{"id":30395,"date":"2020-06-19T10:14:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T10:14:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30395"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:33:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:33:42","slug":"a-beleza-de-conhecer-um-bom-rapaz-depois-de-uma-relacao-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-beleza-de-conhecer-um-bom-rapaz-depois-de-uma-relacao-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"A beleza de conhecer um bom rapaz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-habitos-que-as-mulheres-tem-nas-relacoes-toxicas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas<\/a> s\u00e3o a coisa mais m\u00e1 que pode acontecer na tua vida. Quando damos tudo de n\u00f3s a algu\u00e9m, pensamos que \u00e9 a pessoa certa.<\/p>\n<p>Then he disappoints you and hurts you in ways you couldn\u2019t imagine, so your faith in love get shaken a bit.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have the same outlook on love, and you think you won\u2019t fall in love anymore. You feel used, broken and depressed, and no matter how much you want to get over the one who mistreated you, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You hate that you still have feelings for him and you don\u2019t know what to do with them.<\/p>\n<p>You start thinking that you are guilty of all the things that happened, and you don\u2019t see the whole picture crystal clear.<\/p>\n<p>You still don\u2019t blame him for everything between the two of you because you think you could have done something to make things work.<\/p>\n<p>But the harsh truth is that you couldn\u2019t have done anything to save the relationship that was already doomed at the beginning.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92619\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1.jpg\" alt=\"Casal com problemas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t about you; it was about him. You are not the unlovable one; he is. You are not the bad guy in all this story. He is.<\/p>\n<p>E eu sei que vais precisar de algum tempo para perceberes tudo e para ordenares as coisas, mas no final, vais ver as coisas como elas realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>E quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/4-reasons-need-learn-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">aprender a gostar de si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>Quando se der uma segunda oportunidade e perceber que ainda h\u00e1 vida depois dele, estar\u00e1 pronta para finalmente seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p>Once you heal properly, you will be able to start a new chapter of your life. You won\u2019t think you are the unlovable one.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, pensar\u00e1s que, mais do que nunca, mereces um amor que fique. E \u00e9 isso que procurar\u00e1 a todo o momento.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t put up with any crap because you had enough of that in your last relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t let another man treat you as an option or play mind games with you. You will cut out everyone who tries to do that from your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92621\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia de mulher focada com \u00f3culos de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-woman-focus-wearing-sunglasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But after all that mess, after your heartbreak, tears spilled and depressive nights when you were trying to find a way out but couldn\u2019t find it, someone will come into your life.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1-de aparecer um homem que pensar\u00e1 que tu \u00e9s digna. Conhecer\u00e1s um bom homem quando menos o esperares.<\/p>\n<p>You will meet him, and you won\u2019t immediately recognize he is the one.<\/p>\n<p>Mas ele vai fazer um esfor\u00e7o por si e vai come\u00e7ar a reparar nele cada vez mais. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-injusta-de-ser-o-bom\/\">Um bom rapaz<\/a> won\u2019t sweep you off your feet as soon as he enters the room. Instead, he will do it slowly because he doesn\u2019t want to push anything.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/que-tipo-de-homem-precisa-de-acordo-com-o-seu-signo-do-zodiaco\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ele \u00e9 o tipo de homem<\/a> who would give up on you if you wouldn\u2019t be interested in him. He is a real gentleman, and he treats all women well.<\/p>\n<p>E esse \u00e9 o homem por quem tens de esperar, porque vale a pena esperar. E quando ele entrar na sua vida, ver\u00e1 o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1 a beleza de encontrar um bom rapaz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. E com ele, todos os seus sonhos se tornar\u00e3o realidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92622\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente a beber cerveja\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You will finally feel special and unique. You won\u2019t have to beg him for his attention because he will give it only to you.<\/p>\n<p>With him, you won\u2019t have to overthink if you are good enough or worthy enough.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t feel any of those negative emotions you felt while you were in a toxic relationship. Instead, you will feel like the happiest woman alive, and you will project your positive energy onto the people around you.<\/p>\n<p>Quando encontrar a pessoa certa, tudo far\u00e1 sentido instantaneamente. Sentir\u00e1 que pode conquistar o mundo com uma m\u00e3o se ele estiver a segurar a outra.<\/p>\n<p>E vais arrasar em tudo o que come\u00e7ares a fazer.<\/p>\n<p>With the right one, you will feel alive again\u2014alive after so much time spent in sorrow and depression. And that will be the best feeling ever.<\/p>\n<p>The right man, your good guy, will show you that love shouldn\u2019t be hard and that you shouldn\u2019t work your ass off to satisfy your partner. He will show you that love is as natural as breathing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92623\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field.jpeg\" alt=\"casal encantador de rosto fechado deitado num campo relvado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/lovely-couple-close-face-why-lying-on-grass-field-768x512.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele vai dar-te tudo o que desejas h\u00e1 tanto tempo e nada ser\u00e1 demasiado dif\u00edcil para ele. Ele vai agradar-te e mostrar-te que todos os homens ficariam muito felizes se te pudessem ter na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>A pessoa certa vai trazer de volta a sua f\u00e9 no amor e, com ela, tudo far\u00e1 sentido. Todos os puzzles se encaixar\u00e3o no seu lugar e sentir\u00e1 a paz interior.<\/p>\n<p>Ele abra\u00e7ar-te-\u00e1 enquanto estiveres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-a-uma-rapariga-que-luta-para-se-curar-apos-uma-relacao-toxica\/\">como se corrigir depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>E, o que \u00e9 mais importante, ele ser\u00e1 muito paciente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso.<\/p>\n<p>Ele tentar\u00e1 sempre compreender-te, e magoar-te ser\u00e1 a \u00faltima coisa em que pensar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Ele vai valoriz\u00e1-la porque v\u00ea que \u00e9 uma mulher de alta qualidade, e cada ato que fizer ser\u00e1 com muito amor.<\/p>\n<p>A guy like that would sacrifice his own happiness just so you could be happy. He is someone who will put you first even if you didn\u2019t ask for it.<\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 o homem dos teus sonhos, o teu melhor amigo, o teu amante, a tua m\u00e3o salvadora, a tua chamada nocturna e o teu di\u00e1rio humano. Ele \u00e9 a outra metade de si.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E a melhor parte \u00e9 que ele n\u00e3o vai a lado nenhum.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Christine is the author of \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Staring-Into-Eyes-Anxiety-Depression-ebook\/dp\/B07KGGLQGB\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542715256&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=staring+into+the+eyes+of+anxiety+and+depression\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Encarando os olhos da ansiedade e da depress\u00e3o<\/a>\u2019, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92615\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A beleza de conhecer um bom rapaz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toxic relationships are the meanest thing that can happen in your life. When you give all of yourself to someone, you think is the one. Then he disappoints you and hurts you in ways you couldn\u2019t imagine, so your faith in love get shaken a bit. You don\u2019t have the same outlook on love, and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":92616,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30395","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-Beauty-Of-Meeting-A-Good-Guy-After-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30395"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30395\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}