{"id":30846,"date":"2020-06-08T11:51:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30846"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-tem-medo-de-se-aproximar-de-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-tem-medo-de-se-aproximar-de-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que tem medo de se aproximar de algu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei que tens medo. Na verdade, tens medo de conhecer pessoas novas e de deixar algu\u00e9m entrar. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just that you are scared of tearing down your walls and getting close to new people; your heart trembles at the mere thought of allowing someone to break it all over again.<\/span><\/p>\n

E eu percebo porque j\u00e1 fui como tu. Tudo o que est\u00e1s a sentir agora tem um fundo profundo e raz\u00f5es muito boas. E eu senti todas as mesmas coisas.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve been hurt more times than you can count. Your soul has been shattered into pieces, you\u2019ve been betrayed, humiliated and disappointed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e o teu <\/span>energia a algumas pessoas erradas<\/span><\/a> e tudo o que eles fizeram foi usar-te de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/span><\/p>\n

And after a while, you reached breaking point. You saw that you couldn\u2019t continue living like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois do \u00faltimo desgosto, j\u00e1 estava farta e viu que precisava de se salvar se quisesse sobreviver. <\/span><\/p>\n

E, nesse momento, pensou que a \u00fanica forma de o fazer era tornar-se cauteloso.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 querias que toda a dor desaparecesse e pensavas que tinhas de construir um colete \u00e0 prova de bala \u00e0 volta da tua alma marcada para manter afastados todos os que tinham a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de te magoar. Pensaste que a \u00fanica maneira de <\/b>proteger o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a> era come\u00e7ar a agir sem cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

All that you\u2019ve been through left enormous consequences on you. It changed the essence of who you were as a person and it made you become bitter and sarcastic when it comes to love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fez-nos perder a f\u00e9 no amor e deixou-nos de acreditar nas pessoas. <\/span><\/p>\n

After everything you went through, now you are left convinced that everyone will treat you the same and that there doesn\u2019t exist a man who deserves for you to open up to him and for you to love him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com o tempo, abra\u00e7ou a sua vida de solteiro. <\/span>Your walls became your comfort zone and the armor around your heart became something you couldn\u2019t imagine living without.<\/b><\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve mastered the art of putting a brave girl mask on your face. You caged your vulnerable heart because you thought it was the only way to protect yourself from going through another emotional breakdown.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even though I completely understand everything you\u2019re feeling right now, I have to tell you that you are wrong. Because this, what you are doing, won\u2019t bring you any good.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being guarded and closed will only cause you harm. You won\u2019t affect the people who have hurt you and you won\u2019t heal your broken heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

O que vai fazer \u00e9 privar-se da possibilidade de alguma vez encontrar o amor. O que vai fazer \u00e9 perder a oportunidade de conhecer algu\u00e9m que mere\u00e7a o seu tempo, energia e esfor\u00e7os. O que vai fazer \u00e9 perder-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><\/p>\n

E quando isso acontecer, todos os que vos trouxeram at\u00e9 aqui ganhar\u00e3o. Significar\u00e1 que te tornaste igual a eles e essa ser\u00e1 a sua maior vit\u00f3ria.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong<\/span>\u2014<\/span>I don\u2019t expect you to change your ways overnight because that would be impossible. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that opening your heart to someone new seems frightening after everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, por favor, pelo menos tente. D\u00ea passos de beb\u00e9 e tente voltar a ser a pessoa que era antes de ter passado por todos estes desgostos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, agora \u00e9s muito mais inteligente. Tudo o que lhe aconteceu pode e deve servir de experi\u00eancia e de li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas mas dif\u00edceis.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todas as tuas rela\u00e7\u00f5es falhadas serviram para te ensinar a ser mais forte.
\nYou know better now and your gut won\u2019t allow you to repeat the same mistakes. You\u2019ve had some toxic people in your life and trust me<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you won\u2019t let in anyone similar to them ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estou a pedir-lhe que comece a acreditar no amor neste momento. Estou apenas a pedir-lhe que tenha f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3prio e tudo o resto vir\u00e1 a seguir.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am asking you to believe in your judgment-making skills and in your intuition. To have faith that destiny will send you someone who won\u2019t be like those who have done you harm.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque esse homem aparecer\u00e1 quando menos esperares. Ele vai curar todas as tuas feridas e vai restaurar a tua f\u00e9 no amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

And when he comes along, you\u2019ll be happy that you didn\u2019t miss out on him just because you were too scared of putting yourself out there.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I know that you are scared. Actually, you are terrified of meeting new people and of letting anyone in. It\u2019s not just that you are scared of tearing down your walls and getting close to new people; your heart trembles at the mere thought of allowing someone to break it all over again. And I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":30847,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/11111-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30846","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30846"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30846\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30847"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}