{"id":31665,"date":"2020-08-22T14:31:17","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T14:31:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31665"},"modified":"2022-01-20T16:06:34","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T16:06:34","slug":"se-nao-me-podes-amar-como-deve-ser-afasta-te-para-que-outro-o-possa-fazer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-nao-me-podes-amar-como-deve-ser-afasta-te-para-que-outro-o-possa-fazer\/","title":{"rendered":"Se n\u00e3o consegues amar-me bem, afasta-te para que outra pessoa o possa fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Consegues ver o quanto me preocupo com as minhas ac\u00e7\u00f5es? Eu sei que sim. Eu fa\u00e7o-o t\u00e3o \u00f3bvio.<\/p>\n<p>Estou sempre presente para ti. Dou sempre o meu melhor. Fa\u00e7o sempre a milha extra. Sou a sua pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Sou sempre aquele que te anima nos teus dias maus. Sou aquele que acredita em ti e te incentiva a fazer mais. Sou aquele que envia uma mensagem engra\u00e7ada para te fazer rir no trabalho.<\/p>\n<p>Eu sou aquele que compreende, aquele que fica, aquele que se preocupa, aquele que te p\u00f5e em primeiro lugar, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>Can you say the same? Can you say that your love is so true and so visible in everything you do that saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d feels unnecessary?<\/p>\n<p>Let me answer that for you\u2026 No, you can\u2019t say that. You don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-eu-quero-que-tu-me-ames\/\">ama-me da maneira certa<\/a>. You don\u2019t love me the way I deserve. And still, you are not letting me go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107934\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-man-watching-at-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a olhar para uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-man-watching-at-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-man-watching-at-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-man-watching-at-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-man-watching-at-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-man-watching-at-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que penso em ir embora, tu puxas-me para mais perto. Tornas-te tudo o que eu preciso num instante.<\/p>\n<p>Dizes todas as coisas que devias ter dito h\u00e1 muito tempo. Fazes todas as coisas que te implorei para fazeres e nunca fizeste.<\/p>\n<p>Durante um breve momento, tudo \u00e9 como eu sonhei que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o deveria ser. Mas esse momento passa t\u00e3o depressa e, mais uma vez, voltamos ao ponto de partida.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mais uma vez, deixas de reparar em mim. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nesses momentos, sinto que algu\u00e9m me acordou de um sonho quente e fofinho para a frieza de um pesadelo. Tenho literalmente de vos pedir que me abracem, que me beijem, que fiquem na cama mais um bocadinho.<\/p>\n<p>Tenho de te pedir para falares comigo. Para me dizeres como foi o teu dia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107936\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira e triste sentada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Depois come\u00e7o a falar sobre os meus porque nunca vos ocorreu perguntar. Mais uma vez, sou todo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-mereces-um-homem-que-te-faca-sentir-sozinha-numa-relacao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> sozinho nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> e esta solid\u00e3o est\u00e1 a matar-me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Once again you don\u2019t text back. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mais uma vez, estou a olhar para um ecr\u00e3 em branco, na esperan\u00e7a de receber uma mensagem de boa noite, mas ela nunca chega e eu choro at\u00e9 adormecer. Os minutos parecem dias e as horas parecem meses quando estou \u00e0 espera de uma resposta tua.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you don\u2019t reply, I make all sorts of excuses for why you couldn\u2019t. I lie to myself that I matter to you when you are clearly showing me that you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><b>Once again you don\u2019t have time for me. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Unless it suits you, unless it\u2019s convenient to drop by and warm my bed. All our plans get canceled at the last minute. All your promises disappear into thin air.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107937\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-woman-listening-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria que escuta homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-woman-listening-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-woman-listening-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-woman-listening-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-woman-listening-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/serious-woman-listening-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muitas vezes tens algo para fazer e algu\u00e9m mais importante para ver e eu fico sempre para \u00faltimo. N\u00e3o fazes ideia de como me sinto insignificante e pequeno nesses momentos.<\/p>\n<p>A minha mente vagueia por todo o tipo de cen\u00e1rios, mesmo aqueles que s\u00e3o mais dif\u00edceis de aceitar. Por isso, junto as minhas m\u00e3os e rezo para que n\u00e3o estejas com outra mulher.<\/p>\n<p>I pray that you are not making a fool out of me. I pray because I don\u2019t know the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Contigo, nunca sei nada.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mais uma vez fazes-me chorar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>And every time I feel the tears rolling down my face, I promise myself it\u2019s the last time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107938\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a chorar no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That I won\u2019t put up with this anymore. And every time I break that promise. Every time I let myself down.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que escolho o amor que tenho por ti em vez do amor que devia ter por mim. Mas algures no tempo, o amor-pr\u00f3prio tornou-se menos importante. Algures nesta hist\u00f3ria ca\u00f3tica contigo, perdi-me.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Culpo-te por n\u00e3o me deixares ir embora, mas tamb\u00e9m tenho parte da culpa, pois estou a agarrar-me com a mesma for\u00e7a. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I care so much that the thought of us ending things is tearing me apart. That\u2019s why I keep forgiving the unforgivable.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I keep inviting you into my life. That\u2019s why I stay when I know I should have walked away a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>But I think this time, I have to ask you to step aside so I would get the chance to meet someone who will love me right when you clearly can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107932\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Cant-Love-Me-Right-Step-Aside-So-Someone-Else-Can-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se n\u00e3o consegues amar-me bem, afasta-te para que outra pessoa o possa fazer\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Cant-Love-Me-Right-Step-Aside-So-Someone-Else-Can-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Cant-Love-Me-Right-Step-Aside-So-Someone-Else-Can-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Cant-Love-Me-Right-Step-Aside-So-Someone-Else-Can-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can you see how much I care from my actions? I know you can. I make it so obvious. I am always there for you. I always do my best. I always go the extra mile. I am your person. I am always the one who cheers you up on your bad days. I am&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":107941,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31665","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Cant-Love-Me-Right-Step-Aside-So-Someone-Else-Can.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31665","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31665"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31665\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107941"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31665"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31665"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31665"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}