{"id":31214,"date":"2020-09-11T14:06:34","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T14:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31214"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:37:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:37:53","slug":"encontraras-o-amor-quando-deixares-de-o-procurar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/encontraras-o-amor-quando-deixares-de-o-procurar\/","title":{"rendered":"Encontrar\u00e1s o amor quando deixares de o procurar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; we all want love. And not just any kind of love &#8212; we want an unconditional, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love that doesn\u2019t fade away with time.<\/p>\n<p>Queremos encontrar a nossa alma g\u00e9mea, o nosso par feito no c\u00e9u, aquele que est\u00e1 destinado a ser nosso e a nossa pessoa para sempre, tudo numa s\u00f3 pessoa.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t get me wrong &#8212; I am not saying that pursuit for love should be the only thing giving meaning to your existence nor that love is the only important thing in the world. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I am especially not telling you that you can\u2019t be complete on your own and that you need love to fulfill you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, em algum momento da nossa vida, todos queremos encontrar aquela pessoa especial com quem a partilhar.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m que far\u00e1 com que todas as nossas dificuldades pare\u00e7am suport\u00e1veis e todos os nossos desafios solucion\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m s\u00f3 para estar ao nosso lado <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/escolher-um-parceiro-que-o-apanhe-quando-cair\/\">para nos apanhar quando estamos prestes a cair<\/a> e para nos dar a m\u00e3o, dizendo-nos que tudo vai correr bem quando perdemos toda a esperan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120320 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher de cabelo castanho comprido com um casaco branco caminha pela rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-coat-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you are no exception. You are not afraid of being alone and you\u2019ve embraced your single life a while ago.<\/p>\n<p>You know what you want and are not a girl who is ready to settle for less so obviously, you don\u2019t even think of finding someone so you are not &nbsp;alone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Instead, you just want to find an ever-lasting connection, a man who\u2019s love will feel like home and a man who will always try his best to always <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/obrigada-por-me-lembrares-sempre-como-sao-as-borboletas\/\"><b>recordar-vos a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o das borboletas<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even though you don\u2019t want to lower your standards (and you shouldn\u2019t), you are not looking for a perfect man because you don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect either.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 bem consciente das suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e s\u00f3 quer que algu\u00e9m o aceite tal como \u00e9, sem tentar mud\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 queres algu\u00e9m que te compreenda e que te ame de volta, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m com quem envelhecer e algu\u00e9m que ficar\u00e1 ao seu lado nos bons e maus momentos.<\/p>\n<p><b>But this love you are waiting for isn\u2019t coming, as much as you keep searching for it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120321 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher sentada na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All you get are immature guys who don\u2019t appreciate everything you have to offer and who don\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>So naturally, you can\u2019t help but wonder what the problem is? You see all those happy couples everywhere you look and it appears like you are the only one who can\u2019t seem to find love.<\/p>\n<p>A culpa \u00e9 vossa? Est\u00e1s destinado a morrer sozinho? N\u00e3o est\u00e1s destinado a ser amado?<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you one thing &#8212; love will come to you. And it will happen when you least expect it.<\/p>\n<p>Entrar\u00e1 na tua vida quando desistires completamente dela e quando deixares de a procurar.<\/p>\n<p>Acontecer\u00e1 quando estiver realmente preparado para o fazer e quando deixar de se preocupar com isso.<\/p>\n<p>Once you stop with the overthinking and once the desperation abandons you completely &#8212; thats when love will come.<\/p>\n<p>One morning, when you accept that you\u2019ll never find your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/alguem-especial-vira-a-vida-nao-dar\/\"> algu\u00e9m especial <\/a> , true love will knock on your door and it will bring you everything you\u2019ve expected and more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120322 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com um chap\u00e9u na cabe\u00e7a e \u00f3culos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-and-glasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 temos de compreender que nada acontece quando queremos que aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><b>The same is with love. Love has the perfect timing and if it still hasn\u2019t come to you, it just means you are not prepared for it yet.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, pare com a espera. Pare de se comparar com os outros \u00e0 sua volta e pare de ficar obcecado com o seu estado de relacionamento.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, esforce-se por se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio. Dar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/todo-o-amor-que-deste-voltara-para-ti-um-dia\/\"> todo esse amor <\/a> que n\u00e3o escondeste a mais ningu\u00e9m sen\u00e3o a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Para variar, seja ego\u00edsta. Concentre-se em melhorar e em mimar-se.<\/p>\n<p><b>E, mais importante, ame-se e respeite-se como espera que um homem o fa\u00e7a. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Em vez de se stressar e pensar demasiado no futuro, tente seguir o fluxo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t analyze the past, don\u2019t overthink the future and live in the present moment.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Relaxa e deixa que o amor te encontre, em vez de o procurares. Garanto-te que, um dia destes, ele vai encontr\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-120319 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Encontrar\u00e1s o amor quando deixares de o procurar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; we all want love. And not just any kind of love &#8212; we want an unconditional, once-in-a-lifetime kind of love that doesn\u2019t fade away with time. We want to find our soulmate, our match made in heaven, the one who is destined to be ours and our forever person all in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":120318,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Youll-Find-Love-When-You-Stop-Looking-For-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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