{"id":31304,"date":"2020-04-12T07:58:15","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:58:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31304"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:06:15","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:06:15","slug":"e-por-isso-que-nao-faz-mal-nenhum-nao-quereres-ter-uma-relacao-neste-momento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-nao-faz-mal-nenhum-nao-quereres-ter-uma-relacao-neste-momento\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema nenhum em n\u00e3o quereres ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o neste momento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Due to the insane pressures of society, we always feel this overwhelming need to be in a relationship. We are made to feel like there is something wrong with us if we\u2019re single.<\/p>\n

But guess what, there isn\u2019t. These societal constraints only tie us down and make us play to their tune.<\/p>\n

But just because somebody who doesn\u2019t know you makes you feel a certain thing, does not mean that they are right.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let these insane pressures of society make you feel like you need to be in a relationship just for the sake of it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not supposed to be an obligation. A relationship means love. And you can\u2019t force love.<\/p>\n

As pessoas s\u00e3o constantemente julgadas com base no seu estado de relacionamento e cada vez mais se comprometem com rela\u00e7\u00f5es sem amor, tudo numa tentativa de n\u00e3o serem julgadas pelo mundo exterior e de se sentirem diferentes.<\/p>\n

Com toda a honestidade, n\u00e3o s\u00f3 \u00e9 totalmente normal <\/b>ser solteiro<\/b><\/a>, but it\u2019s actually good for you!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-lhe uma oportunidade fant\u00e1stica de se descobrir a si pr\u00f3prio, de saber exatamente o que quer da vida e do amor e de aprender a ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, why should you feel guilty for not conforming to society\u2019s norms and keeping yourself happy?<\/p>\n

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Quando chegar a altura e sentir a necessidade de mudar o seu estado de relacionamento, vai trabalhar nisso, namorar e fazer um esfor\u00e7o para encontrar o \u00fanico<\/a> com quem quer partilhar a sua vida.<\/p>\n

But until you\u2019re ready, it is perfectly fine to enjoy life by yourself and explore all there is to learn about love, life, and yourself.<\/p>\n

Alguma introspe\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 boa para a alma e, em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, far\u00e1 de si um melhor parceiro quando chegar a altura.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel the need to be in a relationship, it\u2019s really simple \u2013 don\u2019t be in one.<\/p>\n

Estava sempre a deixar-me ouvir as pessoas \u00e0 minha volta e tinha sempre um homem \u00e0 minha volta, s\u00f3 para n\u00e3o estar sozinha.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t for me. It was for all these other people who have absolutely no business telling me, you or anyone who to date and who to spend our time with.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel like spending the majority of your time with a specific individual, that\u2019s okay! You don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n

You can go out with whomever you like, stay as long as you want, and you don\u2019t have anybody to report to.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 livre de passar o dia como quiser, e se isso significar ficar em frente \u00e0 televis\u00e3o com o seu pijama preferido, a ver reality shows e a beber vinho, que seja! <\/b><\/p>\n

O que quer que flutue no seu barco, rapariga!<\/b><\/p>\n

Enjoy this now because when you have a partner, there won\u2019t be much alone time on your plate.<\/p>\n

So why not make the most of it! Screw anyone telling you otherwise. They\u2019re just miserable people, unhappy with their own lives.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Nem toda a gente tem as mesmas prioridades na vida, e isso \u00e9 completamente normal. Todos n\u00f3s somos diferentes e todos n\u00f3s tivemos os nossos pr\u00f3prios altos e baixos no que diz respeito ao amor.<\/p>\n

Tens as tuas raz\u00f5es para escolheres ser solteiro neste momento, e mais poder para ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay whichever way you want to live, for as long as it\u2019s your own decision and nobody else\u2019s. You are in control of your life.<\/p>\n

People like to pry and ask around as to why you\u2019re not with somebody right now. But you don\u2019t have any reason to explain anything to anyone.<\/p>\n

They are not a part of your life, and therefore, they shouldn\u2019t play a role in how you feel about ser solteiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pode acontecer que, neste momento, esteja numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o fant\u00e1stica em termos de trabalho e queira dedicar o seu tempo a isso, o que lhe deixa muito pouco tempo para uma vida plena. vida amorosa<\/a>e a decis\u00e3o \u00e9 vossa.<\/p>\n

It could be that you are simply sick and tired of boys playing mind games with you and always ending up disappointed in the male species, so you\u2019re taking a little much needed break from men.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mais uma vez, a decis\u00e3o \u00e9 sua e s\u00f3 sua.<\/p>\n

Whatever makes you feel good and comfortable is what you should do. Don\u2019t feel like you have to explain your decisions to irrelevant people.<\/p>\n

Quest\u00f5es de empenhamento<\/a> s\u00e3o um facto real.<\/p>\n

Algures no fundo de todas n\u00f3s, h\u00e1 um medo silencioso de ficarmos amarradas. De perder uma parte de n\u00f3s ao darmos tudo a um homem.<\/p>\n

Pessoalmente, sempre tive este medo dentro de mim.<\/p>\n

Acabo sempre por estragar as minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> porque tenho muito medo e paranoia de me comprometer, e isso faz-me sempre sentir mal comigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why I decided to take a little break until I figured myself out, and you should too! Don\u2019t feel bad if you are scared of commitment.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re only human. There is this fear in all of us, and we all deal with it in our own way.<\/p>\n

O facto de o fazer \u00e0 sua maneira n\u00e3o o torna pior por isso.<\/p>\n

Torna-nos corajosos para fazermos o que queremos, independentemente do que as pessoas \u00e0 nossa volta pensam.<\/p>\n

Passar tempo consigo pr\u00f3pria \u00e9 extremamente importante e n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente apreciado. Fa\u00e7a o que precisa para se sentir bem novamente e ou\u00e7a a sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s your life. You\u2019re the only one living it. So you might as well make it a good one.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s okay to be your own number one priority. If you want to have freedom to do what you need to do, then that is exactly what should happen.<\/b><\/p>\n

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In relationships, we often lose a little part of ourselves, and our priorities inevitably change. It\u2019s not necessarily a bad thing, but it can be if you don\u2019t feel ready for this step yet.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No que me diz respeito, sempre senti um ressentimento doentio em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos meus parceiros, porque estar com eles ocupava muito do meu tempo, n\u00e3o me deixando suficientemente sozinha comigo pr\u00f3pria para perceber se era isso que eu queria.<\/p>\n

E demorei algum tempo a perceber que a culpa era minha e n\u00e3o deles. Eu n\u00e3o estava no estado de esp\u00edrito certo para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, e isso s\u00f3 me afastou quando eles queriam tanto de mim.<\/p>\n

Avoid sacrificing yourself for the sake of pleasing others. You have a long life ahead of you. There is plenty of time to be happily in love. If that time isn\u2019t right now, listen to your gut!<\/p>\n

If you feel too flirty and casual to be in a committed relationship, then, by all means\u2014do as you please. It\u2019s better to be single and be able to hook up with whomever you want, than to be in a relationship and have all these desires for other people!<\/p>\n

Explore your feminine side, see what the city has to offer, meet new guys, flirt your ass off, and make out with hot strangers. There\u2019s no better time for it than right now!<\/b><\/p>\n

And when you\u2019re done with this, you\u2019ll feel ready and capable of being in a serious, rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>, without having all these annoying needs for freedom and other guys, and you won\u2019t end up cheating.<\/p>\n

As long as you\u2019re honest about what you want with yourself and with others, you\u2019re doing absolutely nothing wrong. Be true to yourself, and make yourself a priority. Nobody knows what you need better than you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give a shit about people talking and making you appear like you\u2019re not the relationship type. There is a time for everything. You need to focus on whatever is important to you at that particular time.<\/p>\n

If your career is the most important thing to you right now, it\u2019s okay to shift your focus solely to it. There\u2019s plenty of time for love. Make a name of yourself in the business world, and you\u2019ll feel less strained when you meet someone new who you want to spend time with.<\/p>\n

Life is about being happy and finding your place in this world. It\u2019s about getting to know exactly who you are, what your desires are and how to accomplish them, without hurting anybody in the process.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about discovering who we want to share our lives with\u2014be that family, friends, coworkers, lovers. They all somehow end up shaping us into one whole person, so it is important to let yourself live your life to the fullest, and do what feels right.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se \u00e9 jovem uma vez. Certifique-se de que tem algo para contar aos seus netos um dia.<\/p>\n

Desfrute da sua vida de solteiro sem arrependimentos, porque quando encontrar o seu \u00fanico e verdadeiro amor, sentir-se-\u00e1 completo e pronto para o pr\u00f3ximo passo, sabendo que viveu a sua vida ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n

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