{"id":31713,"date":"2020-01-23T10:50:13","date_gmt":"2020-01-23T10:50:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31713"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:46:59","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:46:59","slug":"7-tacticas-de-controlo-de-conversacao-mais-comuns-usadas-por-todos-os-narcisistas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tacticas-de-controlo-de-conversacao-mais-comuns-usadas-por-todos-os-narcisistas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 t\u00e1cticas de controlo de conversa\u00e7\u00e3o mais comuns que todos os narcisistas usam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tentar argumentar ou ter uma conversa normal com um narcisista \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel. Pode tentar. Pode lutar pelo seu direito de falar, mas n\u00e3o vai chegar a lado nenhum.<\/p>\n

If he wants to, he will make you feel like you\u2019re talking to a wall\u2014an emotionless, cold, and distant wall.<\/p>\n

Your words simply won\u2019t get through, no matter how determined and loud you are. Conversations with a narcissist can drive you insane.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going around in circles while talking to a narcissist, and in the end, you, a perfectly healthy person, leave the conversation wondering if there is something wrong with you.<\/p>\n

Mas o que \u00e9 que fazemos quando come\u00e7amos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista? <\/i><\/p>\n

Confiamos neles.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E isso \u00e9 algo que se deve fazer no in\u00edcio de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Tem um homem ao seu lado. Acredita que ele a ama e que nunca faria nada para a magoar.<\/p>\n

Por isso, damos o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a nossa alma \u00e0 pessoa que \u00e9 suposto proteger-nos, e somos tratados com frieza. Sofremos maus-tratos; somos enganados.<\/p>\n

Isto deixa-nos naturalmente confusos e magoados. Narcissists don\u2019t think like we do. <\/b><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t play by the rules, and their mindsets are completely different than ours.<\/p>\n

Their empathy doesn’t exist, and don\u2019t you ever try to understand why a narcissist did something or said something because you won\u2019t be able to understand it.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que algu\u00e9m lho dissesse, seria completamente il\u00f3gico para si.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que acontece quando nos apercebemos de quem eles s\u00e3o na realidade? <\/i><\/p>\n

By that time, it\u2019s too late. You go round in circles. You try to prove a point to a person who thinks he is almighty and right all the time.<\/p>\n

Never start a conversation match with a narcissist. You\u2019ll lose!<\/b><\/p>\n

Their manipulation is obvious to everyone but you. And the first mistake you\u2019re making in a conversation with a narcissist is disagreeing with him.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve found yourself in a situation where you can\u2019t avoid talking to a person like that, just wait patiently for him to finish what he has to say, and no matter how it hurts, keep your mouth shut, and don\u2019t let any of it disturb you.<\/p>\n

A simple disagreement will cause a full attack on you. Instead of you being the victim which you are, he\u2019ll turn things around, and you\u2019re going to be the bad guy all of a sudden.<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t lead conversations, they lead verbal attacks. <\/b>It\u2019s not in their interest to talk things through like normal people do.<\/p>\n

Eles querem mexer com a tua cabe\u00e7a e querem ganhar uma discuss\u00e3o. Nada mais importa, exceto que eles ganhem o jogo verbal.<\/p>\n

Eis as conversas mais comuns t\u00e1cticas utilizadas pelos narcisistas<\/a> para vos manipular.<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Proje\u00e7\u00e3o inversa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you talk to a narcissist, you may say something nice. You may try really hard to compliment him on something to take the conversation in another direction, but that won\u2019t be enough.<\/p>\n

Um narcisista interpretar\u00e1 sempre tudo o que disser como um insulto e um ataque pessoal contra ele. Ele far\u00e1 uma proje\u00e7\u00e3o inversa e transformar-se-\u00e1 numa v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

He will make you think you\u2019re crazy and turn you into a bad guy which will leave you confused because all you wanted to do or say was something nice.<\/p>\n

Mudan\u00e7a de tema<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Whenever you have the upper hand, you\u2019re right, and your narcissist doesn\u2019t know how to disprove you, he changes the topic.<\/p>\n

He has to have the control over the conversation, and while you\u2019re in charge with your valid points, he can\u2019t achieve that.<\/p>\n

Mas, antes que pestaneje, ele conduzir\u00e1 a conversa noutra dire\u00e7\u00e3o em que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tem o controlo.<\/p>\n

It will have nothing to do with what you\u2019ve talked about before, and you will find yourself in defense mode trying to prove your innocence.<\/p>\n

Gritar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O narcisista est\u00e1 a tentar intimid\u00e1-lo atrav\u00e9s de gritos. Usa vozes altas para o intimidar e faz\u00ea-lo recuar numa conversa.<\/p>\n

Isto faz todo o sentido quando o narcisista \u00e9 um homem e a v\u00edtima \u00e9 uma mulher. A maioria das mulheres retira-se depois de come\u00e7ar a gritar.<\/p>\n

This tactic is the most effective when there are people around you like when you\u2019re in public.<\/p>\n

Knowing that you won\u2019t risk public embarrassment, a narcissist will pick a fight, preferably around as many people as possible because he knows he\u2019ll win it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll back down trying to calm things down.<\/p>\n

Culpabiliza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Quando um narcisista muda de assunto, p\u00f5e a culpa em si. Ele levanta quest\u00f5es e traz \u00e0 baila coisas do passado.<\/p>\n

Maybe some of them were your fault, but you\u2019ve dealt with them then\u2014at least you thought so. Well, that\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a guardar esses pontap\u00e9s na sua mente exatamente para os usar contra si em momentos como este.<\/p>\n

Then, you\u2019re the one to blame, you start defending yourself, and you have no idea how the conversation changed its course that quickly.<\/p>\n

All you know is that you\u2019re the one to blame for every single problem in your relationship, and he is just a blameless, poor victim.<\/p>\n

A v\u00edtima a brincar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Quando se fazem de v\u00edtimas, ningu\u00e9m suspeitar\u00e1 de que s\u00e3o os abusadores. Sabem como dar a volta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o e provar que s\u00e3o eles os abusados.<\/p>\n

For example, if you want something from them and you ask them nicely, they won\u2019t answer with empathy.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t care that the thing you\u2019re asking for is very important to you. They won\u2019t apologize for not being able to help you out.<\/p>\n

They will get angry at you and scream at you because you haven\u2019t considered their emotions. You haven\u2019t thought about their feelings and what they are going through.<\/p>\n

Because when you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist, it\u2019s always about them. They are and always will be their own first priority.<\/p>\n

E no fim, ser\u00e1s uma cabra por te atreveres a pedir-lhe alguma coisa. Sabes, uma vez que ele \u00e9 uma v\u00edtima e ningu\u00e9m faz a m\u00ednima ideia do qu\u00e3o dif\u00edcil \u00e9 lidar contigo.<\/p>\n

That is his goal\u2014to present himself like that to others and eventually to convince you that it is really the truth.<\/p>\n

Interrup\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Tal como adoram estar no centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es na multid\u00e3o, tamb\u00e9m adoram estar no centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es na conversa.<\/p>\n

Their communication with you is a one-way street. If you try to prove a point and you\u2019re very close to doing so, a narcissist will constantly interrupt you in attempt to disprove your thesis.<\/p>\n

Quando um narcisista fala consigo, n\u00e3o tem qualquer interesse em ouvir o que tem para dizer e a conversa tem de se desenrolar de acordo com as suas regras ou nem sequer se desenrola.<\/p>\n

Assim, quando come\u00e7am a perder o controlo, interrompem para recuperar o controlo e desviar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o para si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

O tratamento silencioso<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A pior forma de abuso emocional \u00e9 definitivamente um narcissist\u2019s silent treatment <\/a> . Narcissists use this to block you when you haven\u2019t accepted what they perceive and tell to be the truth.<\/p>\n

When they have no other source of power, they use emotional manipulation to gain control over you. Not only they use it when they are not wrong, but also every time something they don\u2019t like takes its course.<\/p>\n

Utilizam-na quando o casal tem de discutir quest\u00f5es importantes ou quando fizeram algo de errado.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is, they won\u2019t talk to you unless you apologize\u2014usually for the thing you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Assim, n\u00e3o s\u00f3 nos ignoram sem raz\u00e3o, como temos de pedir desculpa e, normalmente, implorar pela sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o, para que ele possa ter piedade e voltar a falar connosco.<\/p>\n

Em seguida, assume o papel de perdoador omnipotente.<\/p>\n

Torna-se t\u00e3o bom e perdoa, e faz quest\u00e3o de que nos lembremos daquela vez em que fizemos asneira e ele nos perdoou, porque \u00e9 uma alma boa assim.<\/p>\n

O tratamento de sil\u00eancio \u00e9 suposto fazer com que nos sintamos mal amados e abandonados.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, parece estranho que tal comportamento possa provocar essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es dentro de n\u00f3s, mas quando o sil\u00eancio se torna uma coisa regular, tem um enorme impacto em n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

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Trying to reason or have a normal conversation with a narcissist is impossible. You can try. You can fight for your right to speak, but you\u2019ll get nowhere. If he wants to, he will make you feel like you\u2019re talking to a wall\u2014an emotionless, cold, and distant wall. Your words simply won\u2019t get through, no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":77644,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/7-Most-Common-Conversation-Control-Tactics-All-Narcissists-Use.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77644"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}