{"id":30793,"date":"2020-04-07T10:29:43","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T10:29:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30793"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:52:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:52:27","slug":"6-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-esta-numa-relacao-indefinida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-esta-numa-relacao-indefinida\/","title":{"rendered":"6 sinais alarmantes de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 num relacionamento indefinido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Undefined relationships have become a real \u2018trend\u2019 in this modern time of dating. To understand the real issue of this, I asked myself a question: What\u2019s worse than a break-up?<\/strong><\/p>\n

E se me perguntarem, eu diria que \u00e9 estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o indefinida.<\/p>\n

When you break up with someone, you know that everything has come to an end and there\u2019s simply no point in staying together.<\/p>\n

But when you\u2019re in an undefined relationship, it basically means that you\u2019re neither in a relationship nor out of one.<\/p>\n

The worst thing of all is that you don\u2019t get to choose to be in an undefined relationship with your \u2018partner\u2019.<\/p>\n

You can find yourself in this \u2018no-label\u2019 relationship at any moment, without being aware of it at all.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re overwhelmed by the feeling of emptiness<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re lacking something but you yourself are not sure what it is. The feeling of emptiness remains persistent when you\u2019re with your partner or when you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

It is the biggest indicator that something is bothering you subconsciously and when you are in an undefined relationship, your mind will know that something\u2019s not right and it will constantly remind you of that.<\/p>\n

In a way, you\u2019ve got used to feeling empty and now it\u2019s hard for you to differentiate uma verdadeira rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> de um indefinido.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t feel like calling your partner \u2018honey\u2019 or \u2018darling\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Chamar nomes ou alcunhas giras ao seu parceiro est\u00e1 totalmente fora de quest\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Quando falam um com o outro, tratam-se especificamente pelos vossos nomes e n\u00e3o por outras palavras doces que as pessoas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o real tendem a fazer.<\/p>\n

This is because you don\u2019t feel that emotionally attached to your partner and you find it hard to call them \u2018honey\u2019 or \u2018darling\u2019 because it feels awkward and it doesn\u2019t sound genuine to you.<\/p>\n

E mesmo que um de v\u00f3s o diga, ambos se sentem imediatamente um pouco desconfort\u00e1veis e pouco \u00e0 vontade.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t talk much on the phone<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you think of calling your \u2018partner\u2019, you start having second thoughts about doing so.<\/p>\n

Is it because you know that it doesn\u2019t make sense to talk to them about something that is bothering you or about something regarding your \u2018relationship\u2019?<\/p>\n

And even if you find the courage to call them, your conversations don\u2019t last that long.<\/p>\n

It feels like simply exchanging information without getting any feedback or moral support from your \u2018partner\u2019.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how to label \u2018the thing you have\u2019 when someone asks you<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re about to introduce them to someone, you don\u2019t know how to label this thing called \u2018an undefined relationship\u2019.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019re neither a real couple nor friends.<\/p>\n

That frustrating feeling when you\u2019re unable to identify something you\u2019re going through occupies your mind most of the day before some large event where you know people will ask you to introduce your \u2018partner\u2019 to them.<\/p>\n

And that is how you know that you\u2019re not that happy after all and there are some issues regarding your so-called \u2018relationship\u2019.<\/p>\n

Falar do futuro tornou-se um tabu<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Nunca fala com o seu parceiro sobre o futuro e nenhum de voc\u00eas menciona nada que possa ter alguma correla\u00e7\u00e3o com o futuro.<\/p>\n

Isto porque as pessoas que n\u00e3o t\u00eam a certeza sobre o presente raramente querem falar sobre o futuro.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re not sure that you\u2019re in a real relationship, you will not see your partner as someone whom you\u2019ll stay with for some time in the future either.<\/p>\n

Tudo \u00e9 incerto e n\u00e3o se pode prometer algo que se sabe que n\u00e3o se vai poder cumprir.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re indifferent to your partner\u2019s habits<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You know how people in a relationship get irritated by each other\u2019s habits and they constantly try to change the behavior of their partner?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not doing it, it means you literally don\u2019t give a shit about what they are doing.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re indifferent to your partner\u2019s habits because you don\u2019t really care if something they\u2019re doing bothers you.<\/p>\n

And even if it bothers you, you don\u2019t want to waste your time on things like that because you have other priorities.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t care about what\u2019s going on in your \u2018relationship\u2019 or how your \u2018partner\u2019 behaves, it is the biggest red flag that you\u2019re in an undefined relationship and you should consider working on it with him or let go of it if you see that there\u2019s no hope.<\/p>\n

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Undefined relationships have become a real \u2018trend\u2019 in this modern time of dating. To understand the real issue of this, I asked myself a question: What\u2019s worse than a break-up? And if you ask me, I would say it is being in an undefined relationship. When you break up with someone, you know that everything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82020,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Alarming-Signs-Youre-In-An-Undefined-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30793","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30793"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30793\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30793"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30793"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30793"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}