{"id":31229,"date":"2020-08-11T14:37:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T14:37:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31229"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:37:03","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:37:03","slug":"se-ele-te-amasse-nao-te-daria-razoes-para-duvidares-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-te-amasse-nao-te-daria-razoes-para-duvidares-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele te amasse, n\u00e3o te daria raz\u00f5es para duvidares dele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando nos encontramos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel, tentamos justificar tudo o que a outra pessoa nos est\u00e1 a fazer.<\/p>\n<p>You make excuses for the bad treatment you keep receiving and you try to find love in places where it clearly doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>E neste processo, esquecemo-nos de como deve ser o verdadeiro amor. Esquecem-se de como se deve comportar um homem que gosta realmente de voc\u00eas.<\/p>\n<p>And you refuse to see the fact that the man you are with now obviously doesn\u2019t love you enough, as soon as he treats you the way he does.<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque se ele te amasse, nunca te faria questionar sobre ele, as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es ou os seus sentimentos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Ele nunca te daria uma raz\u00e3o para duvidares dele ou da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. E \u00e9 exatamente isso que continua a fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>n\u00e3o \u00e9s louca por te sentires assim. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a imaginar coisas e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parceiro-inseguro-esgota-a-relacao\/\">\u00e9 inseguro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120106\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa segurando um guarda-chuva\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pensive-woman-holding-umbrella-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Porque se o seu homem a amasse realmente, nunca faria estes jogos mentais que est\u00e1 a fazer consigo.<\/p>\n<p>He would never make you chase him and he wouldn\u2019t pretend to be hard to get.<\/p>\n<p>He wouldn\u2019t make you second-guess his emotions or look for hidden meanings behind his words and actions.<\/p>\n<p>He would never give you a reason not to trust him or to seek hidden clues of his love. He would never make you dig deep to find his emotions, which he isn\u2019t showing.<\/p>\n<p>When a man cares for you, he doesn\u2019t have a problem showing it to you.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t pretend to be this tough guy who isn\u2019t in touch with his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estar-com-um-homem-que-nao-tenha-medo-de-lhe-mostrar-o-seu-lado-vulneravel\/\">vulnerabilidade do eu<\/a> and he certainly doesn\u2019t act like he is scared of letting you in, when he is clearly isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><b>If a man loves you, he isn\u2019t emotionally unavailable and you don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mulher-que-se-sente-negligenciada-pelo-marido-citacoes\/\">sentir-se emocionalmente negligenciado<\/a>. Tudo o resto s\u00e3o tretas e desculpas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t leave you waiting for his reply and he doesn\u2019t put you through more sleepless nights in which you are trying to decode what he meant when he said or did something.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120107\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com camisola de l\u00e3 verde \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-657-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t make you wonder if he sees you as something temporary or if he considers your relationship as something that has the potential to last a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>If this man loved you, you wouldn\u2019t be this scared of him leaving you.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t be aware that the two of you don\u2019t have a future together and you wouldn\u2019t be preparing yourself for him walking away from you any day now.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t feel alone in your relationship, the way you are feeling now. You wouldn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-odio-feito-maravilha-nao-era-suficiente\/\">wonder why you aren\u2019t enough<\/a> e nunca se duvidaria do seu n\u00edvel de empenhamento.<\/p>\n<p>When a man loves you, he is always there for you; he doesn\u2019t come and go as he likes, expecting you to always be there, where he left you, patiently waiting for him to come crawling back.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t call you only when he needs you and he doesn\u2019t treat you as convenient.<\/p>\n<p>The man who loves you won\u2019t text you only when he is drunk and when he\u2019s run out of all other options.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t give you a reason to doubt his fidelity and he makes it clear that you are the only woman he could ever be with.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120108\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e solit\u00e1ria sentada numa escada ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-sitting-on-stairs-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because when you love someone, you don\u2019t walk out on them at the first glance of a problem. You don\u2019t make them doubt if they can rely on you and you never leave them hanging.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t blame the other person for all the problems that you guys have and you take responsibility for your words and actions.<\/p>\n<p>Lutas por esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque ela tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante para ti.<\/p>\n<p>E, para ser sincera, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que este homem se comporta. N\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que ele a trata e voc\u00ea sabe-o muito bem, mesmo que se recuse a admiti-lo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que continuas a contentar-te com o seu amor sem convic\u00e7\u00e3o, quando sabes que n\u00e3o \u00e9 o verdadeiro? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque \u00e9 que continuas a dar tudo de ti a algu\u00e9m que te faz sentir assim?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque a verdade \u00e9 que mereces muito mais. Merece uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1vel e saud\u00e1vel e uma <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-maneiras-de-estabelecer-uma-ligacao-emocional-mais-profunda-com-o-seu-homem\/\"><b>liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You deserve a love that you know will stay and a man who won\u2019t make you doubt him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120198\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele te amasse, n\u00e3o te daria raz\u00f5es para duvidares dele\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship, you try to justify everything the other person is doing to you. You make excuses for the bad treatment you keep receiving and you try to find love in places where it clearly doesn\u2019t exist. And in this process, you forget what true love should look like&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-He-Loved-You-He-Wouldnt-Give-You-Reason-To-Doubt-Him-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31229","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31229"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31229\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}