{"id":31747,"date":"2020-09-24T08:05:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T08:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31747"},"modified":"2022-11-29T14:42:39","modified_gmt":"2022-11-29T14:42:39","slug":"sentir-se-inseguro-em-relacao-ao-casamento-7-pros-e-contras-para-o-resolver","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sentir-se-inseguro-em-relacao-ao-casamento-7-pros-e-contras-para-o-resolver\/","title":{"rendered":"Sente-se inseguro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao casamento? 7 pr\u00f3s e contras para descobrir"},"content":{"rendered":"

These days, marriage has become a real debate in which everyone has their own opinions on who is a \u201creal candidate\u201d for it and who should not get married due to some assumptions or prejudice. But, not in my case.<\/p>\n

For some unknown reasons, I\u2019ve always felt unsure about marriage and never was one hundred percent for or against it.<\/p>\n

Costum\u00e1vamos falar muito sobre o assunto e, por vezes, est\u00e1vamos de acordo, mas outras vezes as nossas opini\u00f5es colidiam e um de n\u00f3s era totalmente contra.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve figured it out that the only way to find the right answer is to create a list of pros and cons that will help us decide.<\/p>\n

And, believe me, it did help us. And if you\u2019re having the same dilemmas as we did, I warmly recommend to read the following list of pros and cons of marriage to figure things out.<\/p>\n

7 PR\u00d3S E 7 CONTRAS DO CASAMENTO<\/b><\/p>\n

OS CONS<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re influenced by others\u2019 expectations and rules<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Getting married is not just saying: \u201cYes, I do\u201d to the o amor da sua vida<\/a> e depois viver felizes para sempre.<\/p>\n

There are also some annoying legalities you need to deal with once you\u2019re in marriage waters. You are no longer left to your own decisions.<\/p>\n

Os seus planos e as suas poupan\u00e7as influenciam diretamente os planos e as poupan\u00e7as do seu parceiro, pelo que ser\u00e1 sempre necess\u00e1rio ter em conta vastos factores e assinar numerosos documentos para apaziguar os aspectos legais.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t have to think about things like this which are in most of the cases draining as hell.<\/p>\n

O casamento parece ultrapassado<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

O casamento perdeu os seus encantos em geral. Antes era algo que todos os casais faziam sem pensar duas vezes por causa das press\u00f5es da sociedade, da seguran\u00e7a financeira ou das semelhan\u00e7as. E hoje temos uma imagem diferente do casamento.<\/p>\n

Somos livres de viver com o nosso namorado ou namorada sem sermos julgados por isso ou pressionados pelos outros a casar, o que \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico.<\/p>\n

So, why would we rush things if we don\u2019t have to yet? The decision to live together as a couple sounds pretty inviting. As a matter of fact, it\u2019s the same thing as being married, only that you haven\u2019t signed anything.<\/p>\n

Os casamentos s\u00e3o um verdadeiro encargo financeiro<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

A prepara\u00e7\u00e3o de um casamento pode ser uma verdadeira prova\u00e7\u00e3o financeira. Aqueles que j\u00e1 passaram por isso podem confirm\u00e1-lo com toda a certeza. Para al\u00e9m do seu trabalho e de outras coisas que faz atualmente na vida, ter\u00e1 de reservar um espa\u00e7o no seu or\u00e7amento para a prepara\u00e7\u00e3o de um casamento.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve always had pictures in your head of your perfect wedding day, you will have to do everything in your power to make it come true.<\/p>\n

If your current finances can\u2019t support your wishes, you will not be content and your wedding would turn into a disappointment.<\/p>\n

A taxa de div\u00f3rcio aumentou significativamente<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

And it is still increasing. There\u2019s this epidemic of divorced couples, single moms and single dads and I\u2019m sure you already know a few of them in your circle of friends and family.<\/p>\n

While it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you\u2019ll end up being divorced, there is still some percentage proving that you might.<\/p>\n

If your guts are telling you that you\u2019re not ready yet or if your partner might not be the best marriage material, it is better to wait until you have better insight and perspective on how thinally are.<\/p>\n

A fobia de compromisso \u00e9 uma verdadeira luta<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Choosing one person for the rest of your life sounds a little bit scary, right? It is like going to a chocolate factory where you\u2019re \u201cforced\u201d to choose only one type of chocolate that you\u2019ll be eating till the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

Are you capable of doing that? Are you capable of discarding all of the other flavors to devote all of yourself to the one you\u2019ve chosen? If not, you know what you ought to do because commitment phobia is not something you should dar por garantido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

O casamento pode mudar a forma como as coisas s\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Sometimes marriage can influence your happiness and change the good you\u2019ve had before while you were unmarried.<\/p>\n

For example, married people have this tendency to relax a little bit too much than they should because now they\u2019re married, and it\u2019s the end of the story.<\/p>\n

So, sometimes they forget to fight for their partners and work on themselves because they think that they should be accepted as they are because they\u2019ve signed the sacred \u201ccontract\u201d of loving each other at their good and bad (which comes as a perfect excuse).<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: A lista definitiva de pr\u00f3s e contras de um relacionamento que funciona<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

As perguntas sobre ter filhos s\u00e3o intermin\u00e1veis<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s say that you\u2019ve decided to get married, but you still don\u2019t want children or you haven\u2019t even thought about having them. Now, how will you explain this to all of these people who will constantly keep bombarding you with questions regarding your future offspring?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you already have a few of them in mind who might fit the role of being \u201ca pain in the ass\u201d and who keep living other people\u2019s lives and worrying about what they certainly shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

OS PR\u00d3S<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Sente-se<\/p>\n

1. As outras pessoas compreender\u00e3o melhor o seu estado de relacionamento<\/h3>\n

Your relationship status will no longer be the biggest enigma the world has seen or to be exact your grandma and grandpa who still can\u2019t deal with how things function today.<\/p>\n

You will no longer have to think of what to say before introducing yourself and your partner to others because now you will know exactly what to say proudly and out loud: \u201cI\u2019m her\/his husband\/wife\u201d.<\/p>\n

2. Recebe um seguro e subs\u00eddios fiscais<\/h3>\n

Pode n\u00e3o ser a coisa mais apropriada para pensar nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, mas ser casado tamb\u00e9m tem os seus benef\u00edcios financeiros.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019ve always thought about making some changes in life but couldn\u2019t afford it, when you get married these will be much easier for you to accomplish when your budget is improved.<\/p>\n

3. Com os vossos novos r\u00f3tulos de marido e mulher, adquirem novos pap\u00e9is na vida<\/h3>\n

During our lives, we go through different roles from being a daughter\/son, sister\/brother, granddaughter\/grandson and now you\u2019re about to become someone\u2019s wife or husband!<\/p>\n

Hooray!! Doesn\u2019t it sound exciting to proudly share your new labels with the rest of the world?<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t it sound exciting to share your love with the rest of the world? It surely does because it is one of the most beautiful roles one could have during his lifetime, so think about it.<\/p>\n

4. Se tiveres a oportunidade de escolher casar com o amor da tua vida, aproveita-a<\/h3>\n

Antigamente, as pessoas eram massivamente for\u00e7adas a entrar num casamento arranjado e a seguir as regras tradicionais da sua fam\u00edlia ou cren\u00e7as (e isso ainda hoje acontece, mas em menor n\u00famero). Hoje, somos quase sempre livres de escolher casar com os amores das nossas vidas, por isso, porque n\u00e3o aproveitar a oportunidade para o fazer?<\/p>\n

Por que n\u00e3o deixar florescer o amor que continuamos a ter no nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o por outro ser humano?<\/p>\n

Muitos daqueles que foram\/s\u00e3o for\u00e7ados a casar com algu\u00e9m por outras raz\u00f5es que n\u00e3o o amor teriam matado se tivessem a oportunidade de o fazer de outra forma. Por isso, sejam sensatos e estejam gratos.<\/p>\n

5. Planear um casamento \u00e9 criativo e muito divertido<\/h3>\n

Planear um casamento \u00e9 a desculpa perfeita para ser loucamente criativo e tentar fazer o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Desde bal\u00f5es, confettis a diferentes flores bonitas em milhares de cores e muito mais, pode escolher o aspeto do seu dia perfeito.<\/p>\n

You have the opportunity to make it a real fairy tale (if that\u2019s what you always wanted) and you have the opportunity to have lots of fun while doing it.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re a creative maniac, now is the perfect time to shine.<\/p>\n

6. D\u00e1-lhe a oportunidade de elogiar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

I believe that every relationship deserves to be crowned at some point because five years or more spent together definitely deserve a special celebration. All of these hardships you\u2019ve survived together, all of these happy moments, kisses, tears deserve to be praised by a celebration called marriage.<\/p>\n

It is a perfect opportunity to say to the world and to yourselves that you\u2019ve gone through a lot, you\u2019re still together, you still amam-se uns aos outros<\/a> no matter what. It\u2019s just beautiful.<\/p>\n

7. Se no fundo do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o queres mesmo isso, porque n\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n

If you can\u2019t think of any specific reason why not and you\u2019re still having second thoughts about it, then ask yourself why not? If deep down in your heart you know you really want to do it, but you somehow keep making excuses not to do it, then just do it.<\/p>\n

After all, you only live once, and if you\u2019re sure that you\u2019ve found the love of your life, someone who will be there for you in your bad and at your good, someone who will share joy and tears with you, then do not wait.<\/p>\n

Enjoy the moment of saying: \u201cYes, I do\u201d and becoming someone\u2019s friend, lover, and life companion just as I did myself (and I didn\u2019t regret it).<\/p>\n

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