{"id":30413,"date":"2020-02-19T19:45:04","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T19:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30413"},"modified":"2022-08-27T09:50:45","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T09:50:45","slug":"as-coisas-mais-dolorosas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-coisas-mais-dolorosas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem\/","title":{"rendered":"As 5 coisas mais dolorosas que todo narcisista vai fazer com voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"

Em circunst\u00e2ncias normais, o pior resultado de uma rutura devastadora<\/a> \u00e9 um cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. A n\u00e3o ser que se tenha envolvido com um narcisista.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn\u2019t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences.<\/p>\n

But narcissists don\u2019t stop at breaking your heart and the consequences of a relationship with them are much more severe.<\/p>\n

1. Diminuir o seu valor<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The first thing every narcissist tries to do from the start is diminish his victim\u2019s worth. And what is even worse is that at first, they do it without you even noticing it.<\/p>\n

You see, narcissists have a huge problem with low self-esteem. They don\u2019t feel good about themselves, even when they pretend to be the most confident person ever.<\/p>\n

And the only way in which they can feel equal to you is by dragging you down to their level. They know they can\u2019t control the independent, strong woman you are.<\/p>\n

Assim, um narcisista tem o dever de distorcer a sua autoimagem. Alimentar\u00e1 as suas inseguran\u00e7as e far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para que se veja como menos, tanto quanto poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

2. Gaslight you<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Outro m\u00e9todo que todos os narcisistas usam \u00e9 ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando um narcisista nos incendeia<\/a>O seu pai, o seu pai, faz-nos questionar a nossa sanidade mental e tenta convencer-nos de que somos n\u00f3s os loucos, quando na verdade \u00e9 o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Este homem f\u00e1-la-\u00e1 duvidar das suas pr\u00f3prias palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Mentir\u00e1, manipular-te-\u00e1 e tentar\u00e1 convencer-te de algo que n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade, s\u00f3 para que acabes por parecer o mau da fita.<\/p>\n

Este homem vai distorcer tudo o que se passa entre voc\u00eas os dois at\u00e9 entrar completamente na sua cabe\u00e7a e at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a acreditar em cada palavra que ele diz.<\/p>\n

3. Fazer-te sentir culpado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t have a sense of responsibility. And even when they know they are the guilty one, they\u2019ll never admit it to anyone, let alone to their victim.<\/p>\n

Every narcissist has a way of making excuses for himself and justifying his toxic behavior. But he won\u2019t stop there\u2014he also wants to persuade you that you are the one to blame for everything wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que, no in\u00edcio, se est\u00e1 bem ciente de como as coisas s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas, eventualmente, este homem consegue convenc\u00ea-la de que \u00e9 a causa de todos os problemas da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que \u00e9 voc\u00ea que tem de mudar para melhor.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando um narcisista age como se estivesse a assumir a culpa, f\u00e1-lo de uma forma distorcida e doentia.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando ele pede perd\u00e3o e admite que \u00e9 culpado de alguma coisa, manipula-a para que pense que foi voc\u00ea quem o levou a ser assim e quem o provocou para a magoar.<\/p>\n

In the end, you start to think that you had it coming and that you deserved everything this man has been doing to you. And that was a narcissist\u2019s master plan all along.<\/p>\n

4. Mudar a ess\u00eancia da sua personalidade<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As it was already stated, narcissistic people don\u2019t stop at breaking your heart. No, they have the need to crush you completely and to break your spirit in every possible way as well.<\/p>\n

Depois de passar anos ao lado de uma pessoa assim, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil reconhecermo-nos porque ela apaga todos os vest\u00edgios da pessoa que \u00e9ramos antes de ela entrar na nossa vida.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea perder-se<\/a> completamente nesta busca da felicidade ao lado do homem errado.<\/p>\n

And when a narcissist sees that he\u2019s succeeded in his intentions, that is when he thinks he has won.<\/p>\n

Ele sabe que conseguiu deixar uma marca permanente na sua personalidade e isso faz com que o seu ego fique desproporcionado.<\/p>\n

5. Fazer-te perder a f\u00e9<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Walking away from a narcissist is one of the most difficult things to do. And if this is something you\u2019ve been through, you know exactly what I am talking about.<\/p>\n

Mas curar-se depois de um abuso narc\u00edsico \u00e9 ainda mais dif\u00edcil. \u00c9 que um narcisista faz-nos perder a f\u00e9 nos homens e nas pessoas em geral.<\/p>\n

Este homem causou-lhe tanto mal que \u00e9 natural que espere que todos os outros homens da sua vida a tratem da mesma maneira.<\/p>\n

You think that everyone has the intention of breaking your heart and that there doesn\u2019t exist a man on this planet who will see your worth and who will love you for real.<\/p>\n

But the worst part is that narcissists make you lose faith in yourself. They convince you that you are the unlovable one and that you don\u2019t deserve to find true love.<\/p>\n

Fazem-nos pensar que n\u00e3o servimos para nada e fazem-nos deixar de nos amar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

\"As<\/p>\n

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In normal circumstances, the worst outcome of a shattering break-up is a broken heart. Unless you were involved with a narcissist. Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn\u2019t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences. But narcissists don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":70726,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/The-5-Most-Hurtful-Things-Every-Narcissist-Will-Do-To-You.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30413","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30413"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30413\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163621,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30413\/revisions\/163621"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70726"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30413"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30413"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30413"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}