{"id":30703,"date":"2020-04-04T09:22:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T09:22:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30703"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:09:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:09:58","slug":"10-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-arruinar-a-sua-saude-mental","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-arruinar-a-sua-saude-mental\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de alerta de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando se est\u00e1 a lidar com algu\u00e9m t\u00f3xico, pode nem sequer estar consciente de todas as formas como essa pessoa est\u00e1 a arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e3o eles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-fortes-sinais-de-que-es-um-mestre-manipulador-do-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> mestres da manipula\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a>A partir do momento em que o seu pai e a sua m\u00e3e se tornam mais fortes, eles destroem gradualmente a sua autoestima, deitando-a abaixo para a poderem controlar e manipular.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o ter\u00e1 qualquer problema em convenc\u00ea-lo de que \u00e9 o culpado de tudo e acus\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 de ser respons\u00e1vel pelo seu comportamento mentalmente abusivo.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look at the signs and if you find your partner in them, get away from him as soon as possible, before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Arranja desculpas para o seu comportamento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a beber caf\u00e9 sozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tratam-nos mal quando estamos no meio de outras pessoas e \u00e9 ainda pior quando estamos sozinhos; mesmo assim, arranjamos sempre desculpas para eles.<\/p>\n<p>Justificamos o seu mau comportamento dizendo que normalmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim, que s\u00f3 teve um dia mau, etc.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, you are fooling no one\u2014well, maybe yourself because you see something in him that isn\u2019t there.<\/p>\n<p>Em segundo lugar, ao fazer isso, est\u00e1 a enviar-lhe a mensagem de que o seu comportamento \u00e9 toler\u00e1vel, pelo que ele continuar\u00e1 a agir assim.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele derruba-nos intencionalmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYou can\u2019t remember when you had a happy moment that he didn\u2019t trash.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que te sentes super entusiasmado por ires ver os teus amigos ou est\u00e1s radiante porque algo de bom aconteceu no trabalho, ele faz o seu melhor para tentar diminuir isso.<\/p>\n<p>He can\u2019t stand that you are happy and that\u2019s why he will make fun of your accomplishments and try to decrease their significance.<\/p>\n<p>He is just bringing negativity into your life and you really don\u2019t need that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele est\u00e1 a matar o teu esp\u00edrito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ultimamente, as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam estado mais em baixo do que em cima. Chora com frequ\u00eancia, est\u00e1 vulner\u00e1vel e as suas inseguran\u00e7as aumentaram.<\/p>\n<p>If you are trying to find the cause of the problem, look at your partner. He might be the one that\u2019s making you feel low when he should lift you among the stars.<\/p>\n<p>In addition, if he doesn\u2019t notice or care that you are feeling down, there is no doubt about it\u2014he is the source of your messed-up emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele \u00e9 um livro fechado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-man-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Teve tanta dificuldade em abrir-se e deixar-se envolver que, com o tempo, deixou de tentar.<\/p>\n<p>You never know where his head is at or what he is up to and it\u2019s making you lose the feeling of safety in the relationship, which makes you feel upset or even anxious.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele est\u00e1 a fazer micro-trapa\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para uma mulher loira na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-blond-woman-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t necessarily have to have sex with somebody else to make you feel like he is unfaithful.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode estar a namoriscar com outras mulheres, a manter-se em contacto nas redes sociais, a fazer-lhes confid\u00eancias ou qualquer outra coisa que constitua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-micro-batota-pode-ser-perigosa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> micro-trapa\u00e7a <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Em suma, sentir\u00e1 que ele est\u00e1 a fazer de si um tolo e a desrespeit\u00e1-la totalmente. Sentir-se-\u00e1 desvalorizada e stressada sem raz\u00e3o aparente.<\/p>\n<p>Ele deve prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 forma como a faz sentir ou deixar de fazer parte da sua vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Muitas vezes rotula-a de demasiado sens\u00edvel ou irracional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e triste sentada sozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-young-woman-sitting-alone-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele age como se nunca o tivesses apanhado e que est\u00e1s a exagerar e a fazer uma tempestade num copo de \u00e1gua.<\/p>\n<p>Na sua mente, o ataque \u00e9 a melhor defesa, pelo que prefere desvalorizar os seus sentimentos a admitir que \u00e9 ele que a faz sentir-se mal.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like he is denying you the right to feel what you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Tenha cuidado, pois isso pode arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental geral, faz\u00ea-lo perder a no\u00e7\u00e3o dos seus sentimentos e esgot\u00e1-lo emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sente-se pressionado a mudar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a desviar o olhar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-away-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O comportamento dele est\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-la sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente boa. Por isso, d\u00e1 o seu melhor, muda, fica em sil\u00eancio quando devia falar, s\u00f3 para o manter por perto.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that change is not always for the better, especially when it\u2019s influenced by anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Certifique-se de que n\u00e3o se est\u00e1 a perder nos seus esfor\u00e7os para o manter por perto.<\/p>\n<p>The other person should treat you as their equal and accept you for who you are if he can\u2019t do that, he doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua confian\u00e7a desapareceu<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a sentir medo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-feeling-fear-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you met your old self, you wouldn\u2019t recognize her. Since your relationship started, you have been questioning your every move and you are scared to get out of your shell.<\/p>\n<p>Se estiveres com algu\u00e9m que te faz sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9s suficiente, que te culpa por tudo e silencia a tua voz, tens de sair o mais depressa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Na pior das hip\u00f3teses, homens como este convencem-na de que n\u00e3o vale nada sem eles.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de comportamento \u00e9 manipulador e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ser-suficientemente-forte-para-se-afastar-de-um-manipulador-toxico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> altamente t\u00f3xico <\/a> e deves manter-te o mais longe poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Toda esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o com ele est\u00e1 a prejudicar a sua sa\u00fade f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar para o espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-at-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A sua mente e o seu corpo est\u00e3o interligados e influenciam-se mutuamente.<\/p>\n<p>O stress a que est\u00e1 sujeito com um parceiro t\u00f3xico ir\u00e1 arruinar o seu sistema imunit\u00e1rio. Ser\u00e1 mais suscet\u00edvel de apanhar uma constipa\u00e7\u00e3o, ter dores de cabe\u00e7a ou c\u00f3licas estomacais.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que n\u00e3o vale a pena perder o seu bem-estar, nem mental nem f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma prova tang\u00edvel de que o seu parceiro n\u00e3o \u00e9 a pessoa certa para si, independentemente do que sente por ele.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O sentimento de culpa consome-o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76652\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na praia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Analise muito bem a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 poss\u00edvel que seja sempre a culpada e o seu parceiro seja t\u00e3o inocente, ou ser\u00e1 que ele est\u00e1 a tentar control\u00e1-la?<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que sempre o tenha apoiado, ele dir\u00e1 que n\u00e3o esteve presente quando mais precisou de si, que lhe faltou o seu apoio e compreens\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You know that\u2019s not true so don\u2019t let him convince you otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>He has major issues so let him deal with them on his own and don\u2019t allow him to pollute your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 sinais de alerta de que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you are dealing with somebody toxic, you might not even be aware of all the ways in which they are ruining your mental health. They are masters of manipulation , they gradually ruin your self-esteem, they bring you down so they can control and manipulate you. They will have no problem convincing you that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":76653,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30703","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Warning-Signs-Your-Partner-Is-Ruining-Your-Mental-Health.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30703","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30703"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30703\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76653"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30703"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30703"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30703"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}