{"id":31099,"date":"2019-01-10T12:18:29","date_gmt":"2019-01-10T12:18:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31099"},"modified":"2022-02-07T11:09:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T11:09:37","slug":"6-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-namora-um-homem-com-filhos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-namora-um-homem-com-filhos\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas a ter em conta ao sair com um homem com filhos"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve found yourself falling for a guy, and you feel like this could be it. There\u2019s nothing that could burst this happy bubble, until you find out he doesn\u2019t come alone.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s got a kid. Or kids, even. And you don\u2019t know how to feel about that. You\u2019re not sure if you can handle all it entails and if you\u2019re actually ready for this. But don\u2019t panic just yet. It\u2019s okay to feel overwhelmed by this information, but you need to see it from all sides before making any permanent decisions.<\/p>\n

Eis alguns factores a ter em conta antes de decidir se deve ou n\u00e3o continuar com esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

1. Precisa de estabilidade e empenhamento<\/h2>\n

Um homem com filhos<\/a> doesn\u2019t have time for casual flings and temporary relationships. He\u2019s got a lot on his plate, and all he wants is somebody who will estar presente<\/span><\/a> and not quit on him when it gets a little challenging. He\u2019s already got too many obligations, so he needs someone to understand this and who can deal with not being the only important person in his life.<\/p>\n

2. As crian\u00e7as ser\u00e3o sempre a sua prioridade n\u00famero um<\/h2>\n

No matter how much this man loves you, if it comes to it, he will always choose his children. They are a part of him, and there is no question as to who comes first. If you\u2019re a jealous person or if you\u2019re possessive by nature, this is not the guy for you. He will love you deeply, but his children\u2019s happiness will always be his first priority.<\/p>\n

3. A ex far\u00e1 sempre parte da vida dele<\/h2>\n

Again, if there is a jealous streak in you, you\u2019re probably not going to like this. Even if he doesn\u2019t like his ex, she\u2019s always going to be there. It\u2019s called co-parentalidade<\/span><\/a>, and it\u2019s what is necessary for the kids\u2019 sake. There will be a lot of seeing her and talking on the phone, but it will always be about the kids. If you can\u2019t cope with this, you should probably not continue with this relationship because his ex is always going to be a part of the picture.<\/p>\n

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4. Esperar antes de conhecer as crian\u00e7as<\/h2>\n

Only agree to meet his kids when you are sure that you really want to do this. Again, he needs stability. Do not agree to meet them and then decide to bail on him. If he wants his kids to get to know you, it means he is serious with you and wants you to be a part of his kids\u2019 lives. if this is not what you wan\u2019t, do not meet them only to disappear from their lives. It\u2019s not fair to anyone.<\/p>\n

5. Os seus planos v\u00e3o ser muito alterados<\/h2>\n

When there are kids involved, it\u2019s hard to make plans of any kind. Sometimes, their mother won\u2019t be able to take them at the last minute, so you can say goodbye to date night.<\/p>\n

Kids get sick, so sometimes he won\u2019t be able to see you for a few days because he\u2019ll be busy caring for his child, and you need to be okay with that if you want this to work. Making compromises and occasionally sacrificing date nights is going to be part of your life now. Decide now whether you\u2019re ready for this or not.<\/p>\n

6. Ter paci\u00eancia e comunicar os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

Dealing with children that are not your own is going to be challenging at times. They are going to challenge your authority and you won\u2019t be able to do much about it. You cannot discipline them or yell at them (unless they do something really bad), so you\u2019re going to feel flustered sometimes. When this happens, talk to your partner.<\/p>\n

Diga-lhe como se sente e ele compreender\u00e1. Ele sabe o qu\u00e3o dif\u00edcil pode ser para si, por isso vai tentar facilitar ao m\u00e1ximo as coisas e falar com os filhos sobre o assunto. Uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta e saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 fundamental para a sobreviv\u00eancia desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

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