{"id":30513,"date":"2020-11-14T08:45:20","date_gmt":"2020-11-14T08:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30513"},"modified":"2024-10-29T17:04:53","modified_gmt":"2024-10-29T16:04:53","slug":"este-ano-deixem-de-lado-aquele-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-vos-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/este-ano-deixem-de-lado-aquele-que-nao-esta-pronto-para-vos-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Este ano, deixa ir aquele que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para te amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Que este seja o momento da sua vida em que decide que j\u00e1 chega. N\u00e3o fique num lugar onde n\u00e3o \u00e9 visto, apreciado ou amado.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay, because things will only get worse. I know it\u2019s a big decision and that it will be painful and hard but cut the cord that\u2019s holding you attached to him.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing you can say or do to change the way he is. He will always stay the same and he\u2019ll never be good enough for you.<\/p>\n

Abre os olhos, menina, e v\u00ea-o como ele realmente \u00e9, n\u00e3o como tu queres que ele seja. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quase nunca tem tempo para si. Faz tudo para a sua pr\u00f3pria conveni\u00eancia. Ele significa tudo para si, menos para ele, \u00e9s apenas uma op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and you know that deep down. It\u2019s killing you slowly.<\/p>\n

His games and this on-again, off-again thing you have with him is making you lose your sanity. You\u2019ve been on this emotional roller coaster ride for so long and it seems it will never stop until you decide to put a stop to it.<\/p>\n

Olha-te ao espelho, menina, mereces muito mais.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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Olhe bem para si e veja como \u00e9 belo, como \u00e9 especial, bondoso e not\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Silence those voices that make you think you are not good enough, pretty enough, or smart enough and that they are the reasons why he doesn\u2019t give you the time of day.<\/p>\n

That couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

O facto de ele te tratar mal tem tudo a ver com ele e com a confus\u00e3o na cabe\u00e7a dele e nada a ver contigo. P\u00e1ra de duvidar de ti pr\u00f3pria. P\u00e1ra de te concentrares nos teus defeitos e concentra-te nas tuas perfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

You have many of them, don\u2019t toss them away so easily. Don\u2019t pretend that they are not important. Embrace your flaws as well and accept yourself because you are amazing just the way you are.<\/p>\n

See yourself with a whole different set of eyes, the ones that aren\u2019t polluted with his presence.<\/p>\n

You are not made for him babygirl, he doesn\u2019t know how to love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

And you are all about love. You need someone who notices that and is not scared to love you back. Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to feel. Someone who is ready to be the man you deserve.<\/p>\n

Esse algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 ele. Ele \u00e9 incapaz de amar. Tudo o que ele sabe \u00e9 como tirar de ti sem dar nada em troca. Tudo o que lhe interessa \u00e9 ele pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Aceite-o pelo que ele \u00e9, um cap\u00edtulo de aprendizagem da sua vida que lhe ensinou como o amor nunca deve ser.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t confuse him for your forever person, he is nothing more than a tough lesson you had to learn so you could become stronger, wiser and learn to love yourself more.<\/p>\n

Sonha e cria, querida. <\/b><\/p>\n

Invista em si tanto quanto investiu nele, ou at\u00e9 mais. D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria tempo para sarar, mas continue sempre a avan\u00e7ar; n\u00e3o importa qu\u00e3o lento ou r\u00e1pido seja o seu progresso, cada passo conta.<\/p>\n

\"l\u00e1<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow your relationship status to define you. Cherish the inner peace you have when you are alone instead of the mess he puts you through. Count on yourself like you could never count on him. Be your own rock. You got this.<\/p>\n

You can do whatever you put your mind to, just give yourself the same amount of energy, love and commitment he didn\u2019t value and see how your life starts changing for the better.<\/p>\n

Let go of the one who isn\u2019t ready to love you, babygirl. <\/b><\/p>\n

Deixe-o ir, por muito que lhe doa, porque a sua presen\u00e7a na sua vida vai doer ainda mais. Mereces mais<\/span><\/a> do que isto.<\/p>\n

You deserve that all-consuming, \u2018can\u2019t live without you\u2019 type of love and not the one you need to push and pull and force. That love is not true, it\u2019s only temporary.<\/p>\n

Comece este ano de alma lavada e livre dele. Abra espa\u00e7o para algu\u00e9m mais digno, para algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 pronto para si, para algu\u00e9m que ser\u00e1 louco por si.<\/p>\n

E nunca se contentar com menos.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Let this be the point in your life in which you decide that enough is enough. Don\u2019t stay somewhere you are not seen, appreciated or loved. Don\u2019t stay, because things will only get worse. I know it\u2019s a big decision and that it will be painful and hard but cut the cord that\u2019s holding you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":177113,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/This-Year-Let-Go-Of-The-One-Who-Isnt-Ready-To-Love-You_-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30513"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177114,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30513\/revisions\/177114"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}