Quando se pensa nisso, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que n\u00e3o requer qualquer compromisso parece perfeita. V\u00ea-a como uma oportunidade para apimentar a sua vida com a quantidade certa de paix\u00e3o e borboletas para o ajudar a passar o dia.<\/p>\n
You have someone to call when you are lonely, without having any duties which could rearrange your life. You don\u2019t have to change or make compromises for the sake of the other person and you can continue rocking your vida de solteiro<\/span><\/a> e ter algu\u00e9m que nos d\u00ea um pouco de afeto e ternura quando precisamos.<\/p>\n Parece um \u00f3timo acordo, certo? Afinal de contas, o que \u00e9 que pode correr mal?<\/p>\n Bem, eu tinha exatamente os mesmos pensamentos na minha cabe\u00e7a antes de entrar na minha quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o. E ent\u00e3o, a vida provou que eu estava errada.<\/p>\n \u00c9 por isso que estou prestes a dar-lhe uma vis\u00e3o em primeira m\u00e3o sobre como \u00e9 realmente este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Est\u00e1 prestes a ler 5 coisas que ir\u00e3o certamente mudar a sua opini\u00e3o sobre tudo o que pensava saber sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es sem t\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n A data\u00e7\u00e3o moderna ensinou-nos que um rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem laborat\u00f3rio<\/a> \u00e9 quase exatamente igual ao verdadeiro. Passa tempo com o seu parceiro, comunica regularmente, tem intimidade f\u00edsica e, basicamente, faz tudo o que um casal normal faz.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, the emphasis here is on the word almost. This relationship is not a real relationship, even if it is similar to one and this is something you need to be aware of before getting yourself involved in it. You can call it an affair, a situationship or some kind of connection but if it were a real romantic relationship, you guys would have labeled it as such, wouldn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n O teu quase namorado n\u00e3o \u00e9 algu\u00e9m com quem possas contar em todos os momentos. Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que prometeu estar ao seu lado nos dias bons e maus e n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que se comprometeu a ser o seu melhor amigo e o seu parceiro de vida.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, he will be the cause of your sleepless nights and of your tears. He will be someone you\u2019ll give your precious time and effort to, just like in a real relationship.<\/p>\n Apesar de esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o sem laborat\u00f3rio n\u00e3o ser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ir\u00e1 trazer-lhe todas as verdadeiras problemas de relacionamento<\/a>. Its end will bring you the same amount of emotional pain a real break-up would. Just because you never dated a man, it doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t break your heart.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that a labeled relationship guarantees you a stress-free life. I am not saying that labeled couples don\u2019t have problems and disagreements because they most certainly do.<\/p>\n But they also have the benefits of a real relationship which makes all of the hardships worth it. And that is something you don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n When you are in this kind of situationship, you are not entitled to demand anything. You don\u2019t have the right to demand loyalty, fidelity, commitment, effort or closure. Whenever you think about complaining, remember that you are the one who signed up for this.<\/p>\n If you are planning on getting yourself involved in this type of relationship in the hope of it one day becoming serious\u2014don\u2019t. A person who doesn\u2019t have second thoughts about you and a person who is sure about his feelings for you will behave accordingly from the start.<\/p>\n Please, don\u2019t lie to yourself that o teu amor vai mudar este homem<\/span><\/a> and that he\u2019ll eventually understand that you deserve to have the title of his girlfriend. Don\u2019t fall for his false excuses that he just needs time to get his shit together. Don\u2019t believe in his empty promises that this arrangement is only temporary and that things between you will sort themselves out in no time.<\/p>\n The harsh truth is that nothing will probably ever change. You\u2019ll just end up wasting years of your life next to someone who thinks you are convenient, while you keep waiting for a miracle that will never come.<\/p>\n Another thing you need to be aware of when it comes to entering a relationship without a label is that you are probably not the only girl in this man\u2019s life. After all, he never promised you fidelity or exclusivity which means that you don\u2019t have the right to be jealous.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, I guarantee you that you will be more than upset about this\u2014you\u2019ll just know that you can\u2019t show it. You\u2019ll spend numerous nights crying yourself to sleep, perguntando o que seu quase namorado<\/a> has been up to. You\u2019ll do your best to find out everything there is to know about other women in his life, secretly hoping that you are the only one, while not saying a word and knowing that he never gave you the right to ask any questions.<\/p>\n Antes de se envolver numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem laborat\u00f3rio, saiba que n\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que merece e, definitivamente, n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo com que se deva contentar. Em vez disso, merece um homem que tenha mais do que orgulho em segurar a sua m\u00e3o em p\u00fablico, em mostrar-lhe o seu afeto \u00e0 frente de toda a gente e em chamar-lhe namorada.<\/p>\n1. N\u00e3o se trata de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o real<\/h2>\n
2. Mas vai trazer-lhe todos os verdadeiros problemas de relacionamento<\/h2>\n
3. Provavelmente nunca se tornar\u00e1 s\u00e9rio<\/h2>\n
4. You don\u2019t have the right to be jealous<\/h2>\n
5. Mereces mais<\/h2>\n