{"id":31314,"date":"2020-08-15T08:29:36","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T08:29:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31314"},"modified":"2022-01-20T22:09:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T22:09:45","slug":"fizeste-me-acreditar-que-estavas-empenhado-mas-partiste-me-o-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fizeste-me-acreditar-que-estavas-empenhado-mas-partiste-me-o-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Voc\u00ea me fez acreditar que estava comprometido, mas partiu meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos n\u00f3s temos o pleno direito de fazer o que quisermos com as nossas vidas. Temos o direito de n\u00e3o querer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria ou de n\u00e3o estarmos prontos para dar o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o a outra pessoa. E isto tamb\u00e9m se aplica a si.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, se est\u00e1 apenas \u00e0 procura de uma aventura casual em vez de uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o significativa, a \u00fanica coisa decente \u00e9 ser aberto sobre isso.<\/p>\n<p>Se est\u00e1 \u00e0 procura de algo tempor\u00e1rio, sem qualquer desejo de se dedicar a essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, precisa de ser honesto quanto \u00e0s suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t go around breaking people\u2019s hearts, promising them the world, and then end up giving them nothing.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t get someone\u2019s hopes up by making them believe that you are all the way in, when you are actually only giving them your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/vou-me-embora-estou-cansado-de-amor-de-meia-tigela\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> amor de meia-tigela <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t do your best to make this person fall for you, without ever having the intention to choose her for real.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101774\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para a dist\u00e2ncia na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t make her believe that you love her and that she is the one for you, when a serious relationship isn\u2019t even in the back of your head.<\/p>\n<p>Pelo menos, \u00e9 assim que um verdadeiro homem actuaria. <b>Ao contr\u00e1rio de ti, um <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/os-homens-a-serio-escolhem-sempre-o-amor-a-longo-prazo-em-vez-da-luxuria-a-curto-prazo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b>homem de verdade<\/b><\/a><b> would be straight about his true intentions right from the start, instead of wasting a girl\u2019s time and leading her on for ages.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But I guess you didn\u2019t have what it took to be that man, did you? Because if you did, you wouldn\u2019t have convinced me that you were committed to our relationship and then end up breaking my heart.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mesmo assim, foi exatamente isso que fizeste. Esfor\u00e7aste-te por me fazer acreditar que o teu amor por mim era profundo e real.<\/p>\n<p>Que n\u00e3o era como qualquer um dos meus ex e que nunca se aproveitaria de mim ou me magoaria de qualquer forma.<\/p>\n<p>You did your best to get under my skin and inside of my heart, pretending to be the man I\u2019ve waited my entire life for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a beber caf\u00e9 junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-drinking-coffee-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You acted like every woman\u2019s dream, and over time, I started believing your lies.<\/p>\n<p><b>Over time, I started trusting you instead of my gut which kept telling me that you were simply too good to be true. I ignored my instincts and thought that I\u2019d finally found my soulmate and someone who can love me for real.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Enganei-me redondamente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The moment you saw that you had me for real was also the moment you showed your true colors and your real face which was nothing like the mask you\u2019d been wearing all along.<\/p>\n<p>O momento em que tiveste a certeza de que eu me tinha apaixonado por ti como uma louca foi o momento exato em que tudo mudou. O momento em que te vi mudar para sempre, ali mesmo \u00e0 frente dos meus olhos.<\/p>\n<p>De repente, n\u00e3o havia qualquer vest\u00edgio daquele homem carinhoso e atencioso que eu conhecia e que tinha come\u00e7ado a amar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101777\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-worried-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para mulher preocupada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-worried-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-worried-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-worried-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-worried-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-worried-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todo o amor que me demonstraste desapareceu de um dia para o outro, como se nunca tivesse existido.<\/p>\n<p>Sem mais nem menos, come\u00e7aram os insultos, as trai\u00e7\u00f5es e o abuso emocional. Sem mais nem menos, o meu conto de fadas transformou-se no meu maior pesadelo.<\/p>\n<p>Acabaste por ser um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-e-apenas-mais-um-idiota-egoista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> idiota ego\u00edsta <\/a> que obviamente me estava a manipular desde o in\u00edcio. Um mentiroso que fingia ser algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o era at\u00e9 conseguir o que queria de mim.<\/p>\n<p><b>Todas aquelas noites passadas nos teus bra\u00e7os foram substitu\u00eddas por eu ficar acordado at\u00e9 de manh\u00e3, a questionar onde \u00e9 que as coisas correram mal e o que \u00e9 que eu fiz de errado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Os meus risos e sorrisos foram substitu\u00eddos por choros at\u00e9 adormecer, rezando a Deus para que voltasses a ser o homem do in\u00edcio da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101778\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a chorar no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-crying-in-the-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-crying-in-the-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-crying-in-the-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-crying-in-the-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Passado algum tempo, finalmente ganhei coragem para te deixar, mas mesmo depois de o ter feito, ainda demorei algum tempo a compreender que esse homem por quem me tinha apaixonado nunca existiu.<\/p>\n<p>Demorei algum tempo a aceitar que estava a viver uma mentira e que tudo isto n\u00e3o passava de um disfarce.<\/p>\n<p><b>Na verdade, nunca mudaste. Sempre foste assim. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Nunca tiveste a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de te comprometeres. Era apenas uma forma de<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/espero-que-tenhas-aprendido-alguma-coisa-ao-partir-o-meu-coracao\/\"> partir-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> com mais facilidade.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>E isso \u00e9 algo que nunca te poderei perdoar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101775\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/You-Made-Me-Believe-That-You-Were-Committed-But-You-Broke-My-Heart-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Voc\u00ea me fez acreditar que estava comprometido, mas partiu meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/You-Made-Me-Believe-That-You-Were-Committed-But-You-Broke-My-Heart-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/You-Made-Me-Believe-That-You-Were-Committed-But-You-Broke-My-Heart-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/You-Made-Me-Believe-That-You-Were-Committed-But-You-Broke-My-Heart-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All of us have a full right to do whatever we want with our lives. We are entitled not to want a serious relationship or not to be ready to give our heart to another person. And this goes for you, as well. However, if you are only looking for a casual fling instead of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":101779,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/You-Made-Me-Believe-That-You-Were-Committed-But-You-Broke-My-Heart.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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