{"id":30343,"date":"2021-10-01T09:51:07","date_gmt":"2021-10-01T09:51:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30343"},"modified":"2024-10-28T20:48:11","modified_gmt":"2024-10-28T19:48:11","slug":"prometo-deixar-te-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/prometo-deixar-te-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Em 2025, prometo deixar-te ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O Ano Novo \u00e9 uma oportunidade para come\u00e7ar as coisas de forma limpa e fresca. Uma altura para resolu\u00e7\u00f5es de Ano Novo e novas promessas.<\/p>\n<p>But this year, I won\u2019t be making any special resolutions. And I won\u2019t be making any promises to others, only to myself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este ano, prometo finalmente deixar-te ir. Deixar-te no passado, onde pertences, e virar uma nova p\u00e1gina da minha vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>In 2025, I promise that I\u2019ll stop missing you and that I\u2019ll learn how to live without you.<\/b> That you\u2019ll stop being the first thing that goes through my mind when I wake up and the last image I see when I am trying to go to sleep.<\/p>\n<p>I promise that I\u2019ll stop looking at our old photos and that I\u2019ll stop replaying the songs that remind me of you. I promise myself that I won\u2019t be rereading your old texts, wishing for those good times to come back. That I\u2019ll block your number, unfollow all of your social media accounts, delete all of our pictures and throw away all of your stuff.<\/p>\n<p>In 2025, I\u2019ll stop waiting for you to come crawling back and I\u2019ll finally understand that I am better off without you. <b>I\u2019ll stop putting my life on hold, while you are somewhere out there, living yours, as if I never existed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108917\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a tomar banho\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/happy-woman-taking-a-bath-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll stop hoping that it\u2019s you calling me every time I hear my phone ring and I\u2019ll stop expecting you to show up at my doorstep, telling me that you\u2019ve realized your mistake and that you can\u2019t live without me. Telling me that you\u2019ve finally seen what you lost and that I am the only one you could ever love.<\/p>\n<p>I promise to stop waiting for you to come to your senses and to get your shit together and I\u2019ll accept that you\u2019ll always remain the same insensitive jerk you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n<p>Prometo deixar de esperar que assumas a responsabilidade pelos teus actos e que me d\u00eas o fim que procuro desesperadamente. Para me dares as desculpas que nunca recebi e para me assegurares que sou importante.<\/p>\n<p>Next year, there won\u2019t be any more of those horrible, sleepless nights in which I think about all the things that went on and about everything that could have been of us. There won\u2019t be anymore crying over the things we didn\u2019t accomplish and any more wondering why you left me just like that.<\/p>\n<p>Este ano, prometo encontrar a for\u00e7a para perdoar. Prometo perdoar-te por toda a dor que me causaste, mesmo que nunca me tenhas pedido. Prometo livrar-me de todos os rancores e ressentimentos e libertar-me de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, acima de tudo, em 2025, <b>Perdoar-me-ei por te amar.<\/b> For trusting that you\u2019d stay by my side until the end of time, for making excuses for your shitty behavior just so I could keep on loving you and for justifying your every move.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108924\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa no exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I will forgive myself for being a fool who thought you could change and for wasting so much time on someone who never deserved me. For giving you so many second chances and for hoping that eventually, you\u2019d get on the right track.<\/p>\n<p>Em 2025, estou a deixar-te ir. <b>Estou a libertar-me de todas as nossas mem\u00f3rias e de todas as <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/to-the-girl-who-always-falls-for-potential\/\"><b>o seu potencial<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> Estou a deixar de lado as minhas esperan\u00e7as de que alguma vez te pudesse consertar ou salvar e estou finalmente a aceitar a dura verdade de que nunca estivemos destinados a ser.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este ano, prometo que vou desistir de ti e seguir em frente com a minha vida. Este ano, estou a dizer-te o meu \u00faltimo adeus e estou a apagar-te do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e da minha mente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In 2025, I will be strong enough to save myself from loving you. I am taking off my rose-tinted glasses and I am seeing you for who you\u2019ve always been and myself as the person I was before you entered my life and before you shattered my heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9 por isso que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amar-o-suficiente-deixar-ir\/\">Prometo amar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio<\/a> mais do que alguma vez te amei. Apreciar-me e respeitar-me o suficiente para nunca mais te deixar entrar e para deixar de me agarrar a ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Em 2025, prometo encontrar a coragem para curar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e para me salvar.<\/b><\/p>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Em 2025, prometo deixar-te ir \" class=\"wp-image-176890\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The New Year is an opportunity to start things clean and fresh. A time for New Year\u2019s resolutions and new promises. But this year, I won\u2019t be making any special resolutions. And I won\u2019t be making any promises to others, only to myself. This year, I promise to finally let you go. To leave you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":176891,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-I-Promise-To-Let-You-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30343","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30343"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30343\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176892,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30343\/revisions\/176892"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176891"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}