{"id":31540,"date":"2020-06-21T11:20:34","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T11:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31540"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:48:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:48:48","slug":"como-iniciar-o-sexo-com-o-seu-parceiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-iniciar-o-sexo-com-o-seu-parceiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Como iniciar o sexo com o seu parceiro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perhaps you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a long time or with someone new and when it comes to initiating sex, you find it difficult to devise a proper way of doing it.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be too pushy, passive or confusing so that your partner doesn\u2019t get the wrong idea of your intentions.<\/p>\n

You also don\u2019t want to just say: \u201cLet\u2019s do it!\u201d because it\u2019s totally unproductive and it will create a counter effect.<\/p>\n

A melhor maneira de iniciar o sexo com o seu parceiro \u00e9 faz\u00ea-lo com sensualidade e de uma forma criativa, o que por vezes \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, mas quando apanhar o jeito, garanto-lhe que se tornar\u00e1 a sua segunda natureza.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a woman, don\u2019t be overwhelmed when it comes to letting your partner know that you would like to have some action.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the thinking that men are supposed to be the ones initiating it prevent you from doing the same because that is what society imposes on you all this time. It is not true.<\/p>\n

Initiating sex is something you shouldn\u2019t be ashamed of because it is totally normal and desirable by both sexes. It also gives you the opportunity to take control over your sexuality and embrace it.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-lhe poder para tomar as coisas nas suas m\u00e3os e, de vez em quando, ser a pessoa que est\u00e1 no comando, o que \u00e9 (se perguntar a qualquer homem por a\u00ed) sexy como o diabo.<\/p>\n

Como iniciar o sexo com o seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas formas de iniciar o sexo (como ver\u00e1 mais adiante), mas antes de nos debru\u00e7armos sobre elas, deve lembrar-se de que, seja qual for a op\u00e7\u00e3o escolhida, tem de se manter descontra\u00edda.<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas ficam frustradas com este facto porque processam na sua cabe\u00e7a todos os cen\u00e1rios poss\u00edveis antes mesmo de tentarem.<\/p>\n

It is especially hard to think positively if your partner seems a little bit upset, and you would like to cheer them up by spicing things up in bedroom or some new pose that you\u2019ve come up by reading Kama Sutra.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the environment and other details discourage you from making the first move when it comes to sex.<\/p>\n

Se se mantiver descontra\u00eddo e escolher a abordagem certa de acordo com o seu estado de esp\u00edrito, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que tudo corra como desejava (ou at\u00e9 exceda as suas expectativas) e ver\u00e1 que as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o complicadas como poderia ter pensado.<\/p>\n

13 maneiras de iniciar o sexo com o seu parceiro e apimentar as coisas no seu quarto<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ser direto<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A forma mais f\u00e1cil e, por vezes, a mais eficaz \u00e9 ser direto. Sem rodeios, sem apresenta\u00e7\u00f5es desnecess\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n

Basta perguntar ao seu parceiro se ele ou ela est\u00e1 com vontade de ter a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas adoram-na simplesmente porque \u00e9 ousada e direta, e poupar-lhe-\u00e1 nervos e tempo (e Deus sabe que nunca se tem tempo suficiente).<\/p>\n

No entanto, n\u00e3o aconselho a utiliza\u00e7\u00e3o deste m\u00e9todo se o seu parceiro n\u00e3o estiver com muita vontade de fazer nada.<\/p>\n

Se a pessoa se sente em baixo ou est\u00e1 preocupada com alguma coisa, perguntar-lhe se quer ir para a cama consigo seria totalmente inadequado.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, \u00e9 sempre melhor come\u00e7ar com uma massagem ligeira e ir lentamente at\u00e9 ao fim (se \u00e9 que me entende).<\/p>\n

Falar mal<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Dirty talk is underrated most of the times, but it shouldn\u2019t be so. It is a playful and sexy way of telling your partner that you would like to have some fun with them.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re at a party or among a crowd, talking dirty is a nice way of letting your partner know what they should expect when you come home.<\/p>\n

It will build great sexual tension, and they will surely know that you\u2019re in the mood for something spicy. Just slowly whisper into their ear and let your imagination do the rest.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que eles ficar\u00e3o instantaneamente arrepiados e excitados, \u00e0 espera da hora de sair do local.<\/p>\n

Elogi\u00e1-los<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Outra \u00f3ptima forma de iniciar o sexo com o seu parceiro \u00e9 elogi\u00e1-los<\/a>. Tente dizer que ela \u00e9 sexy ou que gosta do seu novo corte de cabelo ou qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n

Compliments are a great way to increase your partner\u2019s mood and prepare them for action because they work as confidence boosters.<\/p>\n

And when your partner is feeling good, your half of your job is done. But, don\u2019t bombard them with too many compliments because it will create a counter effect.<\/p>\n

Tem de soar natural e como se estivesse a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Prove-lhe que \u00e9 o homem mais bonito ou a mulher mais bonita do mundo. Isto aproxim\u00e1-los-\u00e1 e ser\u00e1 uma \u00f3ptima transi\u00e7\u00e3o para a intimidade.<\/p>\n

Turn routine activities into fun (especially if you don\u2019t have time)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Your daily chores and other tasks shouldn\u2019t prevent you from initiating sex with your partner.<\/p>\n

Pode tirar partido deste facto e utiliz\u00e1-lo para iniciar o sexo com o seu parceiro quando ele menos espera. \u00c9 uma boa forma de quebrar uma rotina e de experimentar algo novo.<\/p>\n

So, when you\u2019re in the kitchen together or doing laundry, try subtly touching your partner and letting them know that you would like to have sexy time with them.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to wait for the perfect moment because every moment is the perfect moment if you know how to approach it sensually and with care.<\/p>\n

Utilizar palavras de c\u00f3digo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Por vezes, iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sexual parece imposs\u00edvel devido \u00e0s circunst\u00e2ncias que o impedem de o fazer.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, pode estar na mesma divis\u00e3o com os seus filhos quando come\u00e7a a pensar em iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sexual com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Por isso, a forma mais f\u00e1cil de o fazer sem que eles o saibam \u00e9 utilizar palavras de c\u00f3digo.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se faz? Basta conceber algumas frases que normalmente utilizaria numa conversa e diz\u00ea-las sempre que lhe apetecer.<\/p>\n

You can ask your partner something, and they can reply positively or negatively in accordance with their mood about having sex with you. It\u2019s easy and fun at the same time.<\/p>\n

Enviar mensagens de texto de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Pode tentar enviar algumas mensagens de texto sedutoras ao seu parceiro, dizendo-lhe que tem saudades dele e que gostaria que ele estivesse ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Use the power of your imagination and the power of today\u2019s technology to your advantage (especially if your partner is currently not around the house or wherever you are).<\/p>\n

Mas, mesmo que a pessoa esteja na mesma divis\u00e3o que voc\u00ea ou na cozinha, pode enviar-lhe mensagens de texto de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o que ser\u00e3o quentes e bem-humoradas ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\n

And when you feel like you can\u2019t endure it anymore, just jump onto each other and do everything that you\u2019ve been texting about all this time.<\/p>\n

Conceber um chamamento de acasalamento<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Here’s an interesting one. The concept is simple. Devise a mating call that when one partner imitates it (a certain animal), the other follows them with their own response that implies yes or no.<\/p>\n

For example, monkeys have a specific mating call. You can implement this sound. It\u2019s funny, amazing, and it gets the job done.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also much simpler, and more entertaining, to make this sound than just say: Let\u2019s do it! But don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n

If the situation is just right, there’s no need to act like a monkey or certain animal because it will be just waste of time and totally unnecessary.<\/p>\n

Tomar medidas<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling bold, forget about the verbal approach. Instead, take action by taking your partner by hand and going to the bedroom or somewhere else where you would like to have sex with them.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re a woman, your man will be amazed by your dominant side and the decision to take things in your hands and do what makes you happy.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, pode surpreender o seu parceiro andando de cuecas pela casa ou simplesmente despindo-se quando ele menos espera.<\/p>\n

This kind of unexpected surprise will definitely be a great initiation for further action. It is simple, effective, and you don\u2019t have to say a word.<\/p>\n

Fazer sexo matinal<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Morning sex is in most cases overrated because couples don\u2019t feel that comfortable about engaging into steamy activities when they\u2019ve just woken up and didn\u2019t shower, brushed their teeth or similar.<\/p>\n

Mas, definitivamente, deve iniciar o sexo de manh\u00e3, porque nessa altura a hormona do desejo sexual (testosterona) est\u00e1 no seu ponto mais alto.<\/p>\n

A simple touch and kiss will do the job. You don\u2019t have to try hard by going out of your way to initiate something.<\/p>\n

Tudo correr\u00e1 com o fluxo, e a \u00fanica coisa com que se deve preocupar \u00e9 desfrutar do momento.<\/p>\n

So, next time you wake up next to your partner, do not be appalled by the idea of having sex with them just because you didn\u2019t manage to finish your bathroom rituals.<\/p>\n

Recordar o seu passado ac\u00e7\u00f5es escaldantes<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve had some steamy activities before that are worth remembering (and I\u2019m sure you have), try reminding your partner of them.<\/p>\n

Simply start talking about whether they remember the day when you\u2019ve got home from your job, started cooking and end up making out, and the rest is history.<\/p>\n

Relembrar as vossas ac\u00e7\u00f5es picantes passadas criar\u00e1 uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre voc\u00eas os dois e o seu c\u00e9rebro associar\u00e1 instantaneamente isso ao prazer.<\/p>\n

And you will be thirsty for more. Your body will also get ready to engage in more pleasure, so that you can recall it again after a few months when you\u2019re about to initiate sex with your partner.<\/p>\n

Escolher uma data e hora<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you’re pretty busy during the week, bring out an old-fashioned calendar, circle a date and write down the time of your encounter.<\/p>\n

This might sound disturbing because it ain\u2019t spontaneous and it feels like a chore, but this anticipation is what makes you bubble down there, between your legs.<\/p>\n

Just simply talk to your partner about a date and time, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll come to a mutual agreement.<\/p>\n

Although least exciting, this method also has its pros. For example, when you\u2019re being casual all the time, sometimes you don\u2019t have sex that often because one of the two of you is not in the mood.<\/p>\n

Mas, quando se marca uma data e uma hora, tenta-se de certeza e, se n\u00e3o for poss\u00edvel, quem \u00e9 que se importa?<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019ll have sex more often than if you were too casual about it.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como ter sexo com mais frequ\u00eancia<\/a><\/p>\n

Surpreenda o seu parceiro com um jogo de pap\u00e9is<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is one of my personal favorites. It\u2019s interesting, entertaining and to the point. When you feel like initiating sex with your partner, try surprising them with some role playing.<\/p>\n

Mude a sua voz, comece a falar de algo totalmente alheio ao que estava a falar h\u00e1 poucos minutos e avance passo a passo, apresentando-lhes o seu jogo.<\/p>\n

You can also surprise them by putting a blindfold on their face while approaching them from the back. I\u2019m sure their heart rate will immediately increase, and the fun will be inevitable.<\/p>\n

Sejam criativos e pensem num jogo de pap\u00e9is que n\u00e3o seja assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil ou demasiado simples. Algo de que ambos gostem.<\/p>\n

Brinquedos sexuais<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mean instantly using your sex toy in front of them because it would be a little bit word (but if it\u2019s something that you\u2019re comfortable with, then why not).<\/p>\n

Mostre o seu novo brinquedo sexual ao seu parceiro, explicando-lhe de forma divertida o que acabou de comprar. Tamb\u00e9m pode fazer com que ele adivinhe o que \u00e9.<\/p>\n

If it is handcuffs, you can simply put it on their hands in a playful manner and I\u2019m sure they will instantly start to follow your lead and cooperate.<\/p>\n

Seja o que for, escolha o momento certo e crie um ambiente em que as pessoas se sintam confort\u00e1veis e inspiradas para o testar consigo.<\/p>\n

Just choose the approach that you\u2019re most comfortable with and if all else fails, then try to talk to your partner and explain them that something\u2019s not right. But, don\u2019t accuse them.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the only one initiating sex all the time tell them that you would like them to do the same.<\/p>\n

After all, it takes two to tango. If your partner is not willing to cooperate even though you\u2019ve tried everything, the problem could be in them and not you.<\/p>\n

Pense em tudo cuidadosamente e, o mais importante, aproveite cada momento.<\/p>\n

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