{"id":31327,"date":"2020-05-15T08:45:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-15T08:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31327"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:11:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:11:01","slug":"5-maneiras-de-sobreviver-quando-ele-a-deixar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-sobreviver-quando-ele-a-deixar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de sobreviver quando ele te deixa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00f3 tu sabes como te sentes. Ningu\u00e9m se pode comparar a ti.<\/p>\n<p>A tua dor \u00e9 s\u00f3 tua. Posso dizer que compreendo, posso dizer que sei como \u00e9, mas o teu desgosto e o meu n\u00e3o s\u00e3o os mesmos.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, ambos fic\u00e1mos destro\u00e7ados. Sim, ambos sentimos o horror de algu\u00e9m se afastar de n\u00f3s. Mas sentimo-lo de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>I can only tell you that it\u2019s going to pass. Soon, it will be all over with. I can tell you it hurt me like hell as well. I wanted my life to end, I felt foolish, played and betrayed. I felt unwanted.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sei que sentes o mesmo e quero dizer-te<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>aguenta s\u00f3 mais um bocadinho.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Haver\u00e1 dias em que pensar\u00e1 que a sua luta chegou ao fim.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re just about to go out with your friends, you\u2019re getting dressed, but out of the middle of nowhere, all of a sudden, you don\u2019t want to go anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92558\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada sozinha no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o horr\u00edvel consome-nos e tudo o que queremos fazer \u00e9 rastejar para a cama.<\/p>\n<p>Haver\u00e1 alturas em que ele surgir\u00e1 na sua mente sem ser convidado.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see someone or something on the street that will remind you of him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be triggered by something small and silly and all the memories will come rushing back.<\/p>\n<p>Estas coisas v\u00e3o acontecer muitas vezes e \u00e9 suposto acontecerem. N\u00e3o se pode <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/por-favor-encontre-me-depois-de-um-desgosto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> ultrapassar um desgosto <\/a> in a day. Sadly, you have to suffer, you have to hurt, but you\u2019ll get out of it stronger and smarter.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>But what you have to do is keep taking each day step by step, even if sometimes that step seems more like a crawl\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chora o tempo que precisares<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a chorar no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Permita-se ir-se abaixo. Gritar, partir coisas, chorar.<\/p>\n<p>Faz o que raio te apetecer. Fecha-te dentro das tuas quatro paredes e fica sozinho. Passa todo o tempo que precisares completamente sozinho.<\/p>\n<p>Lida com as tuas merdas e ultrapassa isso. Ningu\u00e9m o vai fazer por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Deixa que o teu quarto se torne a tua pris\u00e3o e sofre durante o tempo que precisares. Amaldi\u00e7oa o mundo, amaldi\u00e7oa-o a ele, amaldi\u00e7oa-te a ti pr\u00f3pria por deixares que isso te incomode.<\/p>\n<p>Hit rock bottom, get to a situation where you don\u2019t have anything to lose, when you\u2019re at your breaking point, because you can only go up from there.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to be sad. In those moments of total despair, when you\u2019re fighting to get back to normal, you come to so many realizations.<\/p>\n<p>You realize that you\u2019re the only person guaranteed to give the love you deserve to yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ama cada cent\u00edmetro do teu corpo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita com cabelo encaracolado ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/pretty-woman-with-curly-hair-standing-outdoor-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re beautiful. Your body is perfect just the way it is. You\u2019re one unique person and there is no one else in the world like you.<\/p>\n<p>Why wouldn\u2019t you love yourself? Isn\u2019t that the most special thing about you, about all of us? We are all unique and irreplaceable.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t listen to anyone. Don\u2019t obsess over why he left you. Is it the way you look? Is it because you\u2019re not pretty enough for him?<\/p>\n<p>Isso \u00e9 uma treta. Apaga todos esses pensamentos da tua cabe\u00e7a porque s\u00e3o completamente disparatados.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Remind yourself that you\u2019re beautiful<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92562\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a relaxar ao sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-woman-relaxing-in-the-sun-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Look deep into yourself and remember all the things you like about yourself. Remember all the things you\u2019re good at.<\/p>\n<p>Identifique todas as coisas que s\u00e3o diferentes em si.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll find the love you\u2019ve lost and the self-respect you\u2019ve misplaced somewhere deep inside you.<\/p>\n<p>Deixem-no brilhar de novo, deixem-no revelar todos os vossos talentos e capacidades.<\/p>\n<p>Lembra-te de como \u00e9s uma pessoa bonita.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Faz o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o voltar a viver<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92563\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira feliz a olhar para o lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/happy-blond-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Someone left you, someone walked away from you, but that is not how your story ends. It\u2019s just one chapter.<\/p>\n<p>O luto \u00e9 outro e a cura \u00e9 um dos per\u00edodos dif\u00edceis que tem pela frente.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to fall in love again. You\u2019re not going to be sure he won\u2019t hurt you either but you\u2019ll love.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll give him everything you have, you\u2019ll go all-in, like you always do.<\/p>\n<p>Your heart will skip a beat when you are around him. You\u2019ll feel butterflies in your stomach. Love will find its way to you once again.<\/p>\n<p>You will feel alive again. And if you get hurt, you\u2019ll go through everything once again. And you\u2019ll become even better and stronger.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t mask your pain<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92565\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t pretend you\u2019re okay. Don\u2019t lie to others or yourself. I know you think you have to put on a fake smile because you have to be strong all the time.<\/p>\n<p>But that is not true. You don\u2019t have to be tough and you don\u2019t have to smile all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Se quiseres, age como te sentes. S\u00ea um completo idiota, fica zangado, fica mal-humorado, fica triste. S\u00ea o que te apetecer.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to hide your pain. Don\u2019t try to hide your vulnerability. You\u2019re not a machine.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s uma mulher. \u00c9 uma mulher com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. \u00c9s uma mulher em sofrimento.<\/p>\n<p><i> For now, don\u2019t try to be anything else. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92557\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 maneiras de sobreviver quando ele te deixa\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Only you know how you feel. No one can compare to you. Your pain is only yours. I can tell you I understand, I can tell you I know how it feels, but your heartbreak and mine are not the same. Yes, we were both left broken. Yes, we both felt the horror of someone&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":92566,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31327","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/5-Ways-To-Survive-When-He-Leaves-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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