{"id":31735,"date":"2020-03-28T15:00:46","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T15:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31735"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:14:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:14:42","slug":"6-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-esta-a-forcar-a-sua-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-esta-a-forcar-a-sua-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"6 sinais de alerta de que est\u00e1 a for\u00e7ar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 \u00fanica, mas existem alguns padr\u00f5es de comportamento que s\u00e3o suscept\u00edveis de ocorrer em quase todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

There will always be one person who cares more and the other who cares less (or there\u2019s also a third version where you simply don\u2019t give a fuck which is \u2018surprisingly\u2019 linked to men in the majority of cases).<\/p>\n

And this state of \u2018not caring enough\u2019 is what makes you force your relationship without you even being aware of it.<\/p>\n

So, here are 6 signs you should pay attention to if you want to know whether your relationship is warning you that it needs fixing before it\u2019s too late or that it\u2019s time to leave.<\/p>\n

1. O romance extinguiu-se<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/h2>\n

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You don\u2019t hold hands anymore, you don\u2019t hug or kiss as frequently as you used to do before.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que o romance se extinguiu h\u00e1 muito tempo, mas continuas a negar admiti-lo a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

When someone asks you about your partner the only thing you can say is that they\u2019re good.<\/p>\n

It is evident from the way you speak and your gestures that something\u2019s clearly not right (and those who know you best will recognize it, too).<\/p>\n

2. You don\u2019t give a shit about answering their calls anymore<\/h2>\n

\"pessoa<\/p>\n

Back then, you used to answer their call the second you heard the ringtone but now you could spend hours listening to your phone repeating the same melody again and again even if it is annoying as fuck because it\u2019s easier to do that than to actually talk to them.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also easier to pretend that you didn\u2019t even hear them calling you (even though you know it\u2019s a lie) just because you\u2019re sick of their voice and you know the whole conversation procedure by heart.<\/p>\n

3. Passar tempo com eles tornou-se cansativo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Costumava gostar de praticar v\u00e1rios desportos com eles, de jogar jogos de v\u00eddeo em modo multijogador, de cozinhar juntos e de se abra\u00e7ar, mas agora sente mais prazer em pagar as contas do que em passar tempo com eles.<\/p>\n

The idea of being next to each other simply doesn\u2019t appeal to you anymore and when you do spend time together, you only think about the moment when you\u2019re going to part because you don\u2019t enjoy a second of it.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re skeptical about your future<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Back then, you used to devise plans for you both ten years in advance but now you\u2019re totally skeptical about your future.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see them as someone who will stay with you or whom you\u2019ll introduce to your family.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re convinced that their weird habits (that you used to find cute) will haunt you for the rest of your life if you stay with them and you\u2019re scared of this more than you\u2019re scared of death.<\/p>\n

Sente-se que o fim est\u00e1 a chegar e que \u00e9 apenas uma quest\u00e3o de tempo.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re appalled by their flaws<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Acabou-se o rir \u00e0 gargalhada quando eles fazem algo de invulgar que lhes \u00e9 carater\u00edstico.<\/p>\n

On the contrary, you\u2019re appalled by some things they keep doing but you don\u2019t know how to tell them because you don\u2019t want to offend them.<\/p>\n

So, when you see them making a fool out of themselves, you just fake your smile, pretending that they\u2019ve succeeded in fulfilling their duty to make you laugh, after which you hope that your brain will delete what you just saw as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

6. You can\u2019t repeat those three words because it feels wrong<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Saying those three words comes to your mind so rarely (like hitting the gym) and you don\u2019t even bother with it anymore.<\/p>\n

You never say it first now and even when they say it, there\u2019s a two-minute pause where you\u2019re trying hard to find a solution to salvar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> do desconforto que sente no seu est\u00f4mago.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t come up with anything smart, you pretend that all of a sudden you have a bad headache or your stomach hurts just to redirect their attention to something else (praying to God that they\u2019ll forget about you not repeating those three words).<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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  Every relationship is unique but there are some patterns of behavior that are likely to occur in almost every relationship. There will always be one person who cares more and the other who cares less (or there\u2019s also a third version where you simply don\u2019t give a fuck which is \u2018surprisingly\u2019 linked to men…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":76540,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Warning-Signs-You-Are-Forcing-Your-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31735"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31735\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76540"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}