{"id":30418,"date":"2018-12-19T19:51:46","date_gmt":"2018-12-19T19:51:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30418"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:32:02","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:32:02","slug":"e-assim-que-se-identifica-o-tipo-simpatico-numa-multidao-de-falhados-toxicos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-identifica-o-tipo-simpatico-numa-multidao-de-falhados-toxicos\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se descobre o tipo simp\u00e1tico numa multid\u00e3o de falhados t\u00f3xicos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Spotting a nice guy in a crowd of toxic losers is a real challenge. Especially if you\u2019ve spent great amounts of your time with the toxic ones who made you forget the traits of a nice guy. But, believe me, not all guys are assholes.<\/p>\n<p>There are some good guys out there who are waiting for you to discover them and encourage them to make a move on you. You\u2019ve probably seen them multiple times by now but somehow <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tracos-de-mau-rapaz\/\">meninos maus<\/a> foram sempre os primeiros a cativar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>But, you realize this when it\u2019s too late and you curse the day when you\u2019ve decided to date a toxic manipulator like him. And then you start wondering where have all of those good guys been hiding from you and the rest of the world?<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que se passa \u00e9 que eles existem, mas n\u00e3o foi capaz de os detetar porque esteve todo este tempo cego pelos t\u00f3xicos.<\/strong> Para resolver este problema, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s seguintes dicas sobre como identificar o tipo simp\u00e1tico num mar de tipos t\u00f3xicos.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Ele sentir-se-\u00e1 intimidado<\/h2>\n<p>Nice guys are often intimidated by women because they aren&#8217;t use to being approached by them. If you see that he seems nervous, fidgeting and avoiding eye contact at all costs with you, know that he is a good guy but your presence intimidates him (which will change with time).<\/p>\n<p>A nice guy is not into any of those manipulative games you might have witnessed before him because he\u2019s simply unable to deceive you. His feelings and reactions are genuine and they will never pretend to be something that they\u2019re not only to get you to like them.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Examinar os seus amigos<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure whether he\u2019s a nice guy or just another toxic guy (not worth your time), pay attention to his friends. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll notice the difference between him and his friends (if there is any) and this difference will tell you whether your guy is what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>If his friends are noisy, pushy and dominating while he\u2019s the total opposite, know that he is definitely a nice guy. Nice guys will always be in shadow from the bad ones because it\u2019s in their nature to stay humble.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ele n\u00e3o tentar\u00e1 surpreender-te<\/h2>\n<p>You will know that he\u2019s a nice guy if he\u2019s not trying hard to amaze you. It is because they are a little bit insecure about themselves and they have a fear of failure. They are afraid that you\u2019re going to misinterpret something they\u2019ve said to you and that is why most of the time they choose to play safely.<\/p>\n<p>They respond normally and don\u2019t try hard to show you affection (even if they really like you) because they don\u2019t want to scare you off.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ele \u00e9 honesto<\/h2>\n<p>A nice guy will be 100% honest with you and you\u2019ll see it in his eyes. You will never second guess anything he says to you because you\u2019ll feel that everything he says is nothing but the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes he\u2019ll be honest to the extent of hurting your feelings but they do it subconsciously because they are wired to be honest no matter what. Nice guys are appalled by mind games and that is why they value honesty before anything else.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Sente-se \u00e0 vontade para falar com ele<\/h2>\n<p>You know he\u2019s a good guy if you feel utterly comfortable talking to him. Your conversations don\u2019t seem pushy or fake. You feel the positive energy in the air and hours feel like seconds.<\/p>\n<p>You enjoy spending time with him and you don\u2019t find it hard to open up to him because it feels like a natural thing to do. You feel like you really trust him and that you\u2019ve known him for years even though the two of you have just met.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Ele responde sempre \u00e0s tuas mensagens<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t wait hours for him to text you back. Instead, he always makes sure to text you in a decent amount of time because he respects you and enjoys talking and texting to you.<\/p>\n<p>A nice guy will never let you wait when it comes to texting because they don\u2019t really plan their actions (because their ulterior motives are not toxic). They see your message, they answer it and then they hope for the best.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Mant\u00e9m-se fiel \u00e0s suas decis\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p>Se ele disser que lhe vai enviar uma mensagem ou telefonar, saiba que o far\u00e1. Um rapaz simp\u00e1tico cumpre sempre as suas decis\u00f5es e promessas. Se ele prometer que vai fazer algo por si, vai certificar-se de que o faz a tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Ele aprecia-a como pessoa e respeita os seus limites e desejos. Nunca far\u00e1 nada que a fa\u00e7a sentir desconfort\u00e1vel ou que a fa\u00e7a questionar as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ele trata-te como uma senhora<\/h2>\n<p>Yes. You will know he\u2019s a nice guy if you feel that he\u2019s different from everyone else you\u2019ve been dating so far. And it is different, because it\u2019s true. He treats you like a lady and he makes sure you feel entertained and safe with him.<\/p>\n<p>Once you experience the magic of being with a nice guy, you\u2019ll never think about the toxic ones who were definitely not worth your time. And once you target your nice guy, hold on to him and never let him go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30420\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/her-way-1-2-200x300.png\" alt=\"\u00c9 assim que se descobre o tipo simp\u00e1tico numa multid\u00e3o de falhados t\u00f3xicos\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/her-way-1-2-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/her-way-1-2.png 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spotting a nice guy in a crowd of toxic losers is a real challenge. Especially if you\u2019ve spent great amounts of your time with the toxic ones who made you forget the traits of a nice guy. But, believe me, not all guys are assholes. There are some good guys out there who are waiting&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":30419,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/marvin-meyer-190670-unsplash.jpg",800,600,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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