{"id":31982,"date":"2019-01-30T08:16:58","date_gmt":"2019-01-30T08:16:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=31982"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:42:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:42:41","slug":"4-sinais-de-que-esta-sempre-a-fazer-o-papel-de-salvador-nas-suas-relacoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-sinais-de-que-esta-sempre-a-fazer-o-papel-de-salvador-nas-suas-relacoes\/","title":{"rendered":"4 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 sempre bancando o salvador em seus relacionamentos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguma vez esteve numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que sentisse frequentemente a necessidade de corrigir o seu parceiro?<\/em><\/p>\n

Do you often find yourself falling for a person in need of rescue, offering to be their \u2018\u2019knight in shining armor\u2019\u2019 and help change their bad ways?<\/em><\/p>\n

If so\u2026 did you ever stop and wonder what it does to you, and how much it drains you unnecessarily?<\/p>\n

There is absolutely nothing wrong in feeling compassion towards a person you\u2019ve come to care about and wanting to help and rescue them but never to the extent of harming yourself in any way.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re always focused on helping others and putting that burden on yourself, you risk putting your welfare in danger and neglect making sure that YOU are okay.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to estar presente<\/span><\/a> for your partner when he needs you, but it\u2019s a whole other story when you\u2019re in the business of saving their ass on a daily basis and taking that responsibility upon yourself day after day.<\/p>\n

Pare por um segundo e pergunte a si mesmo porque \u00e9 que continua a encontrar pessoas a precisar de ajuda e como \u00e9 que isso o impede de levar uma vida mais despreocupada.<\/p>\n

If you exhibit these 4 signs that prove you are the constant rescuer in your relationships, it\u2019s time to reevaluate your vida amorosa<\/span><\/a> e fazer os ajustes necess\u00e1rios para o seu pr\u00f3prio bem.<\/p>\n

1. Your self-worth is contingent upon your ability to \u2018\u2019fix\u2019\u2019 your partner<\/h2>\n

Orgulha-se da sua capacidade de corrigir e ajudar o seu parceiro, o que \u00e9 uma componente fundamental da sua personalidade relacional.<\/p>\n

Em vez de encontrar um parceiro que seja emocionalmente est\u00e1vel<\/a> e realizado, procuras aqueles que precisam de ajuda para satisfazer a tua necessidade de ser o seu salvador.<\/p>\n

Sente-se atra\u00eddo por pessoas com grandes cargas emocionais, o que torna dif\u00edcil concentrar-se no seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar e cura.<\/p>\n

2. Tem problemas de abandono n\u00e3o resolvidos que est\u00e1 agora a projetar no seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

Vens de um lar onde tiveste de assumir demasiadas responsabilidades numa idade demasiado jovem.<\/p>\n

You took on a parental role because one (or both) of your parents struggled with addiction or a similar issue, so now you\u2019ve projected their needs onto your partner. Since no one came to rescue your parents, you now feel it\u2019s your obligation to rescue others.<\/p>\n

This signifies a slightly unhealthy obsession with other people\u2019s problems that gives you a sense of fulfillment, and it could end up harming you in the long run.<\/p>\n

3. Idealiza aqueles que parecem necessitados e com problemas<\/h2>\n

Ao faz\u00ea-lo, est\u00e1 a infantiliz\u00e1-los, fazendo-os parecer delicados e incapazes de cuidar de si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Ao faz\u00ea-lo, encoraja os seus parceiros a confiarem constantemente em si para os mais pequenos problemas, tornando-o o respons\u00e1vel pela sua felicidade.<\/p>\n

Carrega-se com um comportamento destrutivo que inevitavelmente lhe drena a energia e a mente s\u00e3, at\u00e9 perceber que cada indiv\u00edduo \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pela sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade. Coloc\u00e1-la inteiramente nas suas m\u00e3os n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel, \u00e9 injusto e, francamente, \u00e9 demasiado dif\u00edcil de gerir.<\/p>\n

4. You end up controlling your partner\u2019s life under the pretenses of helping them<\/h2>\n

Est\u00e1 demasiado concentrado no que o seu parceiro deve ou n\u00e3o deve fazer e acaba por microgerir o seu modo de vida.<\/p>\n

What this shows is the lack of control you have of your own life which you compensate for by trying to \u2018help\u2019 your partner, even when they don\u2019t ask for help.<\/p>\n

Ilude-se a si pr\u00f3prio acreditando que est\u00e1 a salv\u00e1-los e a melhorar a sua qualidade de vida, o que lhe permite escapar \u00e0s suas pr\u00f3prias dificuldades e problemas com os quais n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparado para lidar.<\/p>\n

If you feel like any of these signs relate to you, it\u2019s important that you evaluate your relationship, yourself as an individual, and any issues that may stem from earlier stages of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

Perceba que est\u00e1 a projetar as suas pr\u00f3prias inseguran\u00e7as\/quest\u00f5es\/feridas n\u00e3o resolvidas no seu parceiro e que, ao faz\u00ea-lo, est\u00e1 apenas a prolongar os seus pr\u00f3prios problemas internos que precisam de ser trazidos \u00e0 superf\u00edcie e tratados.<\/p>\n

Stop trying to save people, regardless of them asking it from you or not. It is not your job to be anybody\u2019s rescuer. That is on them.<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re so busy trying to save everybody else, you easily forget the one person who needs to be saved the most \u2013 YOU.<\/p>\n

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Have you ever been in a relationship where you often felt you needed to fix your partner? Do you often find yourself falling for a person in need of rescue, offering to be their \u2018\u2019knight in shining armor\u2019\u2019 and help change their bad ways? If so\u2026 did you ever stop and wonder what it does…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":31983,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/priscilla.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31982"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31982\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31983"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}