{"id":3175,"date":"2020-09-03T08:26:13","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T08:26:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3175"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:26","slug":"a-verdade-dura-nao-pode-magoar-mais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-dura-nao-pode-magoar-mais\/","title":{"rendered":"A dura verdade \u00e9 que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me podes magoar mais"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mesmo que sejam 3 da manh\u00e3, est\u00e1s sentado no teu quarto, a pensar em mim. Simplesmente n\u00e3o consegues aceitar o facto de que eu j\u00e1 n\u00e3o quero saber de ti.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t sleep because you lost everything that was worthwhile in your life. It\u2019s too late to think about it now. I will never come back to you.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t cry over spilled milk. Things weren\u2019t always like this. You know, I loved you once. You were the world to me.<\/p>\n<p>You were everything I had ever wanted but unfortunately, you didn\u2019t know to cherish that. I still remember how you enjoyed my pain.<\/p>\n<p>Achavas que eu merecia aquela dor porque sabia aproveitar a vida.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason you loved to see tears in my eyes. Maybe it made you feel like you have everything under control. \u201cYou know, I make her cry, and she will crawl back to me!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And that worked for so many times. Every time you called me \u201cslut\u201d, \u201cstupid\u201d or \u201cnegative\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118401 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette.jpg\" alt=\"o homem grita com a morena triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/the-man-yells-at-the-sad-brunette-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sempre que me magoavas, eu dava a outra face. Para mais bofetadas que viessem. Por esse sentimento de ignor\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t care when I cried and looked at the wall the whole day. You thought that is normal, like you were not interested in me.<\/p>\n<p>Odeio-te por todos os momentos que me fizeste passar.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care if you had a rough past so you destroy other people\u2019s lives to feel better.<\/p>\n<p>The fact is that you destroy lives, and you can\u2019t change. It is not my life mission to save you from your past. It is something you need to do alone.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 te culpo por me teres enganado este tempo todo. Pensei que me amavas mas a \u00fanica coisa que sentias era indiferen\u00e7a. Totalmente o oposto do amor.<\/p>\n<p>Do you really think you can make a true love story with this kind of behavior? Do you think there is someone crazy enough to put up with that bullshit? I don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118402 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga asi\u00e1tica triste senta-se na cama e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-sad-Asian-girl-sits-in-bed-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I just know I want to be far away from you. I don\u2019t even want to see you in the street. Because if I see you, I will immediately cross it.<\/p>\n<p>You know that saying: \u201cFool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!\u201d And that\u2019s how things work now. I know you manipulated me, punished me, abused me, and tortured me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/carta-homem-vitima-de-abuso-emocional\/\">Uma carta para o homem que abusou de mim emocionalmente<\/a><\/p>\n<p>But you didn\u2019t know that I am strong enough to carry that burden. I finally survived, and now I can live my life to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike you, I am capable of change and that\u2019s an opportunity I cannot pass up.<\/p>\n<p>The reason why you can\u2019t hurt me anymore is that I am not the same person. I am not that quiet and kind girl anymore. I don\u2019t want to be like that anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I tried, God knows I did. But it didn\u2019t work. People took advantage of me, including you.<\/p>\n<p>Now I am totally different woman\u2014strong, independent and the one who knows what she wants from her life. So, don\u2019t try to win me over.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118403 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma bela morena sorridente no escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/portrait-of-a-beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-the-office-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your sweet words don\u2019t have any effect on my heart anymore. I am done trying to make you love me. I deserve more than an \u2018almost\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n<p>E tu? Mereces merda! Mereces algu\u00e9m com todas as tuas caracter\u00edsticas para te fazer sentir mal e impotente.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez ent\u00e3o compreendas todas as minhas l\u00e1grimas. E tu chorar\u00e1s. Vais implorar-me para voltar para ti. Mas eu vou espezinhar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o como tu me fizeste a mim.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma li\u00e7\u00e3o que tens de aprender para nunca pensares em fazer essa merda a outra rapariga.<\/p>\n<p>No final, lembre-se que deve ter cuidado ao lidar com uma mulher louca. Nunca se sabe o que ela est\u00e1 a pensar enquanto olha para si com aquele olhar de cachorrinho.<\/p>\n<p>Ela pode arrancar-nos o cora\u00e7\u00e3o num piscar de olhos. Eu sei disso, porque eu fiz isso contigo.<\/p>\n<p>E nunca me arrependerei disso.<\/p>\n<p>NUNCA!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118404 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A dura verdade \u00e9 que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me podes magoar mais\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even if it is 3 A.M., you are sitting in your room, thinking of me. You simply can\u2019t accept the fact that I don\u2019t give a damn about you anymore. You can\u2019t sleep because you lost everything that was worthwhile in your life. It\u2019s too late to think about it now. I will never come&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":118400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/The-Harsh-Truth-Is-You-Cant-Hurt-Me-Anymore-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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