{"id":31476,"date":"2020-09-18T08:37:22","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T08:37:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31476"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:49:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:49:03","slug":"ela-esperou-que-te-recompusesses-mas-tu-afugentaste-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-esperou-que-te-recompusesses-mas-tu-afugentaste-a\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela esperou que te recompusesses, mas tu afugentaste-a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensaste que ela ia esperar por ti enquanto tu levavas o teu precioso tempo a organizar as tuas coisas?<\/p>\n<p>Sorry, but no. She\u2019s got better things to do! Life is not a movie.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not some romantic comedy in which the guy acts like a complete jerk the whole way through, and in the final 5 minutes he realizes what an asshole he was and wants to make amends.<\/p>\n<p>E a pior parte? A rapariga cai sempre na armadilha. <b> Bem, esta rapariga n\u00e3o!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t have time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/praticar-a-pausa\/\">fazer uma pausa na sua vida<\/a> while you\u2019re busy deciding whether or not she\u2019s worth getting your act together.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t have time to feel like she\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/que-se-lixe-por-gostar-de-ti-mas-nao-o-suficiente-para-se-comprometer\/\"> n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente <\/a> for you to act the way she deserves and mull over your options while she sits there, wondering if you\u2019ll stay committed when you get it together and see how special she is.<\/p>\n<p>You see, people eventually get tired of having to fix someone all the time. For a while, she\u2019ll try. She\u2019ll give you the benefit of the doubt and hope she doesn\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n<p><b>But the minute you show her that her effort and her kindness are in vain, she\u2019s out the door, and you\u2019re never seeing her again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s off finding somebody worthy of her time and her effort. She is nobody\u2019s fool. She has a life which she no longer plans putting on hold all because of some asshole who can\u2019t make up his mind.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-117520\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de uma jovem bonita\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-young-woman.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Love only takes you so far, and now she\u2019s had it. You only have yourself to blame for this. She gave you her best, and you wasted her time.<\/p>\n<p>She has reached the point of no return. And when she decides that she\u2019s done with you, she really means it.<\/p>\n<p>By the time this gets through to you, she\u2019ll be living her best life with somebody who knows how to value her.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, ela provou finalmente como \u00e9 a vida sem ti. Agora, ela v\u00ea o que tem estado a perder.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, ela sabe que nem todos os homens s\u00e3o manipuladores e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/coward-play-games-somebodys-heart\/\"> jogar jogos <\/a> . Agora v\u00ea que \u00e9 poss\u00edvel encontrar um igual que a aprecie e a ame.<\/p>\n<p>Agora apercebe-se que perdeu tanto tempo com um tipo que nunca se iria comprometer.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que a retinha para poder us\u00e1-la o m\u00e1ximo de tempo poss\u00edvel, porque \u00e9 fraco e cobarde.<\/p>\n<p><b>But guess what? She\u2019s not even mad! <\/b> Ela est\u00e1 grata por lhe ter mostrado o que nunca mais deve suportar.<\/p>\n<p>Agora ela pode apreciar o verdadeiro tipo de romance e nunca mais olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you can go on and list all the reasons why she should\u2019ve stayed and how you are the best she\u2019ll ever get.<\/p>\n<p>But look at her now. You\u2019re no longer a presence in her mind. You are a mere memory that has taught her a valuable and tough lesson.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-117519\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de uma jovem mulher deitada na relva\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/a-portrait-of-a-young-woman-lying-in-the-grass.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela est\u00e1 a viver a sua melhor vida com uma pessoa que lhe d\u00e1 amor, honestidade e apre\u00e7o, e tu continuas a ser essa triste e pat\u00e9tica desculpa para um ser humano, preso aos seus velhos h\u00e1bitos, recorrendo a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ele-esta-a-fazer-jogos-mentais-ou-perdeu-o-interesse-10-maneiras-de-descobrir\/\"> jogos mentais <\/a> e amargura para conseguir o que se quer.<\/p>\n<p>But now, you see that it\u2019s no longer working, and you\u2019re left alone with no one willing to put up with your shit again. And she is out there without a care in the world.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ela ganha.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sorry to disappoint, but nobody deserves to spend their life dealing with another person\u2019s bullshit on a regular basis, trying to fix that person when he is unwilling to fix himself.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody deserves the drama and pain that comes with being with you, all the while wondering if you\u2019re going to choose her in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Now all that is behind her. She\u2019s had it with your shady ways and shitty days.<\/p>\n<p>And now, I\u2019m guessing you\u2019re slowly realizing what you\u2019ve lost\u2014a person who was willing to go to war for you, giving you her complete loyalty and dedication, until she realized it was no longer worth it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-unica-coisa-boa-que-fizeste-por-mim-foi-sair-da-minha-vida\/\">Deixaste-a ir<\/a>. Afugentaste-a.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she\u2019s living her happy, healthy life, while you\u2019re dwelling in misery trying to convince yourself you didn\u2019t need her anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Boa sorte com isso, porque adivinha? <b>She really doesn\u2019t care anymore<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-117505 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ela esperou que te recompusesses, mas tu afugentaste-a\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you think she was going to wait for you while you took your precious time getting your shit together? Sorry, but no. She\u2019s got better things to do! Life is not a movie. It\u2019s not some romantic comedy in which the guy acts like a complete jerk the whole way through, and in the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117504,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Waited-For-You-To-Get-Your-Shit-Together-But-You-Chased-Her-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31476"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31476\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}