{"id":31937,"date":"2019-01-29T08:19:53","date_gmt":"2019-01-29T08:19:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31937"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:49","slug":"se-ele-e-o-tipo-de-homem-que-so-se-preocupa-quando-nao-te-vais-embora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-e-o-tipo-de-homem-que-so-se-preocupa-quando-nao-te-vais-embora\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele \u00e9 do tipo de homem que s\u00f3 se importa quando voc\u00ea n\u00e3o se importa, v\u00e1 embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando deixas de te preocupar, ele de repente come\u00e7a a preocupar-se mais. Quando te afastas um pouco, ele tenta puxar-te de novo. Quando ignoras as mensagens dele, ele manda-te tr\u00eas mensagens.<\/em><\/p>\n

E quando finalmente cede e lhe d\u00e1 a aten\u00e7\u00e3o que ele tanto deseja, de repente ele afasta-se e torna-se distante e desinteressado.<\/em><\/p>\n

Parece-lhe familiar?<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um tipo que muitos de n\u00f3s j\u00e1 tivemos o desprazer de conhecer em algum momento da nossa vida. Um tipo que trata o amor como se fosse um jogo de quem se importa mais e quem consegue ser o maior idiota.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 evidente que ele ganha, porque voc\u00eas caem sempre nessa. (N\u00e3o \u00e9 culpa tua, ali\u00e1s).<\/p>\n

De cada vez que ele te d\u00e1 uma r\u00e9stia de esperan\u00e7a de te tratar melhor e de n\u00e3o se preocupar apenas com o medo de te perder, acabas por ficar desiludida.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que lhe d\u00e1s o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida e decides ir contra o teu bom senso, ele mostra-te o qu\u00e3o imaturo e ego\u00edsta \u00e9.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all just a game to him. He desperately seeks attention that he is unable to reciprocate and all just to feel better about himself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Usually, he\u2019ll pop up in your life at the worst moment imaginable.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think you\u2019re finally over him and that he\u2019s out of your head and he\u2019ll start texting you out of the blue.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re finally in a good place and you\u2019re doing so well, he\u2019ll re-appear to remind you of the lingering feelings you still have for him.<\/p>\n

Ele tem um superpoder que aparece do nada quando menos precisamos dele e perturba a nossa vida, a nossa mente e a paz interior que est\u00e1vamos a come\u00e7ar a recuperar.<\/p>\n

He knows you have a soft spot for him and that no matter how hard you try\u2026 you won\u2019t be able to resist him.<\/p>\n

Quando ele faz algo realmente mau, compensa-o com um gesto grandioso que \u00e9 suposto fazer-nos esquecer o que aconteceu.<\/p>\n

Quando ele sentir que est\u00e1 finalmente a <\/i><\/b>pronto para seguir em frente<\/i><\/b><\/a> with your life (without him in it) he\u2019ll suddenly start telling you everything you\u2019ve been wanting to hear for so long.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you tell him how much he hurt you, he\u2019ll shift the blame onto you, making you appear somehow responsible for his actions.<\/p>\n

Este homem dar-te-\u00e1 sempre migalhas e pedir\u00e1 o mundo em troca. Ele nunca ser\u00e1 o que tu precisas e muito menos o que tu mereces.<\/p>\n

You are worth so much more than bits and pieces of his affection at times when it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 sempre ao teu alcance, mas nunca conseguir\u00e1 apanhar-te totalmente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

With him, you\u2019ll always have half of everything. Just enough to feel like you\u2019re going somewhere\u2026 but nowhere near enough to actually feel fulfilled and content.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re dealing with this guy, it\u2019s important to show him that when you say you\u2019re leaving, you mean it. He won\u2019t believe you and he\u2019ll test you, be sure of that. Don\u2019t fall for it.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never going to be enough. He is not what you need.<\/p>\n

When he suddenly tells you all the things that you want to hear, make sure there are actions to substantiate these claims. Don\u2019t let him fool you with his charming, boyish smile and those puppy dog eyes.<\/p>\n

Conhece-o melhor do que isso.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow an insecure boy to dictate your life. You know better than to give in to this child\u2019s play.<\/p>\n

Um homem de verdade<\/i><\/b><\/a> respeita-te a ti e ao teu tempo. Diz-lhe que a ama e prova-o. Ele diz o que voc\u00ea quer ouvir e apoia-o com as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Aprecia-a pelo que \u00e9 e nunca tenta mud\u00e1-la.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That is what a real man does. Anything else, don\u2019t bother wasting your time on.<\/p>\n

Se tem de se interrogar sobre o estado da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o; h\u00e1 apenas um homem que escolhe os dias em que lhe apetece aproveitar-se do seu amor bondoso.<\/p>\n

Learn to see through this and don\u2019t indulge him ever again. It will crush his ego and feed your soul.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you stop caring, he suddenly starts to care more. When you pull back a little, he tries to pull you back in. When you ignore his texts, he triple texts you. And when you finally give in and give him the attention he craves so badly, he suddenly pulls all the way back and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":31938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/jonathan-borba-1323102-unsplash.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31937"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31937\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}