{"id":31866,"date":"2020-05-28T08:43:13","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T08:43:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31866"},"modified":"2022-09-06T11:10:41","modified_gmt":"2022-09-06T11:10:41","slug":"6-traicoes-que-arruinam-as-relacoes-para-alem-da-infidelidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-traicoes-que-arruinam-as-relacoes-para-alem-da-infidelidade\/","title":{"rendered":"6 trai\u00e7\u00f5es que arru\u00ednam relacionamentos (al\u00e9m de ser infiel)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Embora ser infiel atrav\u00e9s da trai\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica seja um dos factores mais \u00f3bvios de quebra de rela\u00e7\u00f5es e de confian\u00e7a, nem sempre tem de ser esse o caso.<\/p>\n<p>There are things that don\u2019t include getting into bed with somebody else which can just as easily gamble away someone\u2019s trust and ultimately ruin a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Verifica-os:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trapa\u00e7a emocional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93398\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-phone-while-woman-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel enquanto a mulher dorme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-phone-while-woman-sleeping.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-phone-while-woman-sleeping-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-looking-at-phone-while-woman-sleeping-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/traicao-emocional-vs-amizade\/\">Batota emocional<\/a> \u00e9 t\u00e3o prejudicial como a trai\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, se n\u00e3o mesmo mais.<\/p>\n<p>Quando algu\u00e9m se envolve numa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-inegaveis-de-que-ele-esta-a-trair-emocionalmente\/\">caso emocional<\/a> est\u00e3o a dar partes de si pr\u00f3prios que s\u00e3o mais \u00edntimas do que o seu corpo.<\/p>\n<p>Being hooked on somebody else while in a relationship, sharing intimate details about one&#8217;s partner, flirting, secretly texting or hanging out with somebody without your partner\u2019s knowledge and similar things are all betrayals and they inevitably ruin trust and most likely end the relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Talking about the relationship behind your partner&#8217;s back<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93399\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/two-men-sitting-on-the-stairs-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dois homens sentados nas escadas a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/two-men-sitting-on-the-stairs-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/two-men-sitting-on-the-stairs-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/two-men-sitting-on-the-stairs-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se um dos parceiros decide falar de coisas \u00edntimas e privadas que s\u00f3 dizem respeito \u00e0s duas pessoas da rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m fora dessa mesma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, isso pode ser entendido como uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>They might feel like they&#8217;ve been stabbed in the back, which will make the whole thing worse. It\u2019s always advisable to talk to one\u2019s partner first because that\u2019s the only way to solve the problem.<\/p>\n<p>If there is any need to seek advice from somebody else, it\u2019s advisable to do it later on and wisely choose who to confide in.<\/p>\n<p>Nem toda a gente tem de conhecer a sua empresa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser egoc\u00eantrico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93400\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-young-man-posing.jpg\" alt=\"jovem bonito a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-young-man-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-young-man-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/handsome-young-man-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Self-love is a good thing but like everything else in life, it\u2019s a negative thing when taken to extremes. Self-love should never be selfish.<\/p>\n<p>O amor por si pr\u00f3prio nunca deve impedir ou diminuir o amor que uma pessoa sente pela sua cara-metade.<\/p>\n<p>Neste caso particular, a trai\u00e7\u00e3o acontece quando um dos parceiros est\u00e1 concentrado apenas nas suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades e desejos.<\/p>\n<p>Quando continuam a tirar sem dar nada em troca, fazem com que a pessoa que est\u00e1 a investir se sinta sozinha e abandonada durante a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mentir sobre coisas pequenas e est\u00fapidas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93401\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a ouvir o homem ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a thin line between a white lie and a real lie. People push that line until they are not sure where the boundaries are. So it\u2019s better to tell no lies.<\/p>\n<p>Veja a quest\u00e3o do seu ponto de vista: quando descobrir que o seu parceiro lhe mentiu sobre uma pequena coisa, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a pensar nas coisas que ele n\u00e3o lhe est\u00e1 a dizer e a perguntar-se se n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 algo mais grave.<\/p>\n<p>Isto cria desconfian\u00e7a e acaba por matar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o se defenderem uns aos outros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93402\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-man-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada ao lado do homem no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-man-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-man-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-man-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Two people in a relationship should have each other\u2019s back at all times.<\/p>\n<p>They are each other\u2019s greatest supporter and they are ready to defend one another whenever is necessary.<\/p>\n<p>Se estiver numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso e amorosa, o seu parceiro deve defend\u00ea-lo e nunca permitir que ningu\u00e9m fale mal de si, mesmo que n\u00e3o esteja presente para o testemunhar, e vice-versa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Using someone&#8217;s insecurities against them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93403\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-arguing-with-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a discutir com uma jovem mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-arguing-with-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-arguing-with-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/man-arguing-with-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, these days it\u2019s pretty common to stumble on to someone who shows signs of controlling, being abusive and a whole range of toxic behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>Manifestam-se sobretudo atrav\u00e9s de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-metodos-de-manipulacao-que-os-abusadores-usam-para-criar-lacos\/\">t\u00e1cticas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Os manipuladores aproveitam-se das vulnerabilidades e inseguran\u00e7as de uma pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>They will repeatedly point out what you\u2019re doing wrong or bring up something that makes you self-conscious and then tell you what you should have done and constantly remind you that you couldn\u2019t go through any of it without them.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s just the short version because manipulation tactics are really broad and complex but the bottom line that we want to make in this article is that it is betrayal in its worst form.<\/p>\n<p>Um manipulador trai as emo\u00e7\u00f5es e o amor da pessoa com quem est\u00e1, virando esses sentimentos contra ela.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93373\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Betrayals-That-Ruin-Relationships-Other-Than-Being-Unfaithful-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 trai\u00e7\u00f5es que arru\u00ednam relacionamentos (al\u00e9m de ser infiel)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Betrayals-That-Ruin-Relationships-Other-Than-Being-Unfaithful-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Betrayals-That-Ruin-Relationships-Other-Than-Being-Unfaithful-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Although being unfaithful by physically cheating is one of the most obvious relationship-breakers and trust-breakers, that doesn\u2019t always have to be the case. There are things that don\u2019t include getting into bed with somebody else which can just as easily gamble away someone\u2019s trust and ultimately ruin a relationship. Check them out: Emotional Cheating Emotional&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/6-Betrayals-That-Ruin-Relationships-Other-Than-Being-Unfaithful.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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