{"id":32004,"date":"2020-06-30T10:55:19","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T10:55:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=32004"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:19:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:19:10","slug":"devias-te-la-amado-enquanto-ela-ainda-se-importava","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/devias-te-la-amado-enquanto-ela-ainda-se-importava\/","title":{"rendered":"Devias t\u00ea-la amado enquanto ela ainda se importava"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso perder uma pessoa <\/b>para ver o seu verdadeiro valor<\/b><\/a>. \u00c9 preciso sentir a sua aus\u00eancia para come\u00e7ar a ver o verdadeiro valor da sua presen\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso que algumas pessoas nos abandonem para compreendermos que mereciam que as am\u00e1ssemos muito mais e que as trat\u00e1ssemos de forma diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Para que eles se afastem de ti, s\u00f3 para que vejas que deix\u00e1-los ir foi o pior erro da tua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi exatamente isso que aconteceu entre si e esta rapariga. Com a rapariga que o amava mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria e que estava disposta a fazer tudo o que fosse preciso s\u00f3 para o ver feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com a rapariga que sempre esteve l\u00e1 para ti como a tua maior aliada e companheira de equipa. Que era a \u00fanica pessoa a quem podias ligar e com quem podias contar, acontecesse o que acontecesse.<\/span><\/p>\n

A rapariga que te amou no teu melhor e no teu pior. Que acreditou em ti e que estava pronta a enfrentar o mundo s\u00f3 para te defender.<\/span><\/p>\n

The girl who took care of you, even when you didn\u2019t take care of yourself and the girl who tried to save you from everyone, including yourself. The girl who was ready to move mountains just to see you smile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you never appreciated her or the sacrifices she was making. You took her love for granted, thinking that she\u2019d forever remain a fool who would love you unconditionally despite everything you were doing to her.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que ela continuaria para sempre a tentar dar-te a volta, enquanto tu nem sequer pensavas em fazer o m\u00ednimo esfor\u00e7o na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Que ela desperdi\u00e7aria toda a sua vida a tentar fazer de ti o homem que deverias ter sido desde o in\u00edcio.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that was where you were wrong. After years, you\u2019ve finally done it<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019ve chased her away.<\/span><\/p>\n

And now that you see that she isn\u2019t coming back, you regret it more than anything. Now you see that you should have been different, that you should have been grateful for having her, that you should have seen that she was one of a kind in time and that <\/b>nunca a devias ter deixado ir<\/b><\/a>. Now that you\u2019ve chased her away, you see that you should have loved her more.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? You really should have. But you should have done it in time, while she still cared because now she has opened her eyes, now the roles have switched and now she couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You see, she doesn\u2019t need your love now. You should have given your entire self to this girl while she desperately waited for you to give her the place she deserved in your life for you to commit to her. While she waited for you to get your shit together and show her that you cared.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu sei que <\/b>tem saudades dela<\/b><\/a> because you finally understand some things but it\u2019s too late for it now. <\/b>Devias t\u00ea-la escolhido em vez dos teus amigos de merda e de todas as outras mulheres da tua vida enquanto ela te dava prioridade e ansiava que a pusesses em primeiro lugar. Enquanto ela implorava por migalhas do teu amor e enquanto a \u00fanica coisa que ela queria era a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o total.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena tentar desesperadamente contact\u00e1-la agora. N\u00e3o vale a pena telefonar aos amigos dela, pedir-lhe que lhe d\u00eaem o novo n\u00famero, n\u00e3o vale a pena passar por casa dela, na esperan\u00e7a de a ver e n\u00e3o vale a pena aparecer nos s\u00edtios onde acha que a pode encontrar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Devias ter-lhe telefonado todas as vezes que ela adormeceu num vestido elegante, \u00e0 espera que a fosses buscar, como prometeste, enquanto estavas demasiado ocupado a beber com os teus amigos que agora n\u00e3o est\u00e3o em lado nenhum. Devias ter respondido a todas as chamadas que ela fez a altas horas da noite, quando estava doente de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o e enquanto andavas a comer uma rapariga qualquer que engataste num bar.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is too late for you to remember all the important dates now and to send flowers to her home address. You should have done it all those birthdays ago when she just wanted a midnight kiss from you, all those Valentines ago, when she just wanted you to at least pick a rose for her and all those anniversaries ago, when she just hoped that you\u2019d remember.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de andar atr\u00e1s desta rapariga agora, devia ter sabido que n\u00e3o a devia ter afugentado em primeiro lugar. Em vez de lhe pedires para voltar, devias ter sabido melhor do que faz\u00ea-la ir embora.<\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de tentar voltar \u00e0 vida dela, seja homem o suficiente e deixe-a em paz. Deixa-a ser feliz longe de ti, porque obviamente nunca lhe pudeste dar a felicidade que ela merecia, e deixa-a curar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o que partiste.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 mais uma coisa<\/span>\u2014<\/span>don\u2019t ever hope that you\u2019ll find someone like her. Don\u2019t bother <\/span>procurando-a em todas as mulheres<\/span><\/a> que se aproxima de ti, porque confia em mim<\/span>\u2014<\/span>ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 em lado nenhum.<\/span><\/p>\n

You had your one-time chance for happiness with this girl and you blew it. And this is something you\u2019ll have to spend the rest of your life regretting.  <\/b><\/p>\n

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