{"id":31028,"date":"2020-12-09T10:57:41","date_gmt":"2020-12-09T10:57:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31028"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:38:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:38:34","slug":"aqui-esta-a-dura-verdade-se-ele-te-amasse-nao-te-teria-deixado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aqui-esta-a-dura-verdade-se-ele-te-amasse-nao-te-teria-deixado\/","title":{"rendered":"Eis a dura verdade: se ele te amasse, n\u00e3o te teria deixado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser deixado para tr\u00e1s<\/a> by the person you love the most is heartbreaking and one of the most painful things you can go through\u2014there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n

But what is even more devastating is accepting that the reason this person walked away from you was because he simply didn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n

Because let\u2019s face it\u2014the last thing you want to admit is that the love you feel is unrequited, even though it is the only truth.<\/p>\n

So instead of admitting this to yourself, you keep finding justification for this guy\u2019s actions and behavior.<\/p>\n

Em vez de aceitar a verdade, continua a arranjar desculpas para o facto de ele se ter afastado de si.<\/p>\n

Continua a mentir a si pr\u00f3pria para continuar a am\u00e1-lo e para continuar a ter esperan\u00e7as e a esperar que ele volte para si, como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n

Well, I hate to be the one to break it to you because I know this is the last thing you want to hear and something you are trying to run away from but this man doesn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m sei que, no fundo, est\u00e1 bem ciente desta realidade dolorosa, mas em vez de a olhar nos olhos, est\u00e1 a passar todo este tempo a silenciar essa pequena voz na sua cabe\u00e7a que lhe diz a dura verdade.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014your ex might have loved you in the past or he might have had some feelings for you but it is more than obvious that he has stopped loving you, or that he doesn\u2019t love you enough or the way you love him.<\/p>\n

Because the one who loves you doesn\u2019t abandon you. Everything else is empty excuses.<\/p>\n

No, he doesn\u2019t need time to get his shit together. No, he hasn\u2019t left you because he realized you were too good for him. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, it wasn\u2019t the wrong timing. No, he isn\u2019t <\/b>emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/b><\/a> ou com fobia de compromissos.<\/b><\/p>\n

He simply doesn\u2019t care enough to fight for your relationship. He doesn\u2019t care enough to stay by your side through thick and thin and to do his best to resolve any issues the two of you might have.<\/b><\/p>\n

Porque quando um verdadeiro homem te ama, ele fica ao teu lado, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele lutar\u00e1 ao seu lado para que as coisas funcionem e esfor\u00e7ar-se-\u00e1 ao m\u00e1ximo para ultrapassar todos os obst\u00e1culos que possam encontrar pelo caminho.<\/p>\n

Quando um homem a ama, est\u00e1 disposto a fazer certos sacrif\u00edcios para o bem da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 pronto a mover montanhas pelo seu amor e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada nem ningu\u00e9m que o possa impedir de o fazer.<\/p>\n

Quando um verdadeiro homem a ama, ama-a da mesma forma, no seu melhor e no seu pior. Ele compreende-a e torna-se o seu melhor amigo e n\u00e3o apenas o seu amante.<\/p>\n

This man doesn\u2019t even think of walking away when the smallest inconvenience appears. Instead, he sees the two of you as partners in crime and he knows better than leaving his teammate behind.<\/p>\n

When you are with a real man, he will do everything in his power to always find a reason to love you and he\u2019ll never think you are not lovable.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never compare you with other women because he could never picture himself next to anyone else except you.<\/p>\n

For this man, leaving isn\u2019t even an option, despite all the hardships the two of you might encounter. He knows that love needs hard work and backing out is never something he even considers doing.<\/p>\n

But let\u2019s face it\u2014your ex isn\u2019t this man and he could never have the capacity of becoming him. Instead, he was a coward who abandoned you at first glance of trouble.<\/p>\n

E dessa forma, ele mostrou-te que nunca foi e nunca ser\u00e1 digno do teu amor.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s hard getting over him but you need to understand that you are crying over someone who never deserved you. That you are putting your life on hold for someone who moved on a while ago.<\/p>\n

And most importantly, you need to realize that you are actually lucky that you\u2019ve gotten rid of this immature boy. That you should thank him for leaving you and por partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because if he hadn\u2019t done this, he wouldn\u2019t have opened a path to this man who will come into your life and who will show you what true love is. <\/b><\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t have made room for a man who will stay by your side through good and bad times and for a man who is meant to be your happily ever after.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Aqui<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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