{"id":31572,"date":"2020-04-21T11:55:50","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T11:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31572"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:24:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:24:05","slug":"a-batota-e-uma-escolha-nao-um-erro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-batota-e-uma-escolha-nao-um-erro\/","title":{"rendered":"Trair \u00e9 uma escolha, n\u00e3o um erro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos aqueles que, de uma forma ou de outra, foram enganados por algu\u00e9m que amavam de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, compreendem a dor de se verem despeda\u00e7ados e de n\u00e3o conseguirem respirar bem porque o vosso mundo se desmorona de repente.<\/p>\n

Compreende a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de ser uma segunda escolha para algu\u00e9m que era a sua prioridade desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

But, there\u2019s one thing you need to understand as well: Tu escolheste-os, mas eles escolheram trair-te.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you dare think or let them persuade you that cheating on you was just a mistake, and now they realize that they shouldn\u2019t have done it.<\/p>\n

Fazer batota \u00e9 um ato de cobardia e n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com cometer erros por acaso.<\/p>\n

It is a choice made by greediness\u2014not appreciating what you have but not being willing to let the person go. You chose to commit that sin because it makes you sentir-se feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica e exclusiva raz\u00e3o pela qual o fez foi porque lhe deu satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o pessoal.<\/p>\n

Trair \u00e9 uma a\u00e7\u00e3o que consiste em destruir deliberadamente outro ser humano para satisfazer as suas necessidades ego\u00edstas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cheating is not something you do by accident because you can\u2019t control yourself.<\/p>\n

Cada a\u00e7\u00e3o sua \u00e9 aprovada pelo seu c\u00e9rebro, o que significa que VOC\u00ca tomou a decis\u00e3o de fazer com que outro ser humano se sentisse miser\u00e1vel ao desfrutar do seu momento de felicidade.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But, was it so hard to admit to them that you\u2019re not satisfied with how things are? Was it so hard to tell them how you feel and fix the problem or leave and spare them the pain?<\/i><\/p>\n

I bet, it wasn\u2019t. Then why didn\u2019t you do it? You didn\u2019t do it because you wanted to try something new.<\/p>\n

Aborreceste-te com o que tinhas. Fartaste-te do seu amor e quiseste provar outro para satisfazer o teu apetite.<\/p>\n

Cheating is a choice driven by your urge for a change that you\u2019re not capable of making yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando decidiu trair, decidiu fazer algo em segredo; esconder o seu ato vergonhoso da pessoa amada porque sabia que o que estava a fazer n\u00e3o era correto.<\/p>\n

You wanted something new, but you didn\u2019t want to lose what you already have, and that is what makes you an asshole.<\/p>\n

Quando amamos realmente algu\u00e9m, fazemos escolhas que o protegem, que o fazem sorrir e que o fazem sentir-se amado. Quando amamos realmente algu\u00e9m, fazemos escolhas que melhoram a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i>\u2014n\u00e3o a destruir.<\/i><\/p>\n

But, you made a choice to fuck things up and break them, so don\u2019t you dare tell anyone that you\u2019re sorry because you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Decidiste deliberada, volunt\u00e1ria e conscientemente destruir tudo o que tinhas s\u00f3 porque eras incapaz de amar a tua parceira como um verdadeiro homem o faz.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You deliberately killed their hope just because you didn\u2019t have any. You deliberately broke their heart just because you didn\u2019t have one.<\/p>\n

And on top of all that, now, you probably expect them to forgive you because YOU MADE A MISTAKE. I\u2019m sorry to tell you that love doesn\u2019t tolerate mistakes.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re either committed or you\u2019re not. You\u2019re either here or you\u2019re not. There\u2019s no grey area here.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que se faz numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de escolha pr\u00f3pria.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fazemo-los rir porque gostamos do seu sorriso.<\/p>\n

Fazemos com que se sintam especiais porque os amamos.<\/p>\n

Protege-os porque se preocupa genuinamente com eles.<\/p>\n

You hurt them because you don\u2019t give a shit about how they\u2019ll feel.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s as simple as that. You could have chosen otherwise, but you didn\u2019t because you didn\u2019t feel the burden of your own decisions.<\/p>\n

You decided to waste large amounts of time only to enjoy one second. You did it because you didn\u2019t give a fuck about them.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t give a fuck about people who amo-te<\/a> e que dariam a sua vida por v\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Magoou-os porque os seus pr\u00f3prios desejos e vontades eram as suas \u00fanicas prioridades e precisa de saber que essas pessoas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o tolas que acreditar\u00e3o que foi apenas um erro.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que eles podem t\u00ea-lo amado de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e talvez ainda o amem, mas no momento em que decidiu mago\u00e1-los, eles tamb\u00e9m decidiram NUNCA o perdoar.<\/p>\n

\"Trair<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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