{"id":30388,"date":"2020-04-19T11:38:50","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T11:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30388"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:40:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:40:04","slug":"se-ele-sentisse-a-tua-falta-faria-alguma-coisa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-sentisse-a-tua-falta-faria-alguma-coisa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele sentisse a tua falta, faria alguma coisa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A\u00ed est\u00e1 voc\u00ea, a passar mais uma noite sem dormir a pensar nesse tipo. O que \u00e9 que ele tem andado a fazer? Alguma vez lhe passaste pela cabe\u00e7a ou ele esqueceu-se de ti?<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que ele repete, para tr\u00e1s e para a frente, todas as belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es que partilharam? Ser\u00e1 que ele olha para as vossas fotografias antigas e ouve as can\u00e7\u00f5es que vos fazem lembrar dele?<\/p>\n<p>Ele d\u00e1 por si a sonhar acordado consigo?<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que ele pensa em si todos os dias, como voc\u00ea pensa nele? Deseja que voltes para ele?<\/p>\n<p>Ele est\u00e1 pronto para dar outra oportunidade \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Est\u00e1 convencido de que voc\u00eas os dois v\u00e3o conseguir desta vez, tal como voc\u00eas est\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>And then, after all these thoughts, you can\u2019t help but wonder if you should be the first one to call him.<\/p>\n<p>Dever\u00e1 ser voc\u00ea a p\u00f4r fim a esta agonia e a poupar-se \u00e0 d\u00favida? Porque tudo \u00e9 melhor do que n\u00e3o saber e imaginar o que o outro lado pode sentir.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, talvez ele tamb\u00e9m esteja a pensar em si.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez ele esteja deitado na sua cama neste preciso momento, sentindo a sua falta da mesma forma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-formas-de-dizer-a-alguem-que-tem-saudades\/\"> tem saudades dele . <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Talvez ele se arrependa de tudo o que lhe fez. Pode estar arrependido de toda a dor que a fez passar e provavelmente apercebeu-se do seu erro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78022\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas ele est\u00e1 convencido de que nunca conseguir\u00e1 encontrar for\u00e7as para o perdoar, por isso acha que \u00e9 melhor n\u00e3o fazer nada.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 evidente que ele \u00e9 demasiado orgulhoso para dar um passo em frente.<\/p>\n<p>Or he is scared that you\u2019d reject him after everything that went on between the two of you.<\/p>\n<p>After all, he\u2019s always been like that \u2014 he pretends to be this tough guy but deep down, he is a coward when it comes to expressing his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que reprime as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e at\u00e9 ele pr\u00f3prio pode n\u00e3o estar consciente do facto de que sente a sua falta como um louco.<\/p>\n<p><b>Bullshit! I have to be harsh with you but the truth is that this guy doesn\u2019t miss you at all. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And you probably don\u2019t even cross his mind.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>He doesn\u2019t remember your anniversary, he doesn\u2019t feel butterflies every time he sees someone who looks like you and he doesn\u2019t search for you in every other woman.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Por isso, por favor, parem de arranjar desculpas, parem de mentir a voc\u00eas pr\u00f3prios e olhem a verdade nos olhos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque se ele sentisse a tua falta, faria alguma coisa para o fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ele faria um movimento e pediria o seu perd\u00e3o. Tudo o resto faz parte da vossa auto-ilus\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78025\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar atrav\u00e9s de uma janela chuvosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you would do anything just to have this man\u2019s confirmation that you still matter to him.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/pode-ter-muitas-saudades-mas-nao-quer-dizer-que-queira-voltar\/\"> don\u2019t want him back <\/a> \u00c9 bom saber que algu\u00e9m de quem sentimos muito a falta tamb\u00e9m sente a nossa.<\/p>\n<p>But this simply isn\u2019t the truth in your case.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que este homem deixou a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o no passado, onde ela pertence, e est\u00e1 na altura de fazer o mesmo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, p\u00e1ra de pensar no orgulho e no ego dele. Porque se ele sente a sua falta, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que o impe\u00e7a de fazer algo a esse respeito.<\/p>\n<p>Ele esqueceria todos os rancores e todos os seus princ\u00edpios porque o amor que sentia por ti seria mais forte do que tudo.<\/p>\n<p>If he missed you, he wouldn\u2019t be living the life of a bachelor he is living now.<\/p>\n<p>He wouldn\u2019t be sleeping around and he wouldn\u2019t have replaced you so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele sentisse a tua falta, j\u00e1 teria arranjado uma desculpa para te contactar h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Ele j\u00e1 teria feito um esfor\u00e7o para se aproximar de si e para voltar a estar consigo h\u00e1 algum tempo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78032\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/man-apologizing-to-blond-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a pedir desculpa a uma mulher loira\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/man-apologizing-to-blond-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/man-apologizing-to-blond-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/man-apologizing-to-blond-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se tivesse sentido a tua falta, teria recuperado todas as suas for\u00e7as e ter-te-ia chamado, pedindo-te para voltares.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ter-lhe-ia telefonado ou aparecido \u00e0 sua porta. Ele teria feito ALGUMA COISA.<\/p>\n<p>But he hasn\u2019t done anything since the two of you broke things off, has he? He never reached out and you never heard from him in any way.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que continuam a ter esperan\u00e7as? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque \u00e9 que perdes o teu tempo a fantasiar com algo que claramente n\u00e3o \u00e9 real?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque continuas \u00e0 espera de algo que nunca vir\u00e1? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque \u00e9 que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-por-isso-que-continuas-a-agarrar-te-aquele-que-nao-era-para-ser-teu\/\"><b>manter-se firme<\/b><\/a><b> ao passado quando, no fundo, sabemos que est\u00e1 na altura de o deixar ir?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por favor, livrem-se da mem\u00f3ria deste homem. Enterrem todas as vossas falsas esperan\u00e7as, cortem todos os la\u00e7os com o passado e comecem a viver no presente e na realidade.<\/p>\n<p>I know that admitting to yourself that you don\u2019t mean anything to someone whom you still deeply care for is difficult.<\/p>\n<p>But it has to be done. And it is the first step you\u2019ll have to take on the path to your recovery.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78016\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-He-Missed-You-He-Would-Do-Something-About-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele sentisse a tua falta, faria alguma coisa\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-He-Missed-You-He-Would-Do-Something-About-It-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-He-Missed-You-He-Would-Do-Something-About-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There you are, spending another sleepless night thinking about this guy. What has he been up to? Do you ever cross his mind or has he has he forgotten all about you? Does he replay back and forth back and forth all of the beautiful memories the two of you shared? Does he look at&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":78040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/If-He-Missed-You-He-Would-Do-Something-About-It.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30388\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78040"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}