{"id":31153,"date":"2021-01-01T08:57:11","date_gmt":"2021-01-01T08:57:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31153"},"modified":"2024-10-30T11:26:48","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T10:26:48","slug":"este-ano-deixa-de-fugir-do-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/este-ano-deixa-de-fugir-do-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Este ano, pare de fugir do amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you\u2019ve been hurt too many times in the past, the only natural thing to do is for you to look for ways to protect your scarred heart from experiencing any more emotional pain.<\/p>\n<p>It is normal that you are ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent yourself from going through the same kind of hell you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve been broken and wounded by the ones you\u2019ve trusted the most, it is perfectly natural to put your guard up and to become careful when it comes to the people you let in. It is normal to stop seeing the good in people and to become the negative and bitter person you swore you\u2019d never be.<\/p>\n<p><b>After all that you\u2019ve been through, one can\u2019t judge you for losing your faith in love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The fact is that the ones you\u2019ve loved the most and the ones you were convinced loved you back have done you the most harm, so consequently you think that the only way to keep yourself safe from all that pain is to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/4-things-to-know-before-loving-a-girl-who-almost-gave-up-on-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> desistir do amor <\/a> no seu conjunto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sem sequer nos apercebermos disso, ficamos com medo do amor.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122266 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"uma morena deprimida senta-se na cama e segura a cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-brunette-sits-in-bed-and-holds-her-head-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Constr\u00f3i muros espessos \u00e0 volta da sua alma, coloca uma armadura de a\u00e7o \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e levanta a guarda, convencido de que essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de se salvar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>E foi exatamente isso que lhe aconteceu.<\/p>\n<p>You convinced yourself that pushing people away and not allowing yourself to have meaningful relationships were the only choices you had if you didn\u2019t want to expose yourself to another heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>With years, you\u2019ve changed completely. All of this abandonment trauma that you went through caused you to have serious trust issues and made you a different person.<\/p>\n<p>Mas este ano, pe\u00e7o-vos que deixem de fechar o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor, porque isso tem vindo a destruir-vos lentamente, sem que se apercebam disso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este ano, pe\u00e7o-vos que sejam suficientemente corajosos para deixar o amor entrar novamente na vossa vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sei que tens medo, mesmo que n\u00e3o o admitas a ningu\u00e9m, incluindo a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122267 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher asi\u00e1tica deprimida deita-se na cama e chora\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-depressed-asian-woman-lies-in-bed-and-cries-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eu sei que voltar a p\u00f4r-se \u00e0 prova \u00e9 assustador como o raio, porque estamos sempre a pensar em todas as coisas m\u00e1s que nos podem acontecer e em todas as consequ\u00eancias negativas.<\/p>\n<p>Mas confie em mim e, por uma vez, pare de pensar demais. Por uma vez, pare de assumir o pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel e, por uma vez, tenha f\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Tem f\u00e9 que nem todas as pessoas s\u00e3o iguais e que haver\u00e1 um homem que te ajudar\u00e1 a apagar as tuas cicatrizes e a consertar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado.<\/p>\n<p>That there will come a man who will give you all the love you deserve and a man who won\u2019t think that you are damaged beyond repair.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tem f\u00e9 que Deus te enviar\u00e1 finalmente algu\u00e9m digno de ti. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Algu\u00e9m que o ajudar\u00e1 a apanhar os seus peda\u00e7os quebrados e algu\u00e9m que o far\u00e1 acreditar no amor novamente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122268 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga triste deitada na relva com uma flor amarela na m\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-sad-girl-lying-in-the-grass-with-a-yellow-flower-in-her-hand-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas, acima de tudo, tenha f\u00e9 no poder do amor. Tenha f\u00e9 que ele o ajudar\u00e1 a curar-se e que o ajudar\u00e1 a voltar a ser a pessoa que costumava ser, antes de todas estas coisas m\u00e1s terem acontecido.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not advising you not to listen to your gut or to give access to just about anyone who wants to enter your life.<\/p>\n<p>I am not telling you to fight for love which doesn\u2019t exist or to beg for it.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, estou apenas a pedir-lhe que esteja mais aberto a isso. <b>Pe\u00e7o-vos que baixem a guarda e que deixem de pensar que s\u00e3o <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-ela-esta-convencida-de-que-nao-esta-destinada-a-ser-amada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>n\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado<\/b><\/a><b>, just because you\u2019ve been through a lot.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Estou a pedir-vos que escolham o amor em vez do \u00f3dio. Para escolher o perd\u00e3o em vez do ressentimento. Para finalmente se libertarem do vosso passado e serem suficientemente corajosos para entrarem no vosso futuro brilhante.<\/p>\n<p>To stop allowing all the pain you\u2019ve experienced to define you and to stop letting it cage you. <b>Porque a \u00fanica pessoa que est\u00e1s a magoar ao privares-te do amor \u00e9s tu.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122269 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga triste com telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sad-girl-with-cell-phone-in-hand-standing-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014even if you let love back in your life, it doesn\u2019t mean that you are safe from any negativity or potential pain.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, there is a possibility that you\u2019ll run into some bad people who will want to hurt you all over again.<\/p>\n<p>But there is also a big possibility that finally, you\u2019ll find someone who is meant to be yours. That you\u2019ll find your soulmate and the missing piece of the puzzle.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m que tornar\u00e1 a tua vida muito mais bonita e que te ajudar\u00e1 a ver que cada um dos teus desgostos aconteceu por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who will give you the love you can\u2019t even imagine exists.<\/p>\n<p><b>E tenho a certeza de que vale a pena correr esse risco.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122271 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Este ano, pare de fugir do amor\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you\u2019ve been hurt too many times in the past, the only natural thing to do is for you to look for ways to protect your scarred heart from experiencing any more emotional pain. It is normal that you are ready to do whatever it takes just to prevent yourself from going through the same&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":177232,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/This-Year-Stop-Running-Away-From-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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