{"id":31225,"date":"2020-04-11T14:25:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T14:25:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31225"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:40:26","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:40:26","slug":"a-verdade-honesta-sobre-dar-uma-segunda-oportunidade-a-um-traidor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-honesta-sobre-dar-uma-segunda-oportunidade-a-um-traidor\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade honesta sobre dar uma segunda oportunidade a um traidor"},"content":{"rendered":"

A batota \u00e9 uma escolha. Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 obrigado a fazer-nos passar por tanta dor, m\u00e1goa e vergonha e, no entanto, ele f\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

A trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um ato malicioso e todas as pessoas envolvidas devem sair da sua vida. Mesmo que tenha sido com algu\u00e9m muito pr\u00f3ximo de si.<\/p>\n

That makes it that much worse. Don\u2019t you think if they loved you so much, they would stop and think about what they\u2019re doing to you?<\/p>\n

Deixem que isto se entenda.<\/b><\/p>\n

When cheating occurs, there are so many chances to stop. So many times when one or both parties are capable of just stopping the whole thing and realizing what a shitty thing they\u2019re about to do.<\/p>\n

And yet, it didn\u2019t happen. So next time you consider giving o seu homem <\/a> uma segunda oportunidade depois de ter esmagado a sua alma com este ato desprez\u00edvel, pense duas vezes.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t want to think about you as he was doing it, so why do hell should you give him an opportunity to do it again?<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been put through the wringer by your parceiro de trai\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, know that you\u2019re not alone. Find solace in the fact that there are so many of us out there struggling to cope with this.<\/p>\n

Trust someone who has been through this before, and after gave out more second chances than I can count, regretting it to the bone\u2026<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the ugly truth. They don\u2019t change. They never take responsibility for what they did, even though they try to make it seem as if they do.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Their perspective remains the same and they don\u2019t reform in any way. It\u2019s a futile battle, trust me, I\u2019ve witnessed it more times than I\u2019d like to admit.<\/b><\/p>\n

And let me tell you what they\u2019re too good at.<\/p>\n

Eles convenc\u00ea-lo-\u00e3o facilmente com o seu sorriso encantador e apolog\u00e9tico, com os seus olhos de cachorrinho e com as palavras certas que precisa de ouvir para se sentir seguro de que foi apenas um momento de fraqueza que nunca mais voltar\u00e1 a acontecer.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 n\u00e3o assumir\u00e3o qualquer responsabilidade pelos seus actos, como enumerar\u00e3o in\u00fameras formas de como foram for\u00e7ados a isso por si e pelo seu comportamento.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t have enough time for them. You were too busy at work to nurture their fragile egos. You\u2019re always on their case, so they don\u2019t really have a choice but to find a girl who\u2019s going to be there.<\/i><\/p>\n

It’s easier for them to go out there and find comfort in the arms of another woman, instead of being a man, having balls and talking to their girl about whatever issue that is plaguing them.<\/p>\n

Os batoteiros s\u00e3o demasiado bons com as palavras, tenha sempre isso em mente.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o os mentirosos mais vis e manipuladores que se pode ter por perto, que brincam com a nossa mente depois de nos terem feito mal e nos destroem a alma, atribuindo-nos a culpa.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o mestres em vitimizar-se a si pr\u00f3prios e em fazer de si o mau da fita.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please be smart about this and don\u2019t let them lure you back into their world of toxic manipulation and jogos mentais <\/a> que vos far\u00e1 mais mal do que bem.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

They crushed you once, why let them go for round two? People who cheat don\u2019t understand the real meaning of love.<\/p>\n

The unconditional type of love, where there is mutual respect and where partners go through all kinds of crap together, but they don\u2019t let it break them.<\/p>\n

They are not afraid of a challenge, because they know for as long as they stick side by side, they\u2019re good.<\/p>\n

Cheaters aren\u2019t wired this way. Their outlook on love is a warped one, at best.<\/p>\n

Ter a sua alma t\u00f3xica por perto s\u00f3 vai prejudic\u00e1-lo ainda mais e convid\u00e1-lo a regressar a esse mundo venenoso do qual esteve t\u00e3o perto de sair.<\/p>\n

Retire o seu bilhete e nunca olhe para tr\u00e1s. Se ele fez batota uma vez, pode voltar a faz\u00ea-lo. Mereces mais do que algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se importa de te magoar t\u00e3o profundamente.<\/p>\n

Appreciate yourself enough to say \u2018<\/b>N\u00e3o<\/i><\/b>\u2019. You\u2019re too good for him anyway. <\/b><\/p>\n

Show him your strength and leave him with grace. Make him see what he\u2019s missing.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Cheating is a choice. Nobody is forced into putting you through so much pain, hurt and shame, and yet, they did. Cheating is a malicious act and every person involved in it should be out of your life. Even if it was with someone really close to you. That makes it that much worse. Don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":75295,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31225","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/The-Honest-Truth-About-Giving-A-Cheater-A-Second-Chance.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31225","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31225"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31225\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31225"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31225"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31225"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}