{"id":31434,"date":"2020-08-17T09:06:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-17T09:06:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31434"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:58:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:58:31","slug":"ao-ignora-la-ensina-a-a-viver-sem-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ao-ignora-la-ensina-a-a-viver-sem-si\/","title":{"rendered":"Ao ignor\u00e1-la, est\u00e1 a ensin\u00e1-la a viver sem si"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Devido a esse mito tolo e desatualizado de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/uma-mulher-forte-nao-se-faz-de-dificil-ela-e-dificil-de-conquistar\/\">jogar duro<\/a> para conseguir a aten\u00e7\u00e3o que tanto deseja, os homens perdem as mulheres com mais frequ\u00eancia do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>Ao terem esta falsa narrativa na cabe\u00e7a de que, se ignorarem a mulher que t\u00eam debaixo de olho, ela ser\u00e1 mais atra\u00edda por eles, d\u00e3o a impress\u00e3o exatamente oposta \u00e0 que realmente querem.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns homens chegam ao ponto de pensar que se a tratarem mal e a fizerem sentir-se mal consigo pr\u00f3pria, ela vir\u00e1 a rastejar at\u00e9 eles, precisando da sua aprova\u00e7\u00e3o e valida\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n<p>They think that their manipulative ways will get them far, but they couldn\u2019t be more wrong.<\/p>\n<p><b>O que eles est\u00e3o sempre a esquecer \u00e9 uma coisa muito importante. Esse tratamento hediondo s\u00f3 funciona com mulheres inexperientes, se tanto. As mulheres a s\u00e9rio nunca caem nessa merda. E \u00e9 assim que as perdes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A real woman know what she wants and how to get it. If you treat her badly, she won\u2019t have time for your games. This woman has a very fulfilling life without you. <\/p>\n<p>She has a lot on her plate, and she won\u2019t give you attention if you make her beg for it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake.jpg\" alt=\"jovem rapariga a sentir frio sozinha num lago\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/young-girl-feeling-cold-alone-at-a-lake-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t stoop that low. If you treat her right, with love, kindness and understanding, she will reciprocate it and make you feel like the luckiest man on Earth. <\/p>\n<p>But when you teach her that she deserves your attention only when you deem it appropriate, she\u2019ll leave, and you\u2019ll lose her for good.<\/p>\n<p>When you are dishonest and manipulative, you push her away. When you act as if your time is more valuable than hers, she won\u2019t tolerate it. <\/p>\n<p>Quando a tratas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/i-gave-you-the-best-of-me-but-you-still-treated-me-like-a-booty-call\/\">como uma chamada para sexo<\/a> and don\u2019t bother making plans in advance, you crush her spirit by making her feel inadequate.<\/p>\n<p><b>See, she knows that when you love someone, you can\u2019t hide it, and you don\u2019t deny it. When you love your partner, you shower her with affection and prove your love in multiple ways.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t give her that shitty treatment that makes her feel horrible about herself and shake her confidence like that.<\/p>\n<p>Real love is commitment. It\u2019s honesty, transparency, and respecting each other\u2019s precious time. It\u2019s knowing that she has a full plate today, so you send her a quick text to tell her how much you love her and can\u2019t wait to see her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114440\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Portrait-of-a-sad-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not going off radar for a few days because you want to make her miss you. No.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>She will miss you while she\u2019s at work anyway. She\u2019ll miss you when she\u2019s on a night out with her girls, and your song comes on. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She\u2019ll miss you when she\u2019s asleep, and you\u2019re not by her side. And she\u2019ll miss you when she\u2019s having a shitty day, and you\u2019re not there to comfort her.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t you see? You already have her full attention and affection. Don\u2019t make her regret giving it to you. She might put up with it for a short while because she loves you so much. But when she\u2019s had enough, you\u2019ll never feel her warmth again.<\/p>\n<p>A base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o real, significativa e duradoura \u00e9 a honestidade. Se esconder os seus sentimentos, como \u00e9 que pode esperar que ela seja sua?<\/p>\n<p>She is an open book. She tells you she loves you. She gives you attention, and she is there when you need somebody to vent to. And she loves it. That\u2019s what a commitment is!<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t reciprocate it, you\u2019re teaching her that she can live without you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114439\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste com uma ch\u00e1vena de ch\u00e1 na m\u00e3o e a olhar pela janela\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-300x184.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-1024x630.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-768x472.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-1536x944.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-2048x1259.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-holding-cup-of-tea-and-looking-through-the-window-150x92.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>The thing about women is this. We are perfectly capable of being on our own. We don\u2019t need a knight in shining armor to come sweep us of our feet.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t need a man to help us make a living because we are successful and able all on our own. We don\u2019t need you to rescue us and make us feel like we owe you something.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que queremos \u00e9 estar numa parceria empenhada em que os nossos homens nos tratem com o mesmo amor e respeito com que n\u00f3s os tratamos.<\/p>\n<p>If you love her, tell her! If you\u2019re missing her, text her and make her eyes water with happiness! If you need her to come be your shoulder to cry on, call her, and she\u2019ll be there!<\/p>\n<p>Ignoring will get you nowhere. It doesn\u2019t win you any points. All it does is make her see what a douche you are.<\/p>\n<p>Give her your time, attention, and honesty. Don\u2019t disappear when things get real, and prove to her that not all men are the same.<\/p>\n<p><b><i> Be her man in good times and bad, and she\u2019ll be yours for life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114437\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Due to that silly, outdated myth that playing hard to get will get you the attention you so badly crave, men lose women more often than ever. By having this false narrative in their head that if they ignore the woman they have their eye on, she will be more drawn to them, they give&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":114438,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31434","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/By-Ignoring-Her-You-Teach-Her-How-To-Live-Without-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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