando Eros se transforma em Philia, ent\u00e3o, ap\u00f3s anos de conviv\u00eancia, voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro podem desenvolver Storge.<\/p>\n

\u00c1gape (Amor altru\u00edsta)<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Agape is selfless love, a love you have for everyone, for nature, for God. It\u2019s an unconditional love and the closest term to describe Agape is charity. It\u2019s about loving someone without getting any personal gain.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a form of love for your family member or complete strangers, it doesn\u2019t matter. The love you have is the same toward everyone.<\/p>\n

No cristianismo, \u00c1gape ou caridade \u00e9 o n\u00edvel mais elevado de amor que se pode dar. De acordo com o cristianismo, mas tamb\u00e9m com outras religi\u00f5es, a caridade e o amor altru\u00edsta devem ser o modo de vida. Devemos ajudar algu\u00e9m que conhecemos ou um estranho na rua se virmos que est\u00e1 a precisar de ajuda.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, todos n\u00f3s dever\u00edamos tentar viver assim. N\u00e3o porque algu\u00e9m tenha dito que \u00e9 uma boa maneira de nos sentirmos mais pr\u00f3ximos de Deus, mas porque o nosso amor por toda a gente, o nosso \u00c1gape, tem o poder de curar uma pessoa qualquer e a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

\u00c1gape \u00e9 um amor pelo bem maior mas, infelizmente, o n\u00edvel deste tipo de amor diminuiu drasticamente. As pessoas deixaram de mostrar empatia. Cada vez mais elas s\u00e3o ego\u00edstas, apenas tentando fazer uma boa vida para si pr\u00f3prias, sem se preocuparem com mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Ludus (Amor jovem)<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Ludus is connected to Eros but it\u2019s much more innocent. It\u2019s also about passion and the physical but it\u2019s not as dangerous. It\u2019s a form of love that appears between two young lovers. That love is playful and, most importantly, sincere.<\/p>\n

Ludus relationships are not serious, there is no commitment. It\u2019s just about having fun and enjoying yourself for as long as it lasts. If it ends, you\u2019re happy you had it.<\/p>\n

When you first fall in love with someone, that honeymoon phase, that craziness you\u2019re feeling, that\u2019s Ludus. If Ludus continues for some time, it can grow into Philia.<\/p>\n

As pessoas devem agarrar-se ao Ludus, porque a maior parte das rela\u00e7\u00f5es longas perdem a jovialidade com o passar do tempo e tornam-se demasiado s\u00e9rias, s\u00f3 com problemas ao fim de algum tempo.<\/p>\n

Pragma (Amor pr\u00e1tico)<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

When two people have the same interests and the same goals, which they can achieve much easier if they are together, then that love is called Pragma. It\u2019s a practical type of love and the most common place to find it is in arranged marriages.<\/p>\n

People don\u2019t often practice arranged marriages but in the past, it was a completely normal thing to do. Royalty got married to keep the royal blood intact. People got married because of political connections. Wealthy people married into wealth to keep and add more land to their wealth.<\/p>\n

And even though those two people didn\u2019t love each other in the beginning, the relationship worked over time because of the compromises for a greater cause.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to fall in love but in modern times, people have difficulty staying in love. Pragma is about staying in love, about learning to make exceptions for the other person, about tolerance and respect. And when you think about it, all of these are the key ingredients to preserving a rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Muitas rela\u00e7\u00f5es come\u00e7am como Eros ou Ludus mas acabam como Storge ou Pragma. Pelo menos deveria ser assim, mas a maior parte deles desfaz-se nas primeiras fases e nunca chega a crescer para se tornar um amor verdadeiro e s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Philautia (Amor-pr\u00f3prio)<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Este amor pode ser bom ou mau para si. Depende da forma como o encaramos. Algumas pessoas pensam que o amor-pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 ser ego\u00edsta e preocupar-se apenas com o seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar. Acham que se podem colocar acima de todos os outros. Esse \u00e9 o mau tipo de amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

The good kind of self-love is taking care of yourself just as well as you take care of others. It\u2019s about being kind to yourself and never ignoring your own needs. Because when you grow to hate yourself, you can\u2019t love anyone else.<\/p>\n

Os gregos antigos pensavam no amor em diferentes tipos. Mas todos estes tipos podem transformar-se de um em outro. Podem evoluir.<\/p>\n

And in the end, when you finally find the right person you\u2019re going to spend the rest of our life with, you\u2019ll go through all of the types of love with them. You\u2019ll have physical attraction, playful love, respect, a friendly love, a common goal and above all, you\u2019re going to love yourself.<\/p>\n

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