{"id":31494,"date":"2020-09-18T10:19:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T10:19:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:03","slug":"tudo-o-que-eu-realmente-preciso-numa-relacao-e-consistencia-e-esforco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tudo-o-que-eu-realmente-preciso-numa-relacao-e-consistencia-e-esforco\/","title":{"rendered":"Tudo o que eu realmente preciso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 consist\u00eancia e esfor\u00e7o"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o vou continuar a embelezar nada. Se n\u00e3o consegues cumprir os meus padr\u00f5es, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tenho tempo para ti.<\/p>\n

Preciso que sejas uma constante na minha vida e n\u00e3o apenas algu\u00e9m que ocasionalmente responde \u00e0s minhas mensagens.<\/p>\n

Preciso que me telefones e perguntes como est\u00e1 a correr o meu dia. Quero que sejas tu a iniciar a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o de vez em quando.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be the only one texting and calling first. That makes me feel like you\u2019re not really in this for the long haul.<\/p>\n

Preciso da vossa textos de bom dia <\/a> todas as manh\u00e3s e n\u00e3o apenas quando temos algo planeado.<\/p>\n

Preciso de saber que sou a primeira pessoa em quem pensas quando acordas e quero que me perguntes todos os pormenores do meu dia porque quero contar-te tudo. <\/b><\/p>\n

But I don\u2019t want to feel like a burden and tell you stuff that I feel doesn\u2019t interest you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I want you to make plans with me on weekends. Not just when your buddies are busy but even when they\u2019re all free, I want you to choose me sometimes and go on a little adventure together.<\/p>\n

Os fins-de-semana s\u00e3o sin\u00f3nimo de conforto e eu quero saber que sou eu quem vos conforta.<\/p>\n

If you make a promise, I need you to stick to it. I don\u2019t want to continuously get disappointed by your endless excuses and empty promises to make it up to me.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t a man of your word, I\u2019m sorry but I can\u2019t do this with you. I need consistency and effort. Anything else\u2013I\u2019m out.<\/p>\n

Quero que me mandes uma mensagem de boa noite todas as noites.<\/p>\n

Quero saber que sou o teu \u00faltimo pensamento antes de adormecer e preciso que me tranquilizes quando me sinto insegura e paranoica sem motivo.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t all sunshine and rainbows and there are going to be days when I won\u2019t be easy to handle.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll get a little jealous and insecure and I need you to understand me and comfort me.<\/p>\n

Running away when things aren\u2019t blissful and exciting is a dick move. Only cowards leave when things get rough.<\/p>\n

Homens de verdade <\/a> stay when it\u2019s a little challenging. That is what will make our relationship solid and genuine.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I want you to want to be with me and not just when you want sex. It\u2019s more than okay to be physically attracted to me and I love that but I need more.<\/b><\/p>\n

I need to feel close to you in other ways too. I need to know that you love spending time with me, even when it doesn\u2019t include sex.<\/p>\n

Temos de ser capazes de falar durante horas sobre tudo e mais alguma coisa e nada estar\u00e1 fora dos limites.<\/p>\n

I need to feel comfortable telling you stuff I can\u2019t tell anyone else.<\/p>\n

Quero que <\/b>lutar por mim<\/b><\/a>. I want you to tell me I look beautiful when I\u2019m a mess and I don\u2019t feel so good about myself.<\/b><\/p>\n

I need to feel your love when I\u2019m tired and exhausted after a long day.<\/b><\/p>\n

I need actions that will follow your words. You need to put in just as much effort into this as I am. I can\u2019t waste time on anything half-assed.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I want you to tell me that you love me when I least expect it. And I need you to tell me that as often as possible. I don\u2019t think that is too much to ask.<\/p>\n

I want your support. When I achieve something I\u2019m really proud of, I need you to be my biggest cheerleader.<\/p>\n

Quero que te orgulhes de mim, que festejes comigo e que me fa\u00e7as sentir especial. Porque tu \u00e9s especial para mim.<\/p>\n

Quero ouvir as tuas opini\u00f5es sinceras sobre coisas que s\u00e3o importantes para mim. Quero que sejas inclu\u00eddo na minha vida de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t feel like I\u2019m boring you with anything, otherwise it\u2019s not going to work.<\/p>\n

Interessa-me a tua vida, os teus amigos, os teus passatempos e as coisas com que te debates. Quero ser a pessoa que te ajuda a ultrapassar as coisas e preciso que tu sejas igual a mim.<\/p>\n

When you tell me you\u2019re going to call me, I need to know that you\u2019re not just saying that and you\u2019re actually going to call me.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me question everything. I need to feel secure with you.<\/p>\n

Preciso da tua consist\u00eancia acima de tudo. Preciso de saber que posso contar contigo, que posso confiar em ti e que est\u00e1s empenhado nisto. <\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim que sei que temos uma hip\u00f3tese real.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Hearing \u2018 Eu amo-te <\/a>\u2019 will always be my favorite three words from you but I need you to keep proving that, because consistency means checking in on me and having a sense of commitment.<\/p>\n

Quero que me conhe\u00e7as, o meu verdadeiro eu, com defeitos e tudo, e que me ames apesar de todos os meus defeitos.<\/p>\n

Preciso que estejas sempre orgulhoso de mim e que me apresentes a pessoas que s\u00e3o importantes para ti, porque isso faz-me sentir que tamb\u00e9m sou importante para ti.<\/p>\n

Your honesty will always be needed, even when it\u2019s hard telling me the truth. I would rather hear the harsh truth than a white lie.<\/p>\n

Consistency means you won\u2019t wake up one day and decide you want something else.<\/p>\n

It means you\u2019re in this for the long haul and that you\u2019re ready for anything that may come our way.<\/p>\n

We are a team and there is nothing we can\u2019t overcome.<\/p>\n

Amo-te e preciso de saber que me amas o suficiente para continuares a fazer isto comigo, porque sabes que valemos todas as dificuldades e todas as lutas.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t ask for a lot. Just be consistent, make an effort and stay true to your word. Everything else will come easy.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Tudo<\/p>\n

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I\u2019m not going to sugar-coat anything anymore. If you can\u2019t meet my standards, I don\u2019t have time for you anymore. I need you to be a constant in my life and not just someone who occasionally answers my texts. I need you to call me and ask how my day is going. I want you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":112553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/All-I-Really-Need-In-A-Relationship-Is-Consistency-And-Effort-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31494\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112553"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}