{"id":3165,"date":"2017-08-03T08:02:01","date_gmt":"2017-08-03T08:02:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3165"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:28:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:28:44","slug":"5-boas-razoes-para-ser-morto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-boas-razoes-para-ser-morto\/","title":{"rendered":"5 boas raz\u00f5es para ela se ter suicidado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Foi sempre melhor para os outros do que eles foram bons para ela.<\/span><\/h2>\n

She was even better to others than she was to herself. And that wasn\u2019t good. Other people were her priority and she thought that once, at some point, she\u2019ll meet in life all the love she was showering on others.<\/p>\n

Pensava que o bem que fazia acabaria por voltar para ela e que todo o esfor\u00e7o que fazia pelas pessoas seria recompensado. Ela nunca mediu o quanto dava aos outros. Desde que os fizesse felizes, estava tudo bem. Algures no caminho, esqueceu-se de sorrir.<\/p>\n

Era frequentemente deixada sozinha.<\/span><\/h2>\n

As pessoas s\u00f3 batiam \u00e0 sua porta quando precisavam de alguma coisa. Ela estava l\u00e1 para as confortar. Estava l\u00e1 para aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a e para as fazer sentir bem consigo pr\u00f3prias, mas ningu\u00e9m se importava com o que ela sentia.<\/p>\n

The moment they got what they needed, they\u2019d pack their things and leave, leaving her alone. Not asking her if she was ok. She didn\u2019t need anybody to get her\u2014she only needed someone to care.<\/p>\n

She was other people\u2019s dumping ground.<\/span><\/h2>\n

All the evil, all the darkness and misfortune they had, they transferred to her. It was just like she wore a sign telling people how she\u2019s a landfill\u2014 so feel free to contaminate her pureness and her good soul with their problems.<\/p>\n

Ela costumava ser a pessoa mais positiva deste mundo. Tinha o sorriso mais brilhante, mas as pessoas t\u00f3xicas que a rodeavam arranjavam maneira de a envenenar.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente era t\u00e3o ego\u00edsta.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Como se, a dada altura da sua vida, tivesse sido invis\u00edvel para o resto do mundo. Claro que as pessoas reparavam nela, mas s\u00f3 nos momentos em que precisavam dela. Ningu\u00e9m via o seu sorriso falso e ningu\u00e9m cuidava dela.<\/p>\n

Yes, she was a very welcoming person, smart and strong. She could bear anybody\u2019s burden but only up to some point. When they overburdened her, they left her to deal with it alone. She was only as good as she was needed.<\/p>\n

She just couldn\u2019t do it anymore.<\/span><\/h2>\n

She couldn\u2019t be the least relevant person to herself. She just couldn\u2019t put others before her because they made it pretty obvious they were toxic. She learned her lesson. She couldn\u2019t let those toxic people use her anymore so she killed herself. She killed her kind and unselfish side and everybody lost.<\/p>\n

And then she learned to say \u2018no\u2019.<\/p>\n

No, she doesn\u2019t have a moment for you.<\/p>\n

No, she doesn\u2019t understand anymore.<\/p>\n

No, she can\u2019t help you.<\/p>\n

Aprendeu a p\u00f4r-se em primeiro lugar. Aprendeu a ser a sua pr\u00f3pria prioridade. Aprendeu que quando n\u00e3o tem ningu\u00e9m para lhe dar a m\u00e3o, a melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 meter as m\u00e3os nos bolsos e continuar a andar.<\/p>\n

The tables have turned. Now, she’s aware of her worth and she’s aware of everything she deserves. So, the next time you ask why is she such a jerk, maybe you should wonder what you did wrong.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She was always better to others than they were good to her. She was even better to others than she was to herself. And that wasn\u2019t good. Other people were her priority and she thought that once, at some point, she\u2019ll meet in life all the love she was showering on others. She thought that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":3167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shifaaz-shamoon-300079.jpg",800,555,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":4,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3165"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3165\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}