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<\/p>\nQuando se est\u00e1 a iniciar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 normal querer partilhar tudo com o homem com quem se anda, cada vez mais \u00e0 medida que o tempo passa.<\/p>\n
V\u00e3o estar cada vez mais pr\u00f3ximos e vai querer contar-lhe o m\u00e1ximo poss\u00edvel sobre si e vice-versa.<\/p>\n
But sometimes, it\u2019s necessary to have boundaries. It\u2019s amazing when you find a guy who makes you feel like there\u2019s nothing you can\u2019t tell him but when it comes to the ex-files, there is such a thing as oversharing.<\/p>\n
Clearly, you both have a past and you\u2019ve both dated other people, so it\u2019s normal to explore that and familiarize each other with your past experiences.<\/p>\n
Mas h\u00e1 certas coisas que deve evitar dizer ao seu namorado quando se trata do seu ex, e aqui est\u00e3o esses casos:<\/p>\n
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Guys have feelings, too. You don\u2019t want your man to feel like he constantly has to live up to your expectations based on how your ex handled certain situations, right?<\/p>\n
So, don\u2019t tell him about your ex in terms of him doing something better. It will only make him feel less than. After all, there\u2019s a reason you broke up. Let your man pave his own way to your heart.<\/p>\n
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This is really simple. Your current boyfriend does not want to know about anyone else\u2019s intimate relationships with his girlfriend (you).<\/p>\n
\u00c9 claro que tem de ser sincera se houver algo que ele precise de saber sobre a sua sa\u00fade sexual, mas poupe-lhe os pormenores.<\/p>\n
He doesn\u2019t need to know the size of your ex\u2019s thing or how often you did it. All he is interested in is making you and your joint life a happy one and anything else is unnecessary information, really.<\/p>\n
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Your BF doesn\u2019t want to hear all about the day when you fell for some other guy. It doesn\u2019t matter that it\u2019s over, he still doesn\u2019t need to hear you lovingly tell him about the romantic way your ex swept you off your feet.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t sit well with him, so unless he specifically asks, avoid telling that story.<\/p>\n
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Este \u00e9 um tema sens\u00edvel para os rapazes. Por muito idiota que o seu ex tenha sido, se disser ao seu namorado quanto dinheiro ele ganhou e os presentes caros que lhe comprou, s\u00f3 lhe vai dar a impress\u00e3o errada.<\/p>\n
Why would you have been dating a guy you didn\u2019t like who was also a jerk? It will make it seem like you only stayed for his money and you know that\u2019s not the case. Just drop any money-related comparisons and it\u2019ll be fine.<\/p>\n
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Provavelmente, ele j\u00e1 est\u00e1 a tentar deixar uma boa impress\u00e3o nos seus amigos, por isso s\u00f3 vai afetar a sua confian\u00e7a se souber que o seu ex se dava muito bem com todos eles.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s already hard enough for him, because he really wants your girls to like him, so hearing about how much they liked your ex will do no good.<\/p>\n
Let him get to know your crew and develop a nice bond with them organically. He doesn\u2019t need to feel like he has to compare with your ex in every field.<\/p>\n
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This is never a good idea. First, if you keep talking about him (whether it\u2019s good or bad) it will leave the impression that there are some lingering feelings there.<\/p>\n
So make sure to tone it down. Even if you\u2019re trying to make a funny remark about your ex in any way, make sure it\u2019s not too harsh.<\/p>\n
Your current BF is not going to like the fact that you\u2019re talking trash about someone you once dated. How is he to know that you won\u2019t do the same if you two ever break up?<\/p>\n
Keep the \u2018ex talk\u2019 to a minimum and focus on the guy in front of you. There\u2019s a reason your ex is in your past.<\/p>\n
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