{"id":31095,"date":"2020-04-30T12:04:45","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T12:04:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31095"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:12:43","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:12:43","slug":"estas-melhor-sem-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estas-melhor-sem-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que est\u00e1s melhor sem ele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re having second thoughts about leaving him but deep down in your soul you know that he\u2019s just not right for you and you would be ten times happier without him, do not waste a second of your life on that guy who is definitely not worthy of having you.<\/p>\n<p>To assure you that you\u2019re making a right decision, here are 10 ultimate signs that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foste-tu-que-lhe-mostraste-que-ela-esta-melhor-sozinha\/\"> you\u2019re better off without his toxic love<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>1. You\u2019re not his priority<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68918\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele tem sempre outras prioridades que se sobrep\u00f5em sempre \u00e0 tua exist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>O seu animal de estima\u00e7\u00e3o, os seus amigos e fam\u00edlia, os seus passatempos e as suas noites de conv\u00edvio s\u00e3o muito mais importantes para ele do que passar uma noite consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, he will always make that puppy face pretending that he\u2019s utterly sorry for not having time for you and that he will make it up to you. But, he never does, does he?<\/p>\n<h2>2. He doesn\u2019t make an effort to make you feel special<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68919\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"casal em discuss\u00e3o sentado num sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Fazer um esfor\u00e7o para o fazer sentir especial \u00e9 uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Picking a flower for you, making you a cup of coffee in the morning or kissing your forehead when he leaves for work is something that he never does, and he\u2019s not even thinking of doing it.<\/p>\n<h2>3. He\u2019s totally unambitious<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68921\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-laying-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"homem deitado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-laying-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-laying-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-laying-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The future is something he\u2019s totally not worried about because he has no plans at all.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t bother thinking about his goals or future achievements because the only thing that he gives a fuck about is how many beers has he succeeded in drinking last night.<\/p>\n<p>Ambitious men don\u2019t spend days and nights thinking only about having fun and enjoying the moment because they know that the future is something that shouldn\u2019t be taken for granted, just like you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. He\u2019s giving you mixed signals<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68922\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cama ao lado do namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One day he\u2019s all sweet and nice, and the other day he doesn\u2019t even bother looking at you.<\/p>\n<p>He dances as his self-centered brain plays. He couldn\u2019t even give less of a shit if he\u2019s sending you mixed signals because he ain\u2019t got time to worry about that.<\/p>\n<p>And when you complain to him about it, he simply tells you that you\u2019re overreacting and that you\u2019re too needy.<\/p>\n<p>But, the truth is that he\u2019s just a selfish asshole, manipulating you into believing that it\u2019s your fault for everything.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You haven\u2019t heard \u2018I love you\u2019 from him for a long time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68923\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada sentada na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hearing those three words or calling you \u2018Darling\u2019 or \u2018Honey\u2019 is as rare as hens\u2019 teeth. And even if he says it, it sounds totally wrong, and you know that it is just not right.<\/p>\n<p>You feel better when he\u2019s silent instead of faking his feelings towards you, and if you tell him this, he will tell you again that it is your fault because you\u2019re forcing him to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-assim-que-se-abre-ao-amor-depois-de-ter-sido-emocionalmente-afetado\/\">abrir-se para si<\/a> and to be romantic even though you know he\u2019s far from that.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com ele \u00e9 mais uma tortura do que um prazer<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68924\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-putting-pillow-on-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada a p\u00f4r uma almofada na cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-putting-pillow-on-her-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-putting-pillow-on-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/upset-woman-putting-pillow-on-her-head-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The only thing he worries about during sex is whether he\u2019s succeeded in reaching a climax.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t give a damn if you haven\u2019t or if you\u2019ve enjoyed it all. He\u2019s totally uncreative when it comes to spicing things up or engaging in foreplay.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you feel like you\u2019ve lost the connection a long time ago, and that is why having sex is more like torture than something you should be enjoying.<\/p>\n<h2>7. He\u2019s a cheater and a liar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68925\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"homem infeliz sentado na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/unhappy-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s constantly making excuses that he needs to stay longer at work, his old friend is in town or his grandmother has invited him to dinner.<\/p>\n<p>But, you know that this is all false and instead of staying longer at work, he\u2019s actually looking for other victims to hook up with.<\/p>\n<p>And when you ask him about where he was last night, he becomes extremely mad because you dare to question his \u201cloyalty\u201d and \u201ccommitment\u201d.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ele faz-te sempre esperar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68926\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/attractive-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"homem atraente a olhar para o espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/attractive-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/attractive-man-looking-at-mirror-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/attractive-man-looking-at-mirror-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o importa se se trata de ir ao cinema, a um centro comercial ou a um jantar, ele vai sempre, sempre, fazer-te esperar.<\/p>\n<p>He even made you wait for him when you were going on your first date. But, back then you didn\u2019t know that it will become a routine.<\/p>\n<p>Waiting is an ultimate sign of disrespect toward you, and you shouldn\u2019t waste any second longer on him because he doesn\u2019t deserve it. Period.<\/p>\n<h2>9. He\u2019s never there for you when you need him the most<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68927\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar atrav\u00e9s de uma janela chuvosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re feeling down and need him to be by your side, he\u2019s never there. And even if you call him, he simply finds some lame excuse to let you know that he\u2019s unable to be there for you.<\/p>\n<p>This makes you realize that you don\u2019t even need him because if he\u2019s never present when you\u2019re at your worst, he certainly doesn\u2019t deserve you when you\u2019re at your best.<\/p>\n<h2>10. He\u2019s an egocentric prick<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68928\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-man-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"homem bonito a sorrir\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-man-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-man-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-man-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>99% of the time, he\u2019s only worried about appeasing his egocentric self and doing things that make HIM happy.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have time to think about others or how he can make things better in your relationship because he\u2019s too busy making himself his number one priority.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s an egocentric prick, manipulative liar, ultimate douchebag, and you\u2019re far better off without him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68916\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Better-Off-Without-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 sinais de que est\u00e1s melhor sem ele\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Better-Off-Without-Him-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Better-Off-Without-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re having second thoughts about leaving him but deep down in your soul you know that he\u2019s just not right for you and you would be ten times happier without him, do not waste a second of your life on that guy who is definitely not worthy of having you. To assure you that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":68929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31095","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Better-Off-Without-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31095","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31095"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31095\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31095"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31095"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31095"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}