{"id":31649,"date":"2020-06-22T13:20:47","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T13:20:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31649"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:48:39","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:48:39","slug":"uma-carta-aberta-ao-homem-que-magoei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-aberta-ao-homem-que-magoei\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao homem que magoei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eu sabia que este momento chegaria mais cedo ou mais tarde. Eu sabia que n\u00e3o era suficientemente forte para lutar por ti, mas de alguma forma negligenciei esse sentimento.<\/p>\n<p>Pensei que o facto de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/estou-farto-de-lutar-com-quem-nao-quer-lutar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lutou por mim<\/a> t\u00e3o duro era suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>But it wasn\u2019t. It takes two to tango and I was the one who messed up things here. And I am sorry for that.<\/p>\n<p>I am sorry that I let you go all in, without any intention to reciprocate in the same way. But just know it wasn\u2019t because I didn\u2019t want to, it was because I couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You know, you can\u2019t just tell your heart what to do<\/i><\/b>. It is not a machine so you can\u2019t turn it on and off.<\/p>\n<p>The heart is a complicated thing and you need to be careful when dealing with it. Too bad I wasn\u2019t careful with yours. I never thought that you would fall so hard for me.<\/p>\n<p>Pensei que ficarias por c\u00e1 pouco tempo e que te irias embora, como o resto dos rapazes com quem namorei.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91998\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/A-sad-couple-sitting-in-the-park-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"Um casal triste sentado no parque e a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/A-sad-couple-sitting-in-the-park-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/A-sad-couple-sitting-in-the-park-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/A-sad-couple-sitting-in-the-park-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> Mas tu tinhas planos diferentes. Decidiste ficar comigo, com algu\u00e9m que estava magoado, partido e completamente lixado. Ficaste e esperaste por mim <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-na-altura-de-te-recompores-porque-ela-nao-vai-esperar-muito-mais-tempo-por-ti\/\">para me recompor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You held me while I was fixing myself, telling me that I could do it and that I shouldn\u2019t give up. But too bad that I gave up on love a long time ago. I gave up on you a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Querida, eu desisti de n\u00f3s h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/i><\/b> And you couldn\u2019t even see it in my eyes, since I pretended everything was okay.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t have enough courage to tell you that things between us would never work.<\/p>\n<p>Pensei que \u00edamos discutir como sempre fiz com os outros rapazes com quem andei.<\/p>\n<p>I thought there would come a day when you would yell at me, telling me that you couldn\u2019t stand me anymore.<\/p>\n<p>But that day never happened. You were always there if I needed you. If I called you in the middle of the night, you would come to my doorstep to hug me and to tell me that I shouldn\u2019t sweat the small stuff.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91999\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-in-mans-arm.jpg\" alt=\"mulher no bra\u00e7o do homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-in-mans-arm.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-in-mans-arm-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-in-mans-arm-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu eras t\u00e3o cheio de amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o, mas eu, por outro lado, era um forreta quando se tratava de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I want to say that I am sorry. I am sorry that I suck at showing my emotions. I am sorry I suck at showing that I care.<\/p>\n<p>Lamento ter-te tratado mal porque pensei que eras como os outros rapazes. Lamento que tenhas tido de te apaixonar por mim. Se eu pudesse mudar alguma coisa agora, mudaria isso.<\/p>\n<p>I would never want to see you broken like you are now. If I could go back, I would do things differently. But I can\u2019t. And I am sorry about that.<\/p>\n<p>I just want you to know that none of this was planned. I am not a monster. I am just a woman who has been hurt too many times. And that\u2019s why I am keeping my heart closed to anyone who comes near.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I look like the unlovable one. That\u2019s why I am sad. And I hope that one day I will manage to love like you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92000\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"morena triste com cabelo encaracolado em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-brunette-with-curly-hair-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Espero ser capaz de abrir o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e de me entregar totalmente a algu\u00e9m. Mas acima de tudo, espero que encontres a for\u00e7a para me esqueceres e que me perdoes.<\/p>\n<p>I hope that you will realize that it wasn\u2019t my intention to hurt you and that you will forgive me for the pain I have caused you.<\/p>\n<p>Tamb\u00e9m espero que encontres o amor porque \u00e9s um ser humano maravilhoso. Tenho a certeza de que ser\u00e1s um \u00f3timo marido e um pai fant\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n<p>I just hope the next woman you fall in love with will know how to cherish you. I hope she will give you everything that I couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Espero que ela te ame como nunca amou ningu\u00e9m antes. E, acima de tudo, espero que ela seja a tal.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><em>Desejo-vos toda a sorte do mundo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>The one who couldn\u2019t love you<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Man-I-Hurt-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta aberta ao homem que magoei\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Man-I-Hurt-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Man-I-Hurt-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I knew that this moment would come sooner or later. I knew that I wasn\u2019t strong enough to fight for you but I somehow neglected that feeling. I thought that the fact you were fighting for me so hard was enough. But it wasn\u2019t. It takes two to tango and I was the one who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91997,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Man-I-Hurt.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31649","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31649"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31649\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91997"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}