{"id":31439,"date":"2020-01-17T10:03:28","date_gmt":"2020-01-17T10:03:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31439"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:00:43","slug":"tudo-o-que-eu-realmente-quero-e-um-amante-que-seja-tambem-o-meu-melhor-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tudo-o-que-eu-realmente-quero-e-um-amante-que-seja-tambem-o-meu-melhor-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Tudo o que eu realmente quero \u00e9 um amante que tamb\u00e9m seja meu melhor amigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ter algu\u00e9m com quem possa partilhar os seus pensamentos mais \u00edntimos e profundos - e sentir-se confort\u00e1vel e seguro ao faz\u00ea-lo - \u00e9 o que representa a verdadeira intimidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dar o meu corpo a algu\u00e9m \u00e9 muito \u00edntimo e significativo, mas ter essa pessoa n\u00e3o s\u00f3 como amante mas tamb\u00e9m como <\/span>melhor amigo<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 o meu verdadeiro objetivo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finding a lover isn\u2019t that hard of a job anymore. It\u2019s relatively easy to find a person who would want to sleep with you and then disappear from your life. That is the sad reality we\u2019re living in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas encontrar uma pessoa que queira ficar e partilhar uma vida consigo em todos os seus altos e baixos \u00e9 a parte mais dif\u00edcil.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Partilhar a cama com algu\u00e9m e ter um caso casual \u00e9 f\u00e1cil. Muitos homens e mulheres gostariam de ter a oportunidade de passar uma noite de excita\u00e7\u00e3o e prazer sem qualquer compromisso ou sentimentos que possam atrapalhar.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I want more. I want a lover who will understand how my body works and take his time with me, knowing we\u2019ve got our whole lives ahead of us. I want to connect with him on more than just a physical level.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want somebody will know how my mind works. A man who will be attracted to my intellectual side just as much as my physical one.  I want to be able to share my soul with him. I want him to be my passionate lover who is at the same time the best friend I\u2019ll ever have.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que <\/span>estar presente<\/span><\/a> when I cry on the kitchen floor, feeling completely lost and misunderstood. I want him to wipe away my tears and tell me it\u2019s going to be okay because he\u2019s here.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero que ele role para o meu lado da cama no momento em que acordar e me d\u00ea um beijo enorme nos l\u00e1bios, acordando-me da forma mais agrad\u00e1vel poss\u00edvel.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quero que ele se ria do aspeto engra\u00e7ado do meu cabelo de manh\u00e3 e que o mexa de uma forma engra\u00e7ada, e que me d\u00ea um beijo significativo na testa antes de se levantar para ir trabalhar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero um amante que me pergunte a que horas saio do trabalho, para me vir buscar porque tem uma noite inteira planeada para n\u00f3s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero ver jogos de futebol com ele, beber cerveja e rir-me \u00e0 gargalhada porque ele consegue fazer-me rir at\u00e9 quase mijar nas cal\u00e7as.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want us to travel together. I want us to explore as much of the world as possible. I want us to have that relationship where we love nothing more than being in each other\u2019s company because we get each other on a whole new level that nobody can quite understand.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want him to feel like I\u2019m one of his closest buddies, who he can go out with, laugh for hours on end with, play darts with and make fun of each other, and then make out for 5 minutes straight because he\u2019s so freaking attracted to me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I want a best friend type of relationship in which we are so open with each other that there is literally nothing we can\u2019t talk about, but at the same time, where we can just spend a whole weekend in bed together, snuggling, watching TV, making out and feeling perfectly content.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want him to send funny texts to me all the time that will make me laugh out loud while I\u2019m at work and make me feel so happy that I have this man to come home to.<\/span><\/p>\n

I want him to miss me so much while I\u2019m on a work trip that he won\u2019t let me out of his sight the moment I get back, wanting to hear all about it, and then spend the night in bed, up until the early hours of the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu quero tudo. Quero rir-me com ele. Quero ser uma completa pateta com ele, e quero que ele me conquiste s\u00f3 com um olhar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero que ele seja <\/span>a minha pessoa<\/span><\/a>O meu amante e o meu melhor amigo em todo o universo, com quem posso partilhar toda a minha vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Tudo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Having somebody you can share your most intimate and deepest thoughts with\u2014and feel comfortable and secure while doing so\u2014is what true intimacy represents. Giving my body to someone is very intimate and meaningful, but having that person as not just a lover but also a best friend is what I truly strive for. Finding a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":31440,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sweet-ice-cream-photography-624496-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31439\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}