{"id":31969,"date":"2019-08-29T14:33:37","date_gmt":"2019-08-29T14:33:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31969"},"modified":"2022-06-16T13:27:57","modified_gmt":"2022-06-16T13:27:57","slug":"o-facto-de-ela-precisar-de-ser-amada-nao-a-torna-carente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-facto-de-ela-precisar-de-ser-amada-nao-a-torna-carente\/","title":{"rendered":"O facto de ela precisar de ser amada n\u00e3o a torna necessitada"},"content":{"rendered":"

O namoro moderno ensinou-lhe que qualquer sinal de sentimentos \u00e9 igual a uma falta de for\u00e7a emocional. Ensinou-o a agir de forma indiferente, mesmo quando isso est\u00e1 longe de ser verdade, porque essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de ganhar o jogo da rela\u00e7\u00e3o e a \u00fanica forma de n\u00e3o ficar com o seu <\/span>cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ensinou-lhe que os que mostram que se preocupam s\u00e3o os perdedores e que os que amam mais acabam sempre magoados. <\/span><\/p>\n

It has taught you there is nothing wrong with being in loveless relationships and that craving a deep connection is a sign of weakness, a sign that you need someone to complete you and that you can\u2019t make it on your own.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa<\/span>\u2014<\/span>isto \u00e9 uma mentira. <\/span>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em querer amor na sua vida e nada de errado em mostrar esse amor quando o sente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de lhe chamar fraco, \u00e9 de facto um sinal de grande for\u00e7a. \u00c9 um sinal de que uma pessoa tem a capacidade de enfrentar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es mais profundas, em vez de as reprimir ou tentar fugir delas.<\/span><\/p>\n

E \u00e9 exatamente isso que esta rapariga \u00e9<\/span>\u2014<\/span>strong. No, it doesn\u2019t mean that she is scared of being on her own<\/span>\u2014<\/span>she simply isn\u2019t ready to give up her single life for some random dude who won\u2019t give her the love she longs for.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean she is clingy just because she wants commitment and devotion. She isn\u2019t a fool for believing in love after everything she\u2019s been through and she isn\u2019t a hopeless romantic for wishing for a happy ending. <\/b><\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t desperate for wanting intimacy on a deeper level than just sexual and it doesn\u2019t mean she will chase you to be with her just because she refuses to settle for someone who only invests halfway<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

You see, this girl just needs to be loved and she isn\u2019t ashamed to admit it. She wants to get the same amount of love and devotion she\u2019s been giving to everyone and the same amount of effort she\u2019s been putting in. <\/b><\/p>\n

No entanto, nada disto a torna necessitada.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that she doesn\u2019t want a man who is incapable of loving, a man who isn\u2019t ready to go all the way in and a man who will love her with only half of his heart. She doesn\u2019t need a man who will waste her time, a man who is looking for something temporary or a man who wants to play games.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um homem que a far\u00e1 acreditar que as migalhas do seu afeto e aten\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o mais do que suficientes. Um homem que a fa\u00e7a sentir vergonha por se sentir emocionalmente negligenciada, mal amada e indesejada.<\/span><\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want a man who won\u2019t give a damn about the connection between the two of them or a man who will act guarded or emotionally unavailable. A man who won\u2019t love her back the way she needs and deserves to be loved.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, ela precisa de algu\u00e9m que esteja pronto para se entregar completamente a esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sem reter nenhuma parte de si pr\u00f3prio. <\/span>Um tipo que seguir\u00e1 o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, sem calcular qual ser\u00e1 o seu pr\u00f3ximo passo e sem fingir ser esse grande homem que \u00e9 demasiado duro para mostrar quaisquer sinais de sentimentos. <\/b><\/p>\n

She needs a man who won\u2019t be scared of being emotionally naked in front of her, a man who will mostrar-lhe o seu lado vulner\u00e1vel<\/a> and a man who\u2019ll never act heartless.<\/b><\/p>\n

Um homem que seja sempre claro sobre os seus sentimentos, sem enviar sinais contradit\u00f3rios. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will text her good morning and send a goodnight text every single day, a man who won\u2019t forget their anniversary or her birthday, a man who isn\u2019t scared of being romantic, a man who won\u2019t be ashamed to hold her hand in public, no matter how old they are\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela precisa de um <\/span>homem de verdade<\/span><\/a> who knows how to love and isn\u2019t afraid of showing it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you can\u2019t be this man, please walk away in time because she won\u2019t waste years of her life trying to change you. This girls knows exactly what she wants and deserves and she is more than willing to remain single until she gets it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, podem chamar-lhe antiquada, carente ou mesmo desesperada por amor<\/b>\u2014<\/b>esse \u00e9 o teu direito. No entanto, lembre-se que n\u00e3o ter uma rapariga como ela tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 uma perda para si.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Modern dating has taught you that any signs of feelings is equal to a lack of emotional strength. It has taught you to act indifferent, even when that is far from the truth because that is the only way to win the relationship game and the only way not to get your heart broken. It…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":31975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31969","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/tnk-photo-636082-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31969","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31969"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31969\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}