{"id":31251,"date":"2020-08-14T10:34:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T10:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31251"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:33:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:33:38","slug":"5-dicas-de-especialistas-para-esquecer-alguem-que-nunca-namorou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-dicas-de-especialistas-para-esquecer-alguem-que-nunca-namorou\/","title":{"rendered":"5 dicas de especialistas para esquecer algu\u00e9m com quem nunca namorou"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o se pode perder algu\u00e9m que nunca se teve, certo? Tretas.<\/p>\n

Getting over a guy you\u2019ve never been in a real relationship with is sometimes even more difficult than moving on from an actual break-up. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you are in love with the man you\u2019ve never had anything with or you are stuck in some kind of an almost relationship\u2014the point is the same; he partiu-te o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, apesar de nunca teres namorado <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tens de te salvar e deixar de partir o teu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Sabes que tens de te afastar e deixar ir, mas o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o continua a agarrar-se.<\/p>\n

That is why we are here to give you the most efficient tips on getting over someone you\u2019ve never been in a relationship with. Just follow them and I can assure you that he\u2019ll be gone from your head and heart in no time.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7ar a ver as coisas como elas realmente s\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

The first thing you need to do if you really want to get over someone you\u2019ve never been in a relationship with is look at the truth directly in the eye, no matter how painful or harsh it might be for you.<\/p>\n

Porque n\u00e3o h\u00e1 outra forma de lidar com a realidade, a n\u00e3o ser aceit\u00e1-la, certo?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me trying to tell you that you aren\u2019t entitled to suffer in any way for this guy or that you are crazy for even thinking about him.<\/p>\n

This is just me asking you to see things for what they really are and accept that they probably won\u2019t ever change.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014even though you don\u2019t want to hear this, the fact is that this man doesn\u2019t care for you.<\/p>\n

Or at least that is his emotions aren\u2019t deep enough to enter a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

No, he won\u2019t change his mind over time. No, he won\u2019t realize that you are the one for him and regret treating you badly.<\/p>\n

E isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se deva desperdi\u00e7ar a vida \u00e0 espera.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think about everything that could have been<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve accepted the harsh reality, it\u2019s time to understand that you are mostly crying over everything you two didn\u2019t experience.<\/p>\n

You are crying over the fact that you could never call this man your boyfriend, over all the trips you didn\u2019t go on together and over all the memories you didn\u2019t create.<\/p>\n

Na sua cabe\u00e7a, pensa que tudo teria sido perfeito entre voc\u00eas os dois se ele lhe tivesse dado uma oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014it wouldn\u2019t have been.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 apenas a romantizar as coisas e a pensar em tudo o que deveria ou poderia ter sido.<\/p>\n

Even though I completely understand your thinking, you also need to understand that none of this is real and it\u2019s time you stop fantasizing about it.<\/p>\n

So instead of obsessing over this potential future that you\u2019ve imagined next to this guy and instead of trying to look for reasons why it could have never worked between the two of you, focus on the present moment.<\/p>\n

Focus on the fact that you don\u2019t have him and forget about all of your plans, dreams and hopes with him because they are obviously not achievable.<\/p>\n

Deixar de idealizar esta pessoa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m, tamb\u00e9m se v\u00eaem os seus lados maus.<\/p>\n

Vemos todas aquelas pequenas coisas que nos irritam e todos os tra\u00e7os de personalidade que gostar\u00edamos de mudar, por muito que gostemos deles.<\/p>\n

Mas isso \u00e9 algo que nunca teve a oportunidade de experimentar porque nunca viveu realmente ao lado deste homem. E \u00e9 por isso que o est\u00e1 a idealizar.<\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que nunca teve a oportunidade de se cansar dessa pessoa. Ele foi sempre algu\u00e9m inating\u00edvel para ti e \u00e9 por isso que nunca passaste da fase das borboletas.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se queres mesmo esquec\u00ea-lo, tens de tirar os \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa.<\/p>\n

Tens de pensar em todos os defeitos que este homem tem e concentrar-te neles sempre que come\u00e7ares a lamentar n\u00e3o estar com ele.<\/p>\n

Cortar todos os la\u00e7os<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que o seu processo de cura e de mudan\u00e7a nunca poder\u00e1 sequer come\u00e7ar se ainda estiver em contacto com esse homem. \u00c9 por isso que tem de cortar todos os la\u00e7os com ele o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

E quando vos digo para cortarem todos os la\u00e7os, estou a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Deixe de ter contacto, livre-se de tudo o que a fa\u00e7a lembrar dele, deixe de visitar os locais que sabe onde o poder\u00e1 encontrar e, pelo menos durante algum tempo, deixe de falar com os amigos dele, tentando obter o m\u00e1ximo de informa\u00e7\u00e3o poss\u00edvel relacionada com ele.<\/p>\n

I know that this isn\u2019t easy. But it is something that has to be done and it is the only way for you to let time heal your wounded heart and do its magic.<\/p>\n

Concentre toda a sua energia em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So, you\u2019ve done all of the steps mentioned above but there is no significant difference?<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve removed this man from your life physically but he is still very present in your mind.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try, you can\u2019t seem to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio redirecionar tudo isto energy you\u2019ve been wasting on him<\/a> para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio alguns dias para fazer o luto pela sua perda e depois comece a trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Start doing the things you like doing, start pleasing yourself and most importantly\u2014start loving yourself the way you loved him.<\/p>\n

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You can\u2019t lose someone you never had, right? Bullshit. Getting over a guy you\u2019ve never been in a real relationship with is sometimes even more difficult than moving on from an actual break-up. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you are in love with the man you\u2019ve never had anything with or you are stuck in some…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":110368,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Expert-Tips-On-Getting-Over-Someone-You-Never-Dated-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31251","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31251"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31251\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110368"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31251"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31251"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31251"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}