{"id":31933,"date":"2020-04-29T08:10:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T08:10:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31933"},"modified":"2021-08-11T20:07:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T20:07:17","slug":"a-corajosa-mulher-que-deixou-o-seu-parceiro-abusivo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-corajosa-mulher-que-deixou-o-seu-parceiro-abusivo\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a mulher corajosa que deixou o seu parceiro abusivo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se trata de deixar <\/i> uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva <\/i><\/a> , everybody talks about it like it\u2019s the easiest thing to do. <\/i><\/p>\n

They can all talk the talk but YOU walked the walk and I\u2019m proud of you! <\/i><\/p>\n

I want you to know that it doesn\u2019t matter that it took you so long to find the courage to leave.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you went back a few times because he lured you back in with his lies that broke you and made you crumble under his vile pressure.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one who knows how painful and humiliating it was hearing him tell you that you were ugly and unworthy.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Telling you that you couldn\u2019t leave because you wouldn\u2019t be able to survive without him.<\/p>\n

Dizer-te que ningu\u00e9m te quereria, porque temia que algu\u00e9m te tratasse melhor.<\/p>\n

Gozar contigo por pensares que podias viver sem ele <\/a>quando, na verdade, era ele que tinha medo de a perder, porque era ele que precisava de si.<\/p>\n

Being in an abusive relationship fundamentally changes you in ways that you can\u2019t even tell yourself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It takes a huge toll on you and you become a different person, without even being aware that it\u2019s happening.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

These heinous relationships and vile partners destroy you gradually from the inside out. You feel yourself slowly burning out\u2026 until one day, there is nothing left.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve burned out and you\u2019re numb.<\/p>\n

Ficamos entorpecidos pelo mundo, entorpecidos pelas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e deixamos de nos preocupar connosco e com o que nos acontece.<\/p>\n

What you\u2019re going through is so unimaginably painful that you genuinely stop caring about what will happen and how it will end. You just need it to stop.<\/p>\n

There is only so much pain one person is capable of enduring and whatever you did and however you coped with the abusive nature of your partner, it\u2019s okay.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quaisquer que sejam as escolhas dif\u00edceis que teve de fazer, das quais pode n\u00e3o se orgulhar hoje, elas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o de modo algum um reflexo de si como pessoa.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o o resultado de maus tratos cont\u00ednuos por parte de um homem cruel que n\u00e3o tinha o direito de fazer o que lhe fez.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been there, I need you to know that it\u2019s okay. You made it out. You\u2019re in one piece and right now, that\u2019s all that matters.<\/p>\n

Whatever you had to resort to in order to get yourself here, it doesn\u2019t matter. It got you out and that is something not a lot of people can say, so be proud of yourself.<\/p>\n

Leva tempo at\u00e9 aprendermos a esquecer o que ele nos fez passar e o que fez de n\u00f3s. \u00c9 preciso tempo para nos construirmos de novo a partir do zero.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to feel lost right now. It\u2019s okay to feel weak and even miss that person at times. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Even though it was the worst kind of love\u2026 the feelings still need time to go away.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to take some time before you\u2019re your own person again. Before you can look yourself in the mirror and recognize the woman you\u2019re seeing.<\/p>\n

For so long, you were leaning on the most destructive type of love, that right now you\u2019re unsure of how to live without it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel like there is something wrong with you for feeling this way. There is no right way to cope with abuse.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let yourself go at the pace you\u2019re comfortable with.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel bad for thinking he would change. I know that is probably why you stayed that long but know that it\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n

You believe in people, even when they don\u2019t deserve it, and that is not something to be ashamed of.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s muito forte. Em primeiro lugar, por teres suportado o que fizeste e sobrevivido aos abusos, e s\u00f3 tu sabes exatamente qu\u00e3o brutal foi, e em segundo lugar, por afastar-se <\/a>.<\/p>\n

A for\u00e7a que precisou para finalmente partir mostra o quanto \u00e9 resistente e resiliente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ficou o tempo que ficou porque acreditava em algo.<\/p>\n

Querias acreditar que as coisas iam melhorar. Querias acreditar que ele ia ter a ajuda que precisava.<\/p>\n

You desperately wanted to believe that he wouldn\u2019t resort to abuse ever again\u2026 but when you realized your hopes were in vain, you did the hardest thing\u2013you left.<\/p>\n

And wherever you are right now on your road to recovery, I want you to know I\u2019m proud of you. You did the right thing. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fizeste a coisa mais corajosa. E por isso, merece todos os elogios e garantias do mundo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There are going to be days that will be so dark, you won\u2019t find a reason to get up. There are going to be days where you will be questioning yourself and doubting your choices.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 obst\u00e1culos no seu caminho para a cura e, durante esses momentos, lembre-se do que fez.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de como foi corajosa e forte e orgulhe-se de si mesma!<\/p>\n

The pain you\u2019re feeling right now is proof that you are on your way to getting your life back together. <\/i><\/p>\n

E a cada passo em frente, est\u00e1 a livrar-se da m\u00e1goa que ele lhe deixou e a recuperar o controlo da sua vida. <\/i><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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