{"id":31430,"date":"2020-05-17T08:57:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T08:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31430"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:52:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:52:53","slug":"7-razoes-pelas-quais-ainda-esta-a-lutar-para-seguir-em-frente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-ainda-esta-a-lutar-para-seguir-em-frente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais ainda est\u00e1s a lutar para seguir em frente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pronto, voc\u00eas acabaram e, por esta altura, j\u00e1 devias saber o que fazer com a tua vida.<\/p>\n

Mas o problema \u00e9 que n\u00e3o faz ideia do que fazer e em que dire\u00e7\u00e3o ir.<\/p>\n

No matter what you do, you are still obsessed with your ex, and you can’t stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do you can’t move on, and here are some reasons why this happens to you.<\/p>\n

V\u00ea-o diariamente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 dif\u00edcil esquecer algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 se amou ou que ainda se ama sem mais nem menos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso algum tempo sozinha, mas se o vai ver todos os dias, ent\u00e3o ser\u00e1 ainda mais dif\u00edcil ultrapass\u00e1-lo e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Todos os dias que o vires, as tuas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es antigas voltar\u00e3o e come\u00e7ar\u00e1s a pensar em dar-lhe outra oportunidade.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should stay away from him and try not have any contact with him. That is the only way you can move on.<\/p>\n

As coisas dele fazem-nos lembrar dele<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If you haven’t gotten rid of his mementos, it is about time to do that.<\/p>\n

If you leave all of his stuff near you, you are risking it reminding you of him all the time. And because of that, you won’t have enough space to move on.<\/p>\n

In fact, you won’t have any space at all.<\/p>\n

You will be stuck in that almost relationship you don’t want to be a part of, and you won’t be happy.<\/p>\n

That’s why you need to get rid of everything that reminds you of him and start a new chapter of your life free from all those memories.<\/p>\n

You still can’t believe it is over<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you don’t accept the fact your a rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabou<\/a>Ser\u00e1 muito dif\u00edcil para si seguir em frente e encontrar a sua felicidade noutro lugar.<\/p>\n

That’s why you are still holding onto something that is not real anymore and that makes a huge problem in your life.<\/p>\n

Because you can’t accept it is over, you are still hoping you will be together after some time.<\/p>\n

Simplesmente sente que n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve terminar e continua a esperar que melhore.<\/p>\n

A dor dura mais tempo do que se pensava<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Perder um namorado \u00e9 como perder algu\u00e9m muito importante da nossa vida. \u00c9 um homem com quem partilh\u00e1mos tudo e agora sentimo-nos mal porque acabou.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a passar por todas as fases do luto, mas como se tratava de um grande amor, esse processo dura um pouco mais.<\/p>\n

And because of that, you are struggling to move on. You simply can’t leave the past where it belongs and turn to the future.<\/p>\n

Ainda est\u00e1s a fantasiar com voc\u00eas os dois<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You feel that at times you don’t give a damn about your ex, but at other moments, you would kill to be with him one last time.<\/p>\n

You don’t think clearly, and as soon as you see a happy couple on the street, you start fantasizing it could be the two of you.<\/p>\n

Depois, come\u00e7am a fazer planos para o vosso futuro e a imaginar como poder\u00e3o ter uma boa vida juntos.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 isso que te est\u00e1 a arruinar e a impedir de seguir em frente. E \u00e9 disso que precisas neste momento.<\/p>\n

You didn’t get closure<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Not getting closure is something that can affect you a lot. If you didn’t get what you wanted, it is impossible to move on.<\/p>\n

You can’t move on and decide to start something new if you haven’t finished your last relationship.<\/p>\n

Por isso, antes de tentar qualquer coisa, certifique-se de que sabe porque \u00e9 que os dois acabaram.<\/p>\n

Depois de resolver todas estas quest\u00f5es, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 quaisquer problemas e ser\u00e1 capaz de finalmente seguir em frente<\/a> como mereces.<\/p>\n

Ainda tens sentimentos fortes por ele<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Talvez uma das coisas mais importantes que o impedem de seguir em frente seja o facto de ainda sente algo por ele<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Maybe you can’t get over him so easily, and you feel you haven’t finished with him. If you still love him, then talk and see if you can be together.<\/p>\n

And even if you decide you won’t be together, at least you will talk and solve some things.<\/p>\n

Pelo menos, saber\u00e1 que fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para salvar o que pode ser salvo. E, sabendo isso, ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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