{"id":30724,"date":"2020-05-04T13:55:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T13:55:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30724"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:40:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:40:30","slug":"6-maneiras-de-lidar-com-um-namorado-pouco-romantico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-maneiras-de-lidar-com-um-namorado-pouco-romantico\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneiras de lidar com um namorado pouco rom\u00e2ntico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve expected a boyfriend who will surprise you with romantic dinners with candles, romantic weekend getaways, serving you your favorite breakfast in bed or giving you \u2018I love you\u2019 poems.<\/p>\n<p>And instead, you\u2019ve got someone whose biggest romantic gesture is to hold your hand and share the last two spoons of ice cream with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s disappointing and at the same time frustrating, and you cannot blame him for being unromantic because romance is not something you\u2019re born with.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something you acquire through time, so don\u2019t think it\u2019s something unattainable.<\/p>\n<p>If you give it some time, stay patient and follow these 6 tips on how to cope with the situation you\u2019re in, I assure you that everything will fall into place.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Diga-lhe o que espera dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85784\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-talking-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se o seu namorado \u00e9 uma alma pouco rom\u00e2ntica, tem de compreender que ele n\u00e3o faz ideia do que significa ser rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, n\u00e3o se pode esperar que ele saiba o que tem de fazer ou como se deve comportar para exprimir o seu lado rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n<p>O melhor que pode fazer \u00e9 dizer-lhe quais s\u00e3o as suas expectativas, o que o ajudar\u00e1 a compreender como funcionam as coisas no mundo rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n<p>Isto abrir-lhe-\u00e1 os olhos e ele saber\u00e1 finalmente o que deve fazer se quiser faz\u00ea-la feliz.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t equate his unromantic side with his affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85785\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"O retrato da sensualidade de um casal a beijar-se no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-portrait-of-sensuality-couple-kissing-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever let his unromantic side make you question his affection for you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s necessary for you to understand that he cares about you and he loves you, but he has some problems with expressing this with romantic gestures.<\/p>\n<p>Quanto mais cedo se aperceber disso, mais f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1 para si lidar com o problema.<\/p>\n<p>Unromantic people simply see things differently than others because they don\u2019t have a feeling for what\u2019s romantic and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que tem de ser o seu guia e manter-se paciente o mais tempo poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with your relationship or your partner; it just needs some time and effort.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t judge him or compare him with others (more romantic partners)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher sorridente a olhar para um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A pior coisa que pode fazer \u00e9 comparar o seu namorado com outros namorados ou com as suas ex-mulheres que eram mais rom\u00e2nticas do que ele.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 muito doloroso para ele ouvir isso e pense como se sentiria se ele lhe dissesse o mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>Compar\u00e1-lo com os outros s\u00f3 vai prolongar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e ferir os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p>E o seu objetivo \u00e9 abrir-lhe os olhos e conduzi-lo na dire\u00e7\u00e3o do romance, n\u00e3o o magoar no processo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Show him how it\u2019s done<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher deitados na cama e a comer pizza\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-and-woman-laying-on-bed-and-eating-pizza-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve explained what you expect him to do, show him how it\u2019s done.<\/p>\n<p>Sirva-lhe o seu pequeno-almo\u00e7o preferido na cama, planeie um jantar rom\u00e2ntico ou pense em qualquer outra coisa que lhe mostre como deve ser.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ele vir o(s) seu(s) exemplo(s), ser\u00e1 capaz de ligar os pontos e copiar as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es (o que continua a ser um progresso na dire\u00e7\u00e3o certa) ou pensar noutra coisa mais inovadora (o que acontecer\u00e1 com o tempo). Seja o que for que ele decida fazer, orgulhe-se dos seus pequenos passos de beb\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar pronto para o compromisso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85792\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente sentado no ch\u00e3o a jogar consola\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/smiling-couple-sitting-on-floor-and-playing-game-console-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Also, be ready to do things that you\u2019ve perhaps avoided doing in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Se o seu namorado gosta muito de jogos, experimente sentar-se ao lado dele e pedir-lhe que lhe explique como se joga um determinado jogo. Aproveitem o tempo que passam juntos.<\/p>\n<p>You can always create a romantic atmosphere regardless of the activities you\u2019re engaged in.<\/p>\n<p>And when he sees that you\u2019re ready to compromise and go out of your way to be part of something he really enjoys doing, he will also be ready to do such things for you.<\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o vai mais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/real-men-dont-make-excuses-they-make-an-effort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">inventar desculpas<\/a> that he doesn\u2019t know how to prepare a romantic dinner or similar.<\/p>\n<p>Ele far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para o fazer feliz porque sabe que isso significa para si tanto quanto os seus jogos significam para ele.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Apreciar os seus esfor\u00e7os<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a abra\u00e7ar-se na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-hugging-in-living-room-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Always remember to acknowledge his efforts because he will need your support and give him the green light that he\u2019s doing something right.<\/p>\n<p>Appreciating means telling him that you\u2019re proud of his progress and everything he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t need to be something big to let him know that he\u2019s done it right.<\/p>\n<p>Reconhe\u00e7a cada coisa que ele faz que tenha a ver com ser rom\u00e2ntico, e ele far\u00e1 o seu melhor para continuar a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n<p>After all, all the greatest things need practice, and this isn\u2019t an exception.<\/p>\n<p>E se continuar a ser persistente no apoio ao seu parceiro durante a sua jornada de transforma\u00e7\u00e3o, ficar\u00e1 surpreendido com o que os dois s\u00e3o capazes de alcan\u00e7ar juntos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 maneiras de lidar com um namorado pouco rom\u00e2ntico \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve expected a boyfriend who will surprise you with romantic dinners with candles, romantic weekend getaways, serving you your favorite breakfast in bed or giving you \u2018I love you\u2019 poems. And instead, you\u2019ve got someone whose biggest romantic gesture is to hold your hand and share the last two spoons of ice cream with you&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":85796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Ways-To-Cope-With-An-Unromantic-Boyfriend.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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