{"id":31883,"date":"2019-01-28T13:11:32","date_gmt":"2019-01-28T13:11:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31883"},"modified":"2021-11-11T16:16:44","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T16:16:44","slug":"e-por-isso-que-estabelecer-padroes-elevados-e-importante-para-a-vossa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-estabelecer-padroes-elevados-e-importante-para-a-vossa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que estabelecer padr\u00f5es elevados \u00e9 importante para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Demasiadas vezes, ter padr\u00f5es elevados \u00e9 confundido com ser demasiado exigente ou imposs\u00edvel de agradar, mas ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 mesmo esse o caso?<\/span><\/p>\n

Having high standards means you\u2019re not putting up with anyone\u2019s bullshit. You know exactly what you want, and you\u2019re not here to waste anyone\u2019s time. You\u2019re not afraid of saying \u2018No\u2019, and knowing what you\u2019re after saves you so much time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que ter padr\u00f5es elevados \u00e9 sempre visto com maus olhos pelas pessoas que nos rodeiam?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes it can appear as if you\u2019re judgmental, cocky, or unreasonable. But in my opinion, knowing exactly what you want in a person can only improve your chances of finding them, and help you save time you\u2019d normally spend on people you know you\u2019re not interested in.<\/span><\/p>\n

As pessoas podem pensar o que quiserem, mas aqueles que s\u00e3o um pouco exigentes t\u00eam realmente mais sorte em encontrar <\/span>a pessoa certa<\/span><\/a>Simplesmente porque sabem o que querem e como o conseguir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Having high standards is important both in relationships and in life, and here\u2019s why<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

When you know what it is that you want, you\u2019ll have an easier time finding it<\/b><\/p>\n

Like all of us, you\u2019ve probably gone through so many crappy dates. Each time, you just knew that it wasn\u2019t going to work, but you pushed through, having that tiny glimmer of hope it might actually turn into something real.<\/span><\/p>\n

It never really does, and all it does is make you never want to go on a date again. I mean, what\u2019s the point? There is always a chance the guy will be your polar opposite, and you\u2019ll be counting seconds before it\u2019s actually over.<\/span><\/p>\n

But when you have high standards, you don\u2019t go out with just anyone. You know what you want. So what if it makes you seem a little superficial? What\u2019s inside is what matters most, sure, but before you get to know him, shouldn\u2019t you be physically attracted to him?<\/span><\/p>\n

So, never feel bad for going after a particular type. That way, you weed out all of your bad matches and improve your odds at finding just what you\u2019re looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even better if you\u2019re online namoro<\/a>. You can type exactly what you\u2019re interested in, and only those that are seemingly good matches for you will turn up.<\/span><\/p>\n

All you\u2019ll feel is happiness for going after what you want and not lowering your standards for anyone. Never apologize for that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabe o seu valor e coloca-se em primeiro lugar<\/b><\/p>\n

Before taking care of others, you make sure that you\u2019re okay. And that is more than fine. When you know you\u2019re good, it\u2019s easier to make sure everyone else is, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

You understand that it\u2019s important to always be your own priority, because if you\u2019re not, nobody guarantees you\u2019ll be anyone else\u2019s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por saber <\/span>o seu valor<\/span><\/a> and not accepting anything less than what you deserve, you let everyone know you\u2019re not here to mess around, and if they don\u2019t treat you right, you\u2019re walking out the door.<\/span><\/p>\n

That way, those who aren\u2019t worthy of you will be out of the picture, and only those capable of being with a strong, ambitious, and driven woman will stay.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know that it\u2019s okay to value yourself and ask for more<\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe the simple reason why you have such high standards is the fact that you are an amazing woman, and you know when to ask for more than what you\u2019re getting.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de vergonhoso em conhecer as nossas qualidades e pedir aquilo que sentimos que merecemos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just be careful and ask yourself every now and again if what you\u2019re saying \u2018No\u2019 to is something that is truly not worth your time and energy or if maybe you\u2019re just too used to saying it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Check yourself from time to time to make sure your head is clear and that what you\u2019re doing has its reasoning. You don\u2019t want to risk appearing big-headed, which is why it\u2019s important to reel it in if you deem it necessary.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner will appreciate your \u2018no-bullshit\u2019 demeanor<\/b><\/p>\n

Por vezes, o maior obst\u00e1culo nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 a falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e a agressividade passiva. Mas, ao ser franco e direto, diminui as hip\u00f3teses de esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o se deteriorar <\/span>a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

People tend to sulk when they don\u2019t get what they want. Sometimes, they just expect their partners to read their minds. When this mind reading doesn\u2019t happen, they resort to the silent treatment, but none of that ever leads to anything good, and it\u2019s extremely unhealthy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Luckily, you don\u2019t have those issues.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabes o que queres de <\/span>o seu homem<\/span><\/a>, and you say it without hesitation. When you have a problem with something he did or didn\u2019t do, you won\u2019t hesitate to point it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

The whole point of this is to be honest, transparent, and give your relationship the biggest chance it has to succeed. You never mean to hurt his feelings, and he knows that. Honesty is your policy, and whomever can\u2019t take it, isn\u2019t your kind of guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

O \u00fanico problema de ter padr\u00f5es elevados \u00e9 que existe uma linha t\u00e9nue entre julgar as pessoas sem qualquer raz\u00e3o real e simplesmente querer algu\u00e9m que nos fa\u00e7a explodir de felicidade.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Always be considerate of other people\u2019s feelings. Don\u2019t let your bold personality make you seem off-putting to people who don\u2019t even know you yet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep your mind open, and don\u2019t say \u2018No\u2019 those who aren\u2019t the exact thing that you have in your head. Sometimes, people can surprise you if you give them a chance.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stick with your ways, and don\u2019t change yourself for anybody, but all I\u2019m saying is, be kind while doing so. Make sure you\u2019re doing the right thing and not hurting anyone\u2019s feelings in the process.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in a relationship, be sure to show your partner how much you love and appreciate him. Sometimes, this can get lost when you\u2019re so focused on other things, so never let him doubt your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just because you won\u2019t settle for less than you deserve, doesn\u2019t mean you shouldn\u2019t be a little flexible with your man. Chances are he\u2019s a really great guy if he meets your every need, so be considerate if he ever messes up.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all human, and we\u2019re all prone to making mistakes. Being forgiving and letting him be a flawed human doesn\u2019t make you weak. It makes you that much stronger and it shows character.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sabe o que quer e luta sempre por isso, mas tamb\u00e9m sabe quando dar a outra face. \u00c9 a\u00ed que reside o teu poder.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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Too often, having high standards is confused with being overly picky or impossible to please, but is that really the case? Having high standards means you\u2019re not putting up with anyone\u2019s bullshit. You know exactly what you want, and you\u2019re not here to waste anyone\u2019s time. You\u2019re not afraid of saying \u2018No\u2019, and knowing what…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":31885,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31883","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/isaac-cabezas-549025-unsplash-4.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31883","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31883"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31883\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31883"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31883"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31883"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}