{"id":30990,"date":"2020-07-09T09:09:53","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:09:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=30990"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:33","slug":"as-verdadeiras-razoes-pelas-quais-os-homens-optam-pelo-ato-cobarde-de-se-esconderem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-verdadeiras-razoes-pelas-quais-os-homens-optam-pelo-ato-cobarde-de-se-esconderem\/","title":{"rendered":"Raz\u00f5es reais pelas quais os homens optam pelo ato cobarde do \"Ghosting"},"content":{"rendered":"

O Ghosting \u00e9 a pior forma de rutura<\/a> com algu\u00e9m, tudo por causa daquele sentimento persistente que permanece no nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o devido \u00e0 falta de conclus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Brinca com a nossa cabe\u00e7a, enche-nos de d\u00favidas e destr\u00f3i a nossa auto-confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o consegue seguir em frente com a sua vida porque est\u00e1 constantemente a questionar tudo, a perguntar-se se foi voc\u00ea e a n\u00e3o saber como resolver o problema.<\/p>\n

You make all these excuses for him but deep down\u2026 you know it\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a really crappy dating habit that is plaguing today\u2019s society and here are some insightful reasons why men resort to this horrendous way of breaking our heart:<\/p>\n

1. Ele \u00e9 apenas pregui\u00e7oso<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por vezes, os homens s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o imaturos.<\/p>\n

He may have lost the interest he previously had in you and instead of being a man and letting you down gently, he\u2019ll stop any and all communication.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that he probably doesn\u2019t even see it as a problem.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll just stop answering and act as if it\u2019s the most normal thing in the world and move on to some other girl, while you\u2019re desperately trying to figure out what you did wrong.<\/p>\n

Os gajos \u00e0s vezes s\u00e3o uns imbecis imaturos.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t have the balls to tell you how he feels<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sometimes, guys are afraid of how we\u2019re going to react. As if women are some kind of time bombs that are going to explode when broken up with.<\/p>\n

V\u00e1 l\u00e1, d\u00eaem-nos algum cr\u00e9dito!<\/p>\n

So instead of dealing with their emotions and sending us a text saying they\u2019re not interested in continuing this, they\u2019ll disappear and hope we won\u2019t lose our shit at them.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just easier to resort to fantasma<\/a> do que ter de responder \u00e0 nossa simples pergunta, perguntando-se o que correu mal.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s keeping his options open<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Guys have this deluded belief that if they don\u2019t technically end things with you, there\u2019s a chance later if they decide to hit us up again while searching for someone better.<\/p>\n

This is such a twisted way of thinking and keeping their options open, in case they don\u2019t find anyone better than you.<\/p>\n

They believe this to be okay since they never really broke it off in the first place. They just didn\u2019t text, call or reply.<\/p>\n

4. Ele quer poupar os teus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por vezes, os rapazes pensam que deix\u00e1-la sem dizer uma palavra a vai deixar menos magoada do que ter toda a conversa sobre a separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Como se estivessem de alguma forma a poupar os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 engra\u00e7ado, eu sei, mas alguns homens acreditam mesmo nisso.<\/p>\n

Como se n\u00e3o ter qualquer conclus\u00e3o e ficar ali sentado a pensar no que raio correu mal pudesse ser melhor do que ouvir uma raz\u00e3o v\u00e1lida para ele querer acabar com as coisas.<\/p>\n

In reality, this is all just about protecting his own feelings, rather than your own. He might actually believe that he\u2019s doing it for you but deep down, he\u2019s protecting himself.<\/p>\n

5. He just doesn\u2019t really care<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

This is the worst kind of guy. One who truly doesn\u2019t give a shit about how he makes you feel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be with you for as long as it\u2019s convenient for him but the minute he gets bored or finds someone else, he\u2019ll just leave without a word and not care how much it hurts.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that it will suck for you not having any closure but he just won\u2019t care to give it to you. Really classy.<\/p>\n

6. Ele n\u00e3o faz ideia do que dizer<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He is really bad at breaking up. He panics and doesn\u2019t know what to say as he will probably only make it worse, so he does the only thing he knows\u2014leaves without a trace.<\/p>\n

This kind of guy doesn\u2019t really want to hurt you and even though he definitely is making it hard on you, he\u2019s really just the type of guy who doesn\u2019t handle pressure of any kind well.<\/p>\n

It sucks, I know. And you should in no way feel sorry for him but hey, at least he\u2019s better than the guy who genuinely doesn\u2019t give a shit, right?<\/p>\n

7. Falta de tempo<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Mas esta \u00e9 a desculpa mais esfarrapada de todas. Uma mensagem r\u00e1pida \u00e9 literalmente 20 segundos do seu tempo.<\/p>\n

Ele pode estar a afogar-se em trabalho e obriga\u00e7\u00f5es, mas todos os homens devem ter a dec\u00eancia de terminar as coisas com gra\u00e7a e respeito.<\/p>\n

Se tiver tempo para fazer uma pausa no trabalho, tem tempo para fazer uma chamada ou enviar uma mensagem de texto. \u00c9 muito simples.<\/p>\n

\"Raz\u00f5es<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ghosting is the worst way of breaking up with someone, all because of that lingering feeling that remains in our heart due to lack of closure. It plays with our head, fills us with self-doubt and destroys our self-confidence. It leaves you unable to move forward with your life because you are constantly questioning everything,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":120022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Real-Reasons-Why-Men-Choose-The-Cowardly-Act-Of-Ghosting-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30990","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30990"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30990\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120022"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30990"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30990"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30990"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}